SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 9:My Problem is I like u - Page 63

I feel BB wants Sid to confess Sana 🤣

Originally posted by: hira221

Oh I thought you knew the exact name of this kind of problem.

She did mention getting panic attacks and anxiety 🥺

It doesn’t have to have the exact name and we can’t predict. We only know symptoms from the things we’ve read. We can’t give a diagnosis obviously but she definitely seems to have childhood trauma and abandonment issues from not being treated well. If you just google trauma and read about it, you’ll get an idea.
Trauma brings with it anxiety, depression etc.

Toxic relationships, could be parental, friends, romantic relationships.
Read about psychological triggers too.

Originally posted by: Bee93

I feel like most people here don’t even want to understand what the issue is. But isse hi kaha jaata hai andhbhakti.

Nobody here fu*king cares about the promo FFS!
Or about the creatives or Salman.

Salman sees this as a disrespect coz he bloody operates from his ego. Matlab insaan ka mental and emotional break down nahi ho sakta uske saamne? Wow.

What we’re saying is Salman, the creatives and the channel should know better than to bully her about what clearly is a psychological trigger.
End mein sab theek ho jayega, Sid aur Sana khushi khushi rahenge. Shaadi bhi kar lenge.
Par uski mental health ko jo asar hona tha wo ho agaya!
That can’t be changed and will likely take even more time to heal.
If someone immediately becomes normal and looks happy does not mean they’re fine.


Baat ko samjho. React mat karo. Samjhke respond karo. Observe karo, judge mat karo.

Yahi bolne ki koshish kar rahe hain.

I just hope ke log tumhare iss post ko aaram se padhe aur samjhe. And not take it on them.

This is something everyone should know as everyone has some or other kind of impact. Just like it can be as small as khansi zukam or as bad as typhoid depending on what it is and when it is treated.

Originally posted by: Bee93

I feel like most people here don’t even want to understand what the issue is. But isse hi kaha jaata hai andhbhakti.

Nobody here fu*king cares about the promo FFS!
Or about the creatives or Salman.

Salman sees this as a disrespect coz he bloody operates from his ego. Matlab insaan ka mental and emotional break down nahi ho sakta uske saamne? Wow.

What we’re saying is Salman, the creatives and the channel should know better than to bully her about what clearly is a psychological trigger.
End mein sab theek ho jayega, Sid aur Sana khushi khushi rahenge. Shaadi bhi kar lenge.
Par uski mental health ko jo asar hona tha wo ho agaya!
That can’t be changed and will likely take even more time to heal.
If someone immediately becomes normal and looks happy does not mean they’re fine.


Baat ko samjho. React mat karo. Samjhke respond karo. Observe karo, judge mat karo.

The problem also is that sana fake cries often it’s sometimes difficult for the other person to differentiate.

Even Sid initially though she was faking it and she was initially but later it turned serious. Sid realised how much it was effecting her, he kept logic aside and just said sorry to make her feel better.

Hopefully tomorrow Sid will help her calm down before things get worse.

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I heard that night convo again ..

Sid said u r fond of me ..theres liking but u still love paras ..

Sana then almost confessed saying that how can u say this..all the hugs and kisses we did ..what was all that ..nothing fr u ?

So sid said thats just comfort level we share and 70% of those things u did just to mk paras jealous ..

Sana was shocked here and said it was just till 1st finale..after that u know things changed ..

They cut the convo here and morning she was affected ..

So I guess she is affected bec Sid misunderstood her love fr him just as means to mk paras jealous ..

but she also said she has soft corner for him! He is a nice person! I think when such convo happens at that time telling your current lover about your previous crush quality is a wrong move and obviously again it makes the other person also feel that his thoughts are right! I feel here Sid has put across his concerns, he was very straightforward when he asked are you in love with me, she again at that time as well naming Paras has her next priority has hit him! You may have a liking as a friend for him, but there are lot of things which has made Sid feel the way he feels now

So he isn’t wrong! The whole house feels that Sana is hurt and Sid is the reason and he is being unreasonable ! He loves her, but feels she is doing to make Paras jealous, but when she cries or is hurt he is the reason for it! How long can he take it? No one has come to him and said that Sid, Sana only loves you and she has told us, and he expects that from Sana

He said, he likes her, it’s his problem that he likes her, I believe it that if not for Sid’s support Sana wouldn’t have come so far in the competition!
He has been there for her in every step!

When you look at all this, I feel no one else other than Sid deserves to win this show! I will say it will be unfair if anyone else wins this show

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

Sana respects paras.. when he was bashing her with mahira the only thing she could utter was i respect u paras.. sana has supported too much and expects him to be considerate of her at least one.. she is a softie at heart.. she can't keep grudges.. paras is punjabi that is why usko 'apna apna' lagta hai...

sorry that punjabi one I don’t agree. It’s because she had a liking initially makes her feel that way! When she has never mentioned about her liking to Paras has never been punjabi why do we say that? She has said even today that she respects him, has soft corner! He is in love with a wrong girl!?

Originally posted by: Bee93

It doesn’t have to have the exact name and we can’t predict. We only know symptoms from the things we’ve read. We can’t give a diagnosis obviously but she definitely seems to have childhood trauma and abandonment issues from not being treated well. If you just google trauma and read about it, you’ll get an idea.
Trauma brings with it anxiety, depression etc.

Toxic relationships, could be parental, friends, romantic relationships.
Read about psychological triggers too.

She stayed at her grandparents house when she was young and they weren’t very nice to her. She mentioned it in an USUD. Could be one reason for her issues.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

sorry that punjabi one I don’t agree. It’s because she had a liking initially makes her feel that way! When she has never mentioned about her liking to Paras has never been punjabi why do we say that? She has said even today that she respects him, has soft corner! He is in love with a wrong girl!?

She liked his terha dimag the most. She’s said it a million times. “Naughty dimag”

Originally posted by: intruderfast

My last words for some time. Precap pe mat jaao. Apni akal lagaao and poora episode dekh lo pehle .

For todays episode, sid needs clarity.

Sana needs to be honest . And sid needs to make more efforts

I think here Sana needs to confess and he needs clarity! Sid is still making efforts! Paritosh wasn’t wrong when he said to Sana here Sid cannot help you perform and you need to do it yourself! It’s fact he has been there for her all the time

Originally posted by: hira221

The problem also is that sana fake cries often it’s sometimes difficult for the other person to differentiate.

Even Sid initially though she was faking it and she was initially but later it turned serious. Sid realised how much it was effecting her, he kept logic aside and just said sorry to make her feel better.

Hopefully tomorrow Sid will help her calm down before things get worse.

All that is Sana's internal defense mechanism.

We talk about immunity for physical disease, right?

Has somebody seen taare zameen par? It wasn't exactly a mental health problem bur a lot of logic provided by Aamir will work here too.