Sana should just leave - Page 6

Originally posted by: SoPunk

Madam you didn't read my post, please read it. I'm not talking about any mental health issue, I am being blamed for mocking a mental health patient and I just want to know which mental health patient did I mock?

I wouldn't take your or anyone elses diagnosis as a conformation of her being a mental health patient. It has to come from official BB medical channel.

Until then she is a normal contestant to me. I'm not a doctor and I don't want to speculate. When bb medic will declare her to be a mental health patient, I will treat her as one. 😊

This is exactly the problem, we want others to take responsibility for everything , we don't want to know, that's why i keep repeating myself ,it's awareness that is more important, with awareness comes compassion and understanding.... My reply is incomplete..I have to go and sleep to look after those who need me the most, my patients FYI , I'm a doctor.good night :)

Originally posted by: Priya9.

I won't blame you, but I won't stop myself from saying

This is exactly the problem, we want others to take responsibility for everything , we don't want to know, that's why i keep repeating myself ,it's awareness that is more important, with awareness comes compassion and understanding.... My reply is incomplete..I have to go and sleep to look after those who need me the most, my patients FYI , I'm a doctor.good night :)

I hear you and it is really great to see that you are trying your best to explain things. 👏👏

I was trying a bit too in sidnaaz thread along with a few others who saw Sana's symptoms and are concerned that BB team along with Salman thinks that Sana's problem can be fixed by scolding her and giving her some punishment.

Yes, all this is good for BB TRP and show Salman as hero but it is worrying what damage those two hours after scolding will do Sana.

Forget about providing expert help, it seems Salman stopped even Sid to go with her. I am not sure if Sid's presence would've helped her but he is the only one who is able to calm down her symptoms.

I really wish more doctors speak on this and something can be done to help her problem before it damages her further.

firstly.. sidnaaz ka sab se zaadha baathein shenaaz karthi hai.. shukla nahi kartha ..

secondly.. salman ne shenaaz ko bohut bacchi ki tarah treat kiya...

pehala mujhe bhi laga ki shenaaz bacchi hi hai.. par nahi..

finally salman ki aankh khul gaye..

ye bacchi waala naatak abb bohut boring ho gaya ya hai..

Originally posted by: bbsai

firstly.. sidnaaz ka sab se zaadha baathein shenaaz karthi hai.. shukla nahi kartha ..

secondly.. salman ne shenaaz ko bohut bacchi ki tarah treat kiya...

pehala mujhe bhi laga ki shenaaz bacchi hi hai.. par nahi..

finally salman ki aankh khul gaye..

ye bacchi waala naatak abb bohut boring ho gaya ya hai..

I agree, I think she's going overboard with this SudNaaz thing and she's sacrificing her self respect to keep it alive. Currently it has become very irritating.

Originally posted by: Priya9.

I won't blame you, but I won't stop myself from saying

This is exactly the problem, we want others to take responsibility for everything , we don't want to know, that's why i keep repeating myself ,it's awareness that is more important, with awareness comes compassion and understanding.... My reply is incomplete..I have to go and sleep to look after those who need me the most, my patients FYI , I'm a doctor.good night :)

I agree to you 100% that mental health issue needs awareness; but that shouldn't be used to defend her disgraceful conducts. That's unfair for the other contestants.

What's wrong should be called out as wrong, giving her a pass & normalizing her actions under the cover of mental health issues, is unfair not only for others, but damaging for her also. She will think she's normal, where as criticizing her will atleast alert her of abnormality at the end of the show. So she can consult some experts. 😊

Originally posted by: Priya9.

It's a very interesting concept , applicable to various , aspects of life, I transfer that concept to IF based on multiple polls I have conducted - I note there is this 80-20 distribution of results . So I applied that rule here....when I first started writing her, I was angry against whole India, but I slowly realised that majority of the people here atleast ,have the western attitude of fairness equality and justice...anyway ,, I'm unable to reflect completely, what I want to say...but wish to say, ignorance is probably, the most likely reason people don't understand issues, we need to be patient and kind and change will hopefully happen..sorry ..it's midnight now and I'm working early -so chalo have a good time ..

