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Originally posted by: surabhi12345

You are speaking my mind girl! I'm glad Mishti didn't marry Abir, not yet, because while Abir lives her with all his heart, he wasn't ever able to protect her from his family, be it Kunal or BB. He didn't even know what all BB did to Mishti. Marrying in that household would have converted the show into a typical saas bahu drama and that's exactly why I didn't watch ITv.

I would've bee happier had the makers let Mishti be single for some time and Abir reach out to her purely because he felt bad for what he did and his love for her but I guess makers feel that jealousy is the only way to get the truth out.

I hope it's a track to make Abir realize that he cannot prioritise one relationship over the other and definitely grow some balls. If not, Shaheer should quit because that man can act! And he needs something stronger to bring out the actor in him not the crap.

Hopefully we see that soon.

BTW, haven't said this ever since never had a direct message exchange with you so saying it now, I absolutely love and enjoy your posts. No matter how much the episode sucks, you make me laugh with your 'insightful 😈' comments. Thank you for sharing a piece of your quirky brain with us.

Never expected so much appreciation in my entire life 🤣

Thanks a ton. Credit goes to "MY LIFE "and india forums ; its beautiful members who play with their writing skills 😄

They inspire me and 👻👻👻 who brings %%$$## out of me to write these things in forum. 😈

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I want nishmish Shaadi to happen and he better Mishti away to London.,Kam se kam people won't blame Abir for mishti's happiness.. and Kuhu what was that??both of the RV boys did a lot of mistakes.but there was one thing in common that is the involvement of bb in every single thing and didn't she tried to kill Mishti,lagta hai ki woh yeh sab bhul gayi

let Abir and Kunal stay single for whole lyf.after seeing all the comments,I don't want Abir to fyt back..let him give up on his story and do udd Chala..I would love to see a banjaara Abir rather than a torn Abir...🤗🤗

Dekho kuhu ka kaand bhool jao ...yeh baat saamne kabhi nahi ayegi 🤣 Also now she has grown up to be a better much much better person so its okay, more than apology I believe in actions after that

And chill people telling that they like nishant doesn't mean they hate abir and vice versa ...all of us unanimously want abir to be a strong person again and take responsibility of his actions, that's all

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I completely agree with u...seems like we both r on same page..seeing all this I just want everything to end...I agree nannu is a frnd that Mish deserve..but at the cost of Abir's character assassination!!Abir 1.0 tbh is way better than nannu...sorry guys but that's what I feel..nannu is good in his own way..but I want someone to pack him and sent him to Mars..and never return😆😆

Me too with you both. I don’t hate Nannu but he can never compare to Abir. Circumstances and actually dear darling Nannu the BFF’s stupid idea of NishMish attack pushed Abir 2.0 to behave the way he is behaving now.

For me, that is not what I meant. We know the man has done plenty for Mishti but the harsh realiyy is that it was never without a gain, as unwanted or hindsided it could have been. Also haldi track was nothing for Abir as compared to what Mishti had to endure and the man did nothing for Mishti. He got her back because he loved her, that's it. Mishti did a lot for his family instead. Had Abir cared about Mishti's family as selflessly as Mishti, he would have stopped the marriage and saved Kuhu after Kunal ran away.

Again, I understand completely where he is coming from. He loves her very much and his family too and they have been there for each other as needed but the very fact that is trying to get Abir to a realization is the fact that he wasn't ready emotionally and fell weak/ short to match what was needed, otherwise he would have gone to Kunal the day BB asked him to break the alliance and would have talked to him like grownups.

I love Abir's character and it's true that he is shown with flaws and very rightfully so. It's important to not have a perfectly white character and as a person who is liking the layers of the story, I enjoy that.

