Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
yaar its hell to have such mother... seen kids of broken family where both parents are like this trying to control kids n asking them to take sides, i feel so bad for such people yaar.. its actually so embarrassing sometimes to have such parents any where we go if they create drama it affects the kid so much.. Abir is managing it so well more than his baba truth this will affect him life long yaar...
i'm not saying about solution Uru as they will surely find it either disowning her completely or deciding to live alone but my main question is how supportive mah family or mishti or kuhu are gonna be in this... is there a guarantee that after boys decided a solution these girls will oppose n want them to get back with their mother... they can only give solution uru but if they dont get needed support whats their fault abir already gave this option but what happened...
I understand that your point , don't want to bring in real life but my mom believes that more than the boy you have to look at boy's family especially the parents, coz in India family is an equal part and aspect to decide on marriage.......where abir is a spotless man , perfect from all angles , his family especially his mother let's him down
Our ajeeb rajvansh, while breaking up with mishti said that " tumhari life mein koi aisa ladka aaye jiski kismat abir rajvansh jaisi na ho ", today I saw those words getting played , the difference in abir and nannu more about their own characteristics, its about the family background that they have , while nannu has a family to fall back upon , abir actually is helpless in that case , however jasmeet is , she is a good mother whereas for abir we kno how pathetic and horrible his parents are , actually there is no one in the family who "cares" for him and his feelings rather its opposite , he is the one who is caring for others...this is the main contrast here , abir is a wonderful spotless man but somehow his family background lets him down ( which is not his fault at all , its always his kismat which has badly played him and that's why I have a softer corner for abir in my heart