More Info on actual rule is below

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle

Ooo that's interesting. Thank you for the link, I enjoyed reading it.

But yeah I agree with everything you said. Also just ignore the ignorant in the thread, they tend to exhaust people with their tin foil theories.

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I agree, I think she's going overboard with this SudNaaz thing and she's sacrificing her self respect to keep it alive. Currently it has become very irritating.

not seen episode yet.. par kuch clips dhekha hai..

even entertainment task mein bhi sidnaaz bol rahi thi jab sid ka turn tha stage pe..

n Mahira ko rula ke bohut kushi aathi hai Shenaaz ko..

agar sach mein kuch prob hai tho show se nikaal ke doc ko dhikao..

agar bacchi ki acting hi kar rahi hai tho kisi ko thappad na maaro.. na kisi ko rulaao..

sab ko bada bann, relationshps ka advice dethi ghoom thi hai.. bacchi tho bilkul nahi hai..

bas abb sab ke saamne daant pada tho rona shuru..

main point ye hai ki shenaaz ko uska dhuk.. dhuk lag tha hai..

doosron ko rula rahi hai shenaaz .. ye kaisi entertainer hai..

doosron ka dhuk pe hasi aa thi hai..

chappal thappad maarne mein bahi kushi ho thi hai shenaaz ko ..

pata nahi kyu vikram betaal ki khaani bohut yaad aa rahi hai sid-shenaaz ko dhek ke..

ps: not paras or mahira fan.. shenaaz ki fan thi..abb nahi...

Originally posted by: Priya9.

Totally agree. I believe 80% of population is against wrong and proactive for standing for what is right and doing right, but the other 20% ruin it , I'm sure You heard about the 80-20 rule...

Shukla par akar pareto principle fail ho jaata he. 20% log beakkal ho bhi toh baaki votes usko kaha se aa rahe he lol big mystery to me.

Originally posted by: bbsai

not seen episode yet.. par kuch clips dhekha hai..

even entertainment task mein bhi sidnaaz bol rahi thi jab sid ka turn tha stage pe..

n Mahira ko rula ke bohut kushi aathi hai Shenaaz ko..

agar sach mein kuch prob hai tho show se nikaal ke doc ko dhikao..

agar bacchi ki acting hi kar rahi hai tho kisi ko thappad na maaro.. na kisi ko rulaao..

sab ko bada bann, relationshps ka advice dethi ghoom thi hai.. bacchi tho bilkul nahi hai..

bas abb sab ke saamne daant pada tho rona shuru..

main point ye hai ki shenaaz ko uska dhuk.. dhuk lag tha hai..

doosron ko rula rahi hai shenaaz .. ye kaisi entertainer hai..

doosron ka dhuk pe hasi aa thi hai..

chappal thappad maarne mein bahi kushi ho thi hai shenaaz ko ..

pata nahi kyu vikram betaal ki khaani bohut yaad aa rahi hai sid-shenaaz ko dhek ke..

ps: not paras or mahira fan.. shenaaz ki fan thi..abb nahi...

Agar sana shukla ka use kar rai he toh shikla too is doing the same. Dono me se koi blameless nai he. Shukla is equally to blame for sticking to sidnaaz crap and milking it.

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I agree to you 100% that mental health issue needs awareness; but that shouldn't be used to defend her disgraceful conducts. That's unfair for the other contestants.

What's wrong should be called out as wrong, giving her a pass & normalizing her actions under the cover of mental health issues, is unfair not only for others, but damaging for her also. She will think she's normal, where as criticizing her will atleast alert her of abnormality at the end of the show. So she can consult some experts. 😊

Fair unfair ki baat toh tab hoti hai if she is well. You can compare her with normal people only if she has recovered. She can't think like us or straight.

To compare it in real world, BB tells Sid or Paras to not participate in tasks when they were not well. It is not exactly same but thats as n example i could think of.

The challenge is it can get worse if not treated in time. I dont even know how much her family understands it or know. So, even if her father comes, it may support her emotionally but that is still not a treatment.

As the creatives and Salman are also not aware, they are not realising its impact on Shehnaaz.

In this whole thing, the only person that came out as sensible is Sid. I am not a medical professional but he seems to be able to calm her symptoms down.