To be honest, in my real life, I'm a weaker one in the relationship like Abir and my man is the strongest ever, so I relate to the realities of Abir more 😂😅😔😐

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

For all the Nishant v Abir comparisons here, I agree the writers have destroyed Abir post leap but am shocked ppl think Abir never respected or stood up for Mishti the way Nishant is doing 😲 He has his flaws but man he actually supported Mishti in the haldi track when her own family didn't. And was prepared to leave his house and live separately with her because she deserved respect. And we are saying he only gave her love? Am sorry but Abir 1.0 was incredible and deserves more acknowledgm ent than this 😆

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

Uruuu 🤗 happy new year 🥳.. I don’t think we chatted after new year 😛

Good that Diyu will come online.. hope she feels better soon.

Waiting episode to get uploaded.. and desperately waiting this MU gets clear soon.. 😛

“writers ji humare achhe din kab aayenge “😆

Happy new year 🤗🤗 Arey aapne new year wish kiya tha pehle 😆

Haan I miss her 😳

Kal se aana shuru honge lagta hai 😆😆

Originally posted by: ASHREENA

I think abir refused to think of anything about mishti because he cant let go of his love her...when the kunal reality broke out he was busy pacifying baby kunal to keep his family together that he did not try to understand why mishti did what she did....things kept on getting worse when nannu was always around mishti..they never got that space to communicate because abir at that point choose not ro listen...sometimes best friends don't make great husbands....in a relationship love comes first then trust then friendship then commitment.....atleast thats how I see it...in friendship is trust and having someone who you can share everything with without commitment.....different people see things differently and I really dont see the need to rush the marriage....I would not do that to my daughter...

Thst depends whether your daughter had a SaaS like meenu who openly gave a threat to you that she will go to any extent to torture her...the need for BP to rush this marriage was that he dosent want to give any chance to abir to come back in mishti's life cuz abir back in her life means meenu back too , so BP wants to close all the doors to that possibility and since nishant has a compaitiviely sorted background here ,BP agreed

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

Uruuu 🤗 happy new year 🥳.. I don’t think we chatted after new year 😛

Good that Diyu will come online.. hope she feels better soon.

Waiting episode to get uploaded.. and desperately waiting this MU gets clear soon.. 😛

“writers ji humare achhe din kab aayenge “😆

Okay just to clarify, my intention was not to demean Nishant. Am indifferent to him and all other characters at this point because I always watched this show only for Abir and Mishti. I stopped watching because they were lost 😆 It's just that I do think Abir was an amazing guy. Not just to Mishti but also to Kuhu and Ketki. He let people talk, he let everyone have an opinion, he always gave people a chance to explain themselves and loved and trusted with all his heart. He got betrayed by his mom, brother and father and the writers haven't bothered to give him a POV or a breakdown to show how much he has actually been through. Just because Abir 2 has no POV, is hardly on screen and behaves like an idiot, it wouldn't take away from Abir's awesomeness in anyway. Forget Nishant, Abir was a great guy in his own right. A sensitive feminist with no ego. And I honestly believe any girl would be happy to get a partner like him. Despite that horrid family he had. And that girl would have run with the option of living separately with him and wouldn't engage in all this unnecessary drama in real life 😛

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

All blame should go to writers they really shown Abir 1.0 is so so different than Abir 2.0..

when they started after leap, I was so excited.. but now recently again unnecessary MU track.. I know it’s gonna end soon .. but fir bhi.. because of this they had to show NishMish’a Roka.. Abir not trusting Mish and even don’t want to listen what is trying to say from long time .. 😔 showing Abir 2.0 so different from prev Abir .. they both look completely diff character.. Baal cut kya ho gaye..poora character change kar diya

pata nahi aur kitana raita failange

I waiting for the day if they can bring that charm back that we used wait everyday..

They can still do the damage control by showing Abir’s POV for his behavior with Mish post leap. We understand it’s his jealousy and disbelief speaking but want to know what his inner turmoil looks like

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Because he never knew the reality of their bond too!!If that is the case why don't Nishant stops her mom from calling her Muhboli?

I agree ,

But praising nishant dosent mean degrading abir or vice versa , people should know that...so there is no need to be defensive at all