Asim's Brother Fat-shames Shehnaaz - Page 6

Normally I dont agree with Shaz, but she has a point here.

Yep that came out looking dumb. Whatever his intentions were, he shouldve left the comment somewhere else if he was not able to communicate properly . Besides that part, he came out looking really good and well mannered esp with the rest. 😳

Originally posted by: periphery

Yes he should have worded it better. Like just saying you look so much better and fitter in person.

Otherwise, I feel he's been a thorough gentleman every time he came on the show, even when Jay & Mahi Vij were being absolute biatches right in front Salman. 😆

This season has been so crass in terms of insulting one another that it's tiresome now.

well said! Totally agree... Umar was nervous to be on TV today could tell ..

Originally posted by: Rahm

Trust me if Sid's mom had said that to Sana there would have been 200 topics on it.

Exactly. 😆That would have been classed as mount everest.🤣

Originally posted by: KunwaariDaayan

Exactly. 😆That would have been classed as mount everest.🤣

Tell me about it.

I love how people claim to know umars intent. I didn't realize some of us had the ability to be inside someone else's mind and see their intent.

Also nervousness or not, I don't know many men that feel comfortable passing comments about a stranger's weight.

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

I have to appreciate the TM here for her bravery in making a post against the reigning deities of this forum where even the mildest criticism against them brings on so many personal attacks.

Thank you dear. 😳

You have no idea, well probably do have some idea lol, of the the love and adulation I am showered with on here just for putting forth a mere opinion. 😳

Mods ka bhi blessed prasad agayi hain. 😳😆

Originally posted by: Rahm

Tell me about it.

I love how people claim to know umars intent. I didn't realize some of us had the ability to be inside someone else's mind and see their intent.

Also nervousness or not, I don't know many men that feel comfortable passing comments about a stranger's weight.

Don't you know Riaz brothers can never go wrong

Intent is what matters here

.fat shaming is something which is done DELIBERATELY !

Yes Umar could have worded the statement in a better way BUT Asim said he was nervous too ! Plus time was also running out coz BB had asked him to leave as well

What his intention was that he wanted to compliment Sana that she looked very more SLIM in person

We all know how well he behaved with even bullies like Paras and Shukla !

Also those who are saying that Shukla is a FRIEND so he can call Sana MOTI ! This is nothing but hypocrisy in my opinion!

Asking a couple of KIDS to call your own friend MOTI in front of ohers is okay BUT if a person who didn't even intend to call Sana fat is being targeted ! Wow ! 🤣

If we are targeting then I can say :

Look at Shukla TEACHING KIDS BODY SHAMING

Look at Shukla insulting his own friend in front of others ! Calling a FRIEND names is okay BUT insulting them in front of others is definitely hurtful

So, let's not make a mountain out a mole hill here! Umar's intention was certainly not to bodyshame Sana. . He wanted to complement her BUT couldn't put across his views properly

Actually a month or more ago when Kesari fat-shammed Sana it was Asim who took stand for Sana despite the fact they didnt get along.

Coming to Umar, it is quite surprising that he will do the opposite, mujhe nahi lagta he had intentions to fat-sham her, I think he didnt mean what he said.

Originally posted by: Rahm

Tell me about it.

I love how people claim to know umars intent. I didn't realize some of us had the ability to be inside someone else's mind and see their intent.

Also nervousness or not, I don't know many men that feel comfortable passing comments about a stranger's weight.

Funny thing is, nobody on here knows Umar personally, nor is he in the BB house to come to the conclusion that he's a true gentleman. Yet that's what's being given as justification.

And words coming out wrong or not-Don't get how he's words could have come out this wrong. Anyone who is told that by some stranger thy just meet, woh bhi for the 1st as well-sure is gonna find it quite offending.

If he was really a true gentleman he'd not have brought anything to do with her weight up at all. Gentleman try to make a lady feel comfortable. Not offended or uneasy. And judging by Shezu's expressions, she did seem kinda taken aback and down with the stastment.And of all things to say to her, why her weight? There's plenty more to have been said about her game for one.

I agree...i dont doubt his intentions but sana did felt bad......sana has been good with asim mostly.....usse koi achi baat keh sakta tha ya kuch nahi kehta. Khair.....i think sana got sad for that time only.....jyaada dil pe nahi li usne baat thankfully. Ek toh sid usse moti moti karta rehta hain and now umar told ki screen pe jyaada moti dikhti hain. But as asim said.....umar bahut nervous bhi tha khud.....uska intention nahi tha.....he thought usse woh situation ko light kar raha hain.