Shouldnt you luv some1 for who they are?

Ive got a bit of a long post to make LOL so plz have the patience to read it, I hope you guys have interesting points to make with regards to what Im going to say also...looking forward to your posts😃

Okay well...I have to say...Armaans attitude is getting stupid and I agree there...but atleast I understand where its coming from....his problem is that he doesnt know where his relationship is headed...its as though hes on a one-way-track and he can see no way out, no future...thats why he is behaving this way...when he tried to make everything better, his gf didnt respond and it just ended up backfiring...getting worse....so hes vexed.But hes still so madly in love that it wouldnt take much to get him back with Ridz and him imagining her int he staircase scene yesterday really proved that.

But Ridzy, on the other hand, sometimes just gets too much...I am making this post in regard to the update my friend told me of todays episode (Thurs 20th March)...Please dont think I am bashing Ridz - I AM NOT....To an extent, I can also see what shes doing and why shes doing it... Im not bashing her at all..I still love her and I still want A-R to be together forever😳 coz I know they are made for each other and I myself cannot cope seeing them seperate much longer but here's my take on one instance which took place in todays episode (Riddhima tells Armaan he hasn't changed at all -- and he is still the same old Armaan >>> we saw this in yesterdays precap too)

I dont like it when Ridz says this, its SO BAD!!!...Armaan comes so close to making everything OK between them and she says hes "SELFISH"? He's throwing an attitude only coz HE LOVES HER! She needs to make him realise she also loves him and is confident of their relationship, thats allll he wants 😭.. Instead she says he's selfish? This makes matters so much more worse.

And anyway why should he change? Why is she saying hes the same old Armaan? Whats the meaning of this??? Its so unfair...why does she want and expect him to change?Someone needs to remind Ridzy of the old saying... >>>

Koi pyaar kare to tumse kare, tum jaise ho waise kare..koi tumhe badal ke pyar kare..toh woh pyar nahin sauda kare..aur pyar mein sauda nahin hota 😳😊

Remember..Armaan said to Ridz he loves her coz he loves her and not the other "type" of girls...he didnt expect her to change for him (be it her clothes or her personality), because he loves HER for what she is...

but shes saying how he should change, how hes "selfish" and the "same as before"... She wants Armaan to change entirely? then how is he Armaan? Its like he said once..sometimes, she really makes him feel hes not worthy of her and has to change himself to make himself worthy....and the strange thing is that hes tried so much...he sorted out his flaws and tried his best to match upto her expectations, but still it seems he's failed coz she's still saying hes "selfish".... And all Armaan wants of her is to be sure of their future together, she cant even give him that much and she says HE is selfish.....?

Once again...am not bashing Ridz...NOR DO I WANT REPLIES BASHING RIDZ...Ridz is not a villain but fact remains that she is also not the victim she is making herself out to be. They are both at fault..both weak..both need to become stronger, only then will everything sort itself out (Inshallah it will happen very very soon, Im trying to stay very optimistic about all this) 😊

wow ur soo rite but i think des creatives are dem selves confused as to how 2 script da characters armaan dusnt want ridz 2 chnge 4 her by wearin western clothes and even gettin too close
but she automatically execpts armaan 2 change 4 her wich i absolutly cant understand why

hahhhh...preeti finally I finished reading the article 😊
You have definitely some valid points!
If u love someone...u love him/her as the way he/she is.
beyond an extent no one can change himshelf!
You cant expect that someone wl change himshelf completely for you.

owww dat was long lost it in da Middlw bt nywayz it was nice>> bt im wid armaaan he is frustrated in Luv>>>>

BOTH Armaan & Ridz are very hot tempered and stubborn...thats why this small situation is being so stretched out..urgh...Armaan tried to sort it out when he tried to kiss her, but now for him its gone too far after she backed off and now calls him selfish etc....

So I think Ridzy ko kuch karna padega 😳 Comeon Ridzyy!!!!!! 😳 I hope atleast the drunken state on Holi makes her patch things up coz am dyyying here 😛

wait, i have a question...how has Ridzi made Armaan change for her? i dont right off recall her ever asking him to make changes. he was the one who thought that he should change to get her attention...and nothing even happened-they fought most of the time till Rahul came into the picture then he got jealous. how did he change himself for her? im still trying to figure that out.

can someone explain that to me?

Originally posted by: brownbutt

wait, i have a question...how has Ridzi made Armaan change for her? i dont right off recall her ever asking him to make changes. he was the one who thought that he should change to get her attention...and nothing even happened-they fought most of the time till Rahul came into the picture then he got jealous. how did he change himself for her? im still trying to figure that out.

can someone explain that to me?

What provoked me to make this topic was todays episode when she says something along the lines of "tum bilkul nahin badle" (we saw it in the precap yesterday)....by saying that - she implies she expects him to change...but why? Why should he change? He is who he is...take him or leave him

Originally posted by: Preeti_285

What provoked me to make this topic was todays episode when she says something along the lines of "tum bilkul nahin badle" (we saw it in the precap yesterday)....by saying that - she implies she expects him to change...but why? Why should he change? He is who he is...take him or leave him

I think what she meant by that was that hes become the same rude Armaan that he once was to her...she never asked him to change. Its unfair for people to say that she wants him to change. She never wanted him to change for her--he changed himself thinking that he wasnt good enough for her. But Riddhima loves him for who he is. Otherwise, she would've made him change.😊

I agree with you @preeti....

I love the points you have put together for both!!!

I 110% agree... love a person for who he/she is ....not want them to change to you... It seems like for Ridz... there is always that one thing that was not right!!

Anyways... she better sort it out and make the first move... else...
Yaar we are the ones that suffer!!!! 😆 😆

wat I say after read ur post..

First dhy hav to accept eachother & dhn dhink about love..

but alies.. here I can't see any *sign* on both d side..

dhis one I don't understand on wat sort of ground ridz claim dht armu is "selfish"..??

can't figure out to whom side now we hav to take.. 🤢

hmm.. I dhink dhis is better we want AR back to normal as usual & starts love/shove again....😆