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Originally posted by: The_incredible

I don't want to compare but something is forcing me to do that...the problem is with makers,they want us to do that..

I don't want nannu in mishbir story yaar..no offense to actor but I don't want him..let him go somewhere...😆😆

So you know makers are forcing to do and you still do 😆😆 Isse acha toh main kar rahi thi points comparison but you stopped me that day 😆 I was joking that still day still I stopped cuz you didn't like it so if I ask you to stop today will you do the same ?

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Happy new year 🤗🤗 Arey aapne new year wish kiya tha pehle 😆

Haan I miss her 😳

Kal se aana shuru honge lagta hai 😆😆

achha kiya tha kya..😆 i feel like, I havent to talk to anyone from last 2 weeks.. missing Pali too.. Hope we all can do our masti soon.. CV please give us those MishBir moments back..

Originally posted by: preeti200

Me too with you both. I don’t hate Nannu but he can never compare to Abir. Circumstances and actually dear darling Nannu the BFF’s stupid idea of NishMish attack pushed Abir 2.0 to behave the way he is behaving now.

Nannu's idea to nishmish attack , really ...I mean he did initiate the idea but did he ask mishti to go to NGO abs flaunt that pendant and say nannu ne diya hai ... nishmish think was a partnership thing done by both nishant and mishti , cant put all the blame on nannu just because he initiated the idea , the plan of actions was decided by mishti

Secondly they were almost successful, abir did send the ballons and he did decide to come out with truth but meenu spiked the drink idea changed the game for all

Thirdly being in jealousy gives no right to abir to repeatedly ignore what mishti is trying to say

We all love abir so do I, but these are the facts we cant ignore

Originally posted by: surabhi12345

For me, that is not what I meant. We know the man has done plenty for Mishti but the harsh realiyy is that it was never without a gain, as unwanted or hindsided it could have been. Also haldi track was nothing for Abir as compared to what Mishti had to endure and the man did nothing for Mishti. He got her back because he loved her, that's it. Mishti did a lot for his family instead. Had Abir cared about Mishti's family as selflessly as Mishti, he would have stopped the marriage and saved Kuhu after Kunal ran away.

Again, I understand completely where he is coming from. He loves her very much and his family too and they have been there for each other as needed but the very fact that is trying to get Abir to a realization is the fact that he wasn't ready emotionally and fell weak/ short to match what was needed, otherwise he would have gone to Kunal the day BB asked him to break the alliance and would have talked to him like grownups.

I love Abir's character and it's true that he is shown with flaws and very rightfully so. It's important to not have a perfectly white character and as a person who is liking the layers of the story, I enjoy that.

To be honest, in my real life, I'm a weaker one in the relationship like Abir and my man is the strongest ever, so I relate to the realities of Abir more 😂😅😔😐

I completely disagree.

a. Abir stood up for Mishti when she wanted a courtship

b. Abir stood up for Mishti in the chashma track because he din't want to her to let go of her individuality for her partner

c. Abir supported Mishti when she broke the rishta

On all these occasions, Abir had no guarantee that Mishti will ever love him back. To imply he supported her because he loved her and it was his selfishness is extremely unfair IMO. He would have supported her even if she rejected him and chose to marry Kunal. His love was always selfless pre-leap. And just because you love someone, it doesn't always come with implicit trust and understanding. Even BM and BP refused to support Mishti during the haldi khaand but Abir did. He always loved and trusted people with all his heart and that is a great attribute.

Abir did not stop the marriage because he was convinced Kunal and Kuhu love each other and he was sure Meenu is messing with Kunal. Not because he somehow wanted the two to marry just to save his relationship with Mishti. He didn't want Kuhu to go through that humiliation and he was sure KuKu loved each other. As flawed as that thinking was, I just dont see how he was selfish here?

I dont deny he had a lot of flaws but I honestly feel like he deserved way more acknowledgement for some of the stuff he did.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

yourself and yrhpk_aus was too missing

yrhpk_aus is active, she was here yesterday

Originally posted by: preeti200

They can still do the damage control by showing Abir’s POV for his behavior with Mish post leap. We understand it’s his jealousy and disbelief speaking but want to know what his inner turmoil looks like

Well said Preeti. agree with you.. 👍🏼 aaj kal kuchh sensible expect karana bekar hai..

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

Ohh dear. Hope she feels better soon.

Yeah .. new year resolution is to visit forum at least few minutes in a day , no matter how I am busy 😆

I came couple times but timing was bad.. no one was active 😆 hopefully once story will come on track, we all can come on one track at same time 😉😊

Yeah missing the light of this forum.

Gr8 resolution ha👍🏼

Yeah we have been hoping for a long time now😆

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

Okay just to clarify, my intention was not to demean Nishant. Am indifferent to him and all other characters at this point because I always watched this show only for Abir and Mishti. I stopped watching because they were lost 😆 It's just that I do think Abir was an amazing guy. Not just to Mishti but also to Kuhu and Ketki. He let people talk, he let everyone have an opinion, he always gave people a chance to explain themselves and loved and trusted with all his heart. He got betrayed by his mom, brother and father and the writers haven't bothered to give him a POV or a breakdown to show how much he has actually been through. Just because Abir 2 has no POV, is hardly on screen and behaves like an idiot, it wouldn't take away from Abir's awesomeness in anyway. Forget Nishant, Abir was a great guy in his own right. A sensitive feminist with no ego. And I honestly believe any girl would be happy to get a partner like him. Despite that horrid family he had. And that girl would have run with the option of living separately with him and wouldn't engage in all this unnecessary drama in real life 😛

Words 🤗 abir is unbeatable and he still is cuz when he realises, he accepts his mistakes and makes an effort to correct them !

To be honest he dosent deserve a comparison to prove how good he is ... so requesting everyone to not demean one to praise another

#KeepItSeperate

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

yourself and yrhpk_aus was too missing

are ha.. Nandu is missing and Pali too.. But Pali is on vacation.. she might join next week.. Pali sath sath achhe din bhi leke aayegi..😆 by the time this MU might get clear..

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

achha kiya tha kya..😆 i feel like, I havent to talk to anyone from last 2 weeks.. missing Pali too.. Hope we all can do our masti soon.. CV please give us those MishBir moments back..

I know I miss the old forum too 😆😆 Even in sad tracks we used to have fun chaa par ab toh 😆😆 wo bhi nahi ho pata