Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26
Writers hypocrisy when it comes to Mini.
I think thats what Arya sees in Neil, a father figure.... but Neil can never replace HS. Even though HS was only there for 5 years in Arya's life, he had been the best father.
And ewww on Mini getting married. Mini-Neil so called romance/love is already cringy, imagine them getting married and doing romantic scene 🤢. Cvs have gone mad if they head for Mini-Neil marriage, and I mean if they ever even show that.
Right now Arya is at a stage where she needs stability the most. She already has Minnie filling in the role as her mom, so she's probably thinking that Neil can fill in for her father. Of course, she grows older, she may think otherwise.
Since I'm not watching the show, I have no idea what Neil is like. He may be the best guy out there, I don't know. But from the little that I saw post leap, what I know is that Minnie needs time to cope with the tragedy that befell her. It's the exact same thing that happened with Babita. She needed time to process and figure out who she is post divorce, not jump into another marriage with the first man that she met. Yes, HS was the fricking best guy out there, but he in a way still was the only solid male figure in her life. She never really explored other opportunities. It's the same thing with Minnie. Her parents died, she's having to relocate back to Patiala, is being asked to single handedly raise a five year old girl that she doesn't know that well, is having to let go of the career that she always wanted to pursue her mother's dreams and save the home that gave her a second chance. It's all far too much to take in. If Neil is giving her a lot of support whether it's personal or professional, then that's great! Anyone in Minnie's situation right now would appreciate it. But in that is also the risk of becoming too reliant, and too dependent on the supporter. Minnie needs time to make her own decisions without any guilt, pressure or feeling of helplessness. Especially when it comes to marriage. Again, it's just like Babita. When it came to choosing HS, it was equally important that she chose him for herself as well as Minnie. It'll be the same for Neil. If Minnie chooses him, it'll have to be equally for Arya and Minnie herself.