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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: kin8

I agree. This is not that Abir Misti fell in love with. This is not the Abir we admire. Let’s say in hypothetical situation that Misti is moving on and she wrote all that stuff in the letter. But why is Abir freaking out? He is the one who broke up with her initially. And now he has said lot of mean stuff to her and doesn’t want to hear her side of the story then what is he expecting from her? I don’t want redemption track to be quick. Abir must work very hard this time. And he should definitely make Misti his first priority (over his mom and brother).

at this moment I cannot even dare to dream mishbir as a jodi....I mean leaving all her self respect n sanity mishti tried every damn thing possible to get abir back but in vain even though the bf gf drama with nishant was silly I cannot think of anything more a lover could do to explain her stand to abir but he was shown so much self centered either bound by mom's dhamki or nanko s brotherly bond but never has he sat n thought through how he literally forced her confess love to him how he made her dream togetherness and then one fine day he thinks she has moved in so it's okay to man handle n humiliate her ...mishti should never give in until she is left with no other choice....
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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Abir's outburst on Mishti today, reminds me of Abir 1.0's wonderful dialogue here...

Rewind:

ABIR 1.0: MAA!...chale please

Meenakshi: Abir meri baat abhi khatam nahi hui hai

ABIR 1.0: "Aapki baatein bhut pehle puri ho chuki hain Maa, abhi jo pura nhi hua hai wo hai Aapka gussa, Aapki Frustration."


These exact words perfectly fit Abir 2.0 unnecessary ghussa towards Mishti today. His words to her in the market about requesting her to stay away from him and his family, was all in anger and concern for Kunal's life + mu of Mishti's words with Nannu. Fine, all done. Full stop.

But Aaj Abir has simply spilled out frustration and ghussa that he had on himself for single-handedly breaking and letting go of mishbir's relationship. And it is now seriously biting him in the back, whilst he is forced to see Mishti move on to another relationship.


Sadly the writers have reduced Abir's character so badly, that abir 2.0 (hate using these names🤔) is now eating his own words

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Posted: 5 years ago
#33

think this episode needs to be watched for Rhea Sharma's stellar performance, this girl made a special place in my heart today smiley27smiley27

I truly became her fan today , she made me feel mishti and her emotions like anything smiley32smiley32 usually I connect to abir the most but today mishti wins my heart smiley27

Also , the situation is very real if you see , in real life m sure a lot of people go through this where you are expected to say yes one day, red love wala pyaar or simple sorted future smiley13smiley13 That's really sad but not something which is not real

Anyways I loved the build up for the drama, it actually made a lot of sense too

Looking forward to the episodes when abir takes over smiley20smiley20 Mishbir's love is not a cake walk , they have a long way to go but definitely they will make it to the end

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Posted: 5 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Abir's outburst on Mishti today, reminds me of Abir 1.0's wonderful dialogue here...

Rewind:

ABIR 1.0: MAA!...chale please

Meenakshi: Abir meri baat abhi khatam nahi hui hai

ABIR 1.0: "Aapki baatein bhut pehle puri ho chuki hain Maa, abhi jo pura nhi hua hai wo hai Aapka gussa, Aapki Frustration."


These exact words perfectly fit Abir 2.0 unnecessary ghussa towards Mishti today. His words to her in the market about requesting her to stay away from him and his family, was all in anger and concern for Kunal's life + mu of Mishti's words with Nannu. Fine, all done. Full stop.

But Aaj Abir has simply spilled out frustration and ghussa that he had on himself for single-handedly breaking and letting go of mishbir's relationship. And it is now seriously biting him in the back, whilst he is forced to see Mishti move on to another relationship.


Sadly the writers have reduced Abir's character so badly, that abir 2.0 (hate using these names🤔) is now eating his own words


But doesn't that happen in real life too , I mean when anger and frustration takes over , we don't know after a point how are we behaving 🤔

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Posted: 5 years ago
#35

I want mishti to break rishta not for abir but for saving herself and nishant.

And be alone for some time. Please mishti do not give in to abir just coz he is coming back now. What is yhe guarantee that he won't hurt you or leave u for no reason in future.

A girl should be with someone whom she can respect and trust and feel secure with. Can feel comfortable without being judged at every step. I know abir 1.0 was all that but he is 1000 times worse now and it is unbearable to watch the insults from him to mishti for no fault of hers. Every time he is mean to mishti; i remember his proposal to BP. One of my favorite scene that I watched almost 15 times and it breaks my heart thinking that they were empty words.

I can't even watch old scenes anymore and that's the first time for any show where things go south and i cant even enjoy old scenes.

Ok enough venting, thank you my friends.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Abir's outburst on Mishti today, reminds me of Abir 1.0's wonderful dialogue here...

Rewind:

ABIR 1.0: MAA!...chale please

Meenakshi: Abir meri baat abhi khatam nahi hui hai

ABIR 1.0: "Aapki baatein bhut pehle puri ho chuki hain Maa, abhi jo pura nhi hua hai wo hai Aapka gussa, Aapki Frustration."


