An interesting theory...

Ok so I swore that I woulnt try an analyze these two cartoons and their situation anymore and just go w/ the flow BUT I shared my theory in another thread and I got some positive responses. So I thought I'd make a seperate thread regarding my theory.

Now if you think about this for just one second with a sound mind, you'll realize that what I'm about to say actually makes sense.

Could it be that when Armaan was about to kiss Riddhima on the lips, she could've gotten scared and just said anything that came out of her mouth? When she said that she wasn't sure about their relationship, she could've just been really afraid because of his physical advances, you know what I mean? I mean c'mon Im sure that Riddhima is sure w/ their relationship, but his violence tends to get her very scared. Remember in the stairwell when he wanted to tell her parents, and she said no, and then he grabbed her hard? And she said that when you do stuff like this, you make me think?

And another thing...if you remember her dialogue correctly, she said that "kissi bhi rishte se pehle hum dost hai...aur mein yahan dost ki haisiyat se ayi hun" SO she acknowledged that they are more than friends, but that first and foremost they are friends. So, what I am saying is that she never said that they arent more than friends, but she did say that before anything else they are friends. And thats true. Every romantic relationship starts out as a friendship.

All Armaan caught was the word "dost" he didnt catch what was between the lines. Also, Armaan should know better than to kiss the girl after shes seen such a violent side to him. See this is the problem with both of them. He was in a hurry to find out what was bugging Riddhima after the party and didnt give her a chance to cool down---the result, she gets angry w/ him in the stairwell and he leaves. Right now, shes turning around and doing the same thing to him---the result, hes lashing out at her.

The main problem is that they dont give each other a chance to speak and explain themselves, nor do they give each other a chance to breathe and calm down---the result, a bad relationship that can be cured if they just communicate!!!!

ArmiRidz, you need to listen to each other and breathe darlings! I mean c'mon! This is like the first rule for a healthy relationship.

Oh yeah, and dont get me wrong guys, I LOVE Armaan like a fat kid loves cake...this is just a theory. I find Armaan unbelievably Hot and Sweet and Caring (when he wants to be)! Seriously, he Rocks my Socks! He is wonderful marriage material minus the violence. I would marry a guy like Armaan any day!

i agree..they need to communicate...
their lack of good communication creates all these misunderstandings...which is why they are at a bad poiny of their relationship...

and Oh yeah...

I love Armaan...like a fat kid loves cake..TOO 😆

I luv it!!...I agree with u 1000%...U put both Armaan && Riddhima in a good light..&& u picked out their flaws in a very good way...

Very interesting theory! 👏

And LOL.. who wouldn't want to marry Armaan.. 😳 😳 HAI.. HAI.. 😳 😳

U know what...To tell you the truth..I think u've nailed it here....
this has to be the reason..coz they both love each other..thats for sure...just the way they express is different
and they r just not ready to see each others point of view..both r stubborn and strong willed people

there has to be an intervention from someone yaar..someone needs to get them to talk to each other..
coz there have been instances where they have communicated..like after that night scene on the stairs..in the basket ball court..they have communicated..
they need to do it now too

Mmmmmmm! very interesting theory. You've nudged my brain on that as well. Now I am thinking, the lack of communication between them maybe because they are immature.

Everyone understand that Ridhima is immature for love cause it is her first love. So she doesn't know how to react or what to say.

Everyone think Armaan had lots of girlfriends before cause he was flirtatious at college and always around girls. So everyone assume that he should be experienced on how to behave with girls and all that.

But "my theory" on that is, maybe he was not really deeply in love with those girls. Maybe he was just enjoying their company and enjoy being a flirt. So that makes this, his first love as well. and he doesn't know how to behave and what to do when he is really in love.

So that leads to not being able to solve problems. Not being able to communicate due to their ego and act stupidily. Like today or like in Kasauli!!!

What say you guys???

very well said.. U kno I was thinkin the same kind of thing.. I mean u kno, armi gets physical at times.. nd dats wat scares ridz.. Bt u know wat? I think armi will b chilled out now, nd tease ridz like old dayz.. lol jst 2 make her confess.. he knows exactly how 2 treat her.. Personally, I think both r at small faults.. Plus, we hav got nana now,.. oh by the way, did u see the look on armi's face wen he sees the kada on her hand.. bt then, wen she looked at him, he looked away.. he was actually melting!He still loves her man nd she loves him coz I m sure she did nt digest the fact that armi went wid muski.. bt as we kno, its jst a matter of their ego issues nd time..

Prapti

thanks for the comments, guys! its greatly appreciated!

well sed....communication is the key to a good relationship

i guess you are right.... but she could have clarified it later..i mean in the morning when he came to give her the breakfast...