These exact words perfectly fit Abir 2.0 unnecessary ghussa towards Mishti today. His words to her in the market about requesting her to stay away from him and his family, was all in anger and concern for Kunal's life + mu of Mishti's words with Nannu. Fine, all done. Full stop.

But Aaj Abir has simply spilled out frustration and ghussa that he had on himself for single-handedly breaking and letting go of mishbir's relationship. And it is now seriously biting him in the back, whilst he is forced to see Mishti move on to another relationship.


Sadly the writers have reduced Abir's character so badly, that abir 2.0 (hate using these names🤔) is now eating his own words

wow yaar, so true.
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Posted: 5 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Onyourface

think this episode needs to be watched for Rhea Sharma's stellar performance, this girl made a special place in my heart today smiley27smiley27

I truly became her fan today , she made me feel mishti and her emotions like anything smiley32smiley32 usually I connect to abir the most but today mishti wins my heart smiley27

Also , the situation is very real if you see , in real life m sure a lot of people go through this where you are expected to say yes one day, red love wala pyaar or simple sorted future smiley13smiley13 That's really sad but not something which is not real

Anyways I loved the build up for the drama, it actually made a lot of sense too

Looking forward to the episodes when abir takes over smiley20smiley20 Mishbir's love is not a cake walk , they have a long way to go but definitely they will make it to the end

I know right!?? Rhea is just outdoing herself each time👏👏 Her acting is super realistic. I feel so awful for Mishti. She honestly put her lifeline at risk to get Abir back And she has now just given up😭

https://twitter.com/screwedinsane/status/1214009914839855104


@bold: Absolutely right👍🏼 I'm eagerly waiting for Abir to put in the hard yards and real effort to win back Mishti's trust and pyaar along with BM and BP. He has honestly dug himself so far deep in the ground, it will be a real struggle. But I believe in mishbir and their true love🤗They will overcome it. ❤️

bhaag ke shaadi chaiyye😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Koms9

I want mishti to break rishta not for abir but for saving herself and nishant.

And be alone for some time. Please mishti do not give in to abir just coz he is coming back now. What is yhe guarantee that he won't hurt you or leave u for no reason in future.

A girl should be with someone whom she can respect and trust and feel secure with. Can feel comfortable without being judged at every step. I know abir 1.0 was all that but he is 1000 times worse now and it is unbearable to watch the insults from him to mishti for no fault of hers. Every time he is mean to mishti; i remember his proposal to BP. One of my favorite scene that I watched almost 15 times and it breaks my heart thinking that they were empty words.

I can't even watch old scenes anymore and that's the first time for any show where things go south and i cant even enjoy old scenes.

Ok enough venting, thank you my friends.

Bold - ditto.. This is the first show where I cannot rewatch old episodes.

I’ll start watching this show again if NishMish happens... please makers, make it happen

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Posted: 5 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

Once again Abir did not let Mishti speak at all... The monologue of Mishti at the end of the episode was nice - " He has made a habit of tearing and throwing your feelings. Either you have a choice of letting yourself break into pieces in memory, or you can prove yourself and your family that you are not that weak. Badi's ma gudiya rani is not made of glass. Bade Papa's daughter can handle herself. My family loves me a lot. And they don't deserve to see me always crying. So, from today, from now on, I will be happy. I will be happy."


Her fighting spirit is back, but in a different perspective. She has distanced herself from Abir.


Jas has just put a request to her. "Please don't break my Nannu's heart ever."

The monologue of Mishti is really good.....I hope she gathers her strength.... She will emerge strongly and I am sure she will not back out from NiMish rishta until Nannu and BP allows her.....

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Posted: 5 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: Onyourface


But doesn't that happen in real life too , I mean when anger and frustration takes over , we don't know after a point how are we behaving 🤔

Yes guruji, ofcourse it does. I agree with you🤗

His anger with Mishti for blurting out Kunal's truth to him, is justified. Kunal almost killed himself in guilt shock, so Abir's outburst in the market and Mishti is understandable. Sure he also misunderstood her words with Nannu, which only added fuel to the fire, but STILL the real Abir was still ready to give Mishti the benefit of the doubt - he KNEW Mishti would have a proper reason to say such a matter to Kunal. Something dire must have happened. But his anger and emotions took over his practical mind, which caused him to lash out at Mishti and Nannu. This I can somehow accept.

But all this letter concoction and Abir getting upset at Mishti for saying she wants to finally move on (exactly what Abir told her "mishbir is the past"); this really doesn't sit with me well. I'm just frankly upset with the writers for pushing it this far, it's crossed a limit for me in terms of the characters.

I understand that something drastic needed to happen for Mishti to finally back off and let go of Abir, but I feel THIS was not the way.


xx

I'm getting into a rant sorry. I'll explain it better in my 'rant' post later

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