Sonakshi disappointed me - Page 4

Originally posted by: ReadLo

It is not a question of understanding or not, but of doing the right thing.

You think everyone's right except Sona because she decided to tell Pooja who her real mother is?

YK, Nishi and Rohit have no right to lie to Pooja it's her life. They must give him the choice of yes or no to know who his parents are no matter who they are!

I remain on the fact that Rohit doesn't have to protect Veena, she's tall, it's her marriage, so hiding the truth is useless.

Let's think the other way around, when Veena finds out that Rohit, YK and Nishi knew everything, how do you think she'll feel? This is treason! Her husband's child had been under her nose for 21 years and she loved him as her daughter without knowing. It's not Pooja's fault, she's innocent, she didn't pay for her parents' fault.

To get back to Sona. Don't you notice that Sona is a stranger in her own house?

Is it fair to fight to make your place?

Personally, I don't care if she wants to be her saint or if she thinks that what she does or thinks is good and others don't.

I just think everyone laughs at her, she's just a fish dropped in a lake that dries up in the middle of summer.

Rohit spends her time lying, she's just trying to understand and when the truth comes right under her nose, it's just emotional and not rational. What she says in the pre-cap is true.

Rohit has the right to hide things from her, but she doesn't?

It is a double standard.

We'll each have a different point of view.

For my part, I don't see how she should talk to Rohit about it, she's part of the family, she's legitimate, after all she's Rohit's wife, right?

After that, Sona is very emotional as I said, she's not rational.

However, @Nimaaaa, you say other family, so if I understand Sona is not part of the Sippy family?

Yes, Rohit is entitled to keep secret whether or not his father was unfaithful to Veena, but be serious and logical for two seconds. This is fiction so we can judge Sona's character.

In real life, you will tell me if you are in your family, your husband hides such a secret from you and he wants you to follow what he tells you without even explaining himself you will remain wise without doing anything?

Sona has always been honest with everyone. Rohit should have known that his wife would never sit idly by. We're not going to talk about the fact that it was negotiated so that Pooja's videos would not be published....

Then I don't want to justify anything, I'm just saying it's too easy to blame Sona. And then she didn't take anyone's right. YK and Nishi were not going to tell Pooja anything, and knowing that the young woman wants to know.

I think we're not thinking in the right direction. And when Pooja has been loved all her life? The real concern is that she felt betrayed, why they didn't trust her to tell her the truth? 21 years is not nothing, she's old enough to know it. So she came to tell herself if they didn't tell me, so they don't really like me.

Well, I'll stop here. You think Sona is wrong, you have your reasons and I think she has the right to say and do the right thing.

Originally posted by: ReadLo

We'll each have a different point of view.

For my part, I don't see how she should talk to Rohit about it, she's part of the family, she's legitimate, after all she's Rohit's wife, right?

After that, Sona is very emotional as I said, she's not rational.

However, @Nimaaaa, you say other family, so if I understand Sona is not part of the Sippy family?

Yes, Rohit is entitled to keep secret whether or not his father was unfaithful to Veena, but be serious and logical for two seconds. This is fiction so we can judge Sona's character.

In real life, you will tell me if you are in your family, your husband hides such a secret from you and he wants you to follow what he tells you without even explaining himself you will remain wise without doing anything?

Sona has always been honest with everyone. Rohit should have known that his wife would never sit idly by. We're not going to talk about the fact that it was negotiated so that Pooja's videos would not be published....

Then I don't want to justify anything, I'm just saying it's too easy to blame Sona. And then she didn't take anyone's right. YK and Nishi were not going to tell Pooja anything, and knowing that the young woman wants to know.

I think we're not thinking in the right direction. And when Pooja has been loved all her life? The real concern is that she felt betrayed, why they didn't trust her to tell her the truth? 21 years is not nothing, she's old enough to know it. So she came to tell herself if they didn't tell me, so they don't really like me.

Well, I'll stop here. You think Sona is wrong, you have your reasons and I think she has the right to say and do the right thing.

She is a.part of his family but she is new to the family and she doesnt know the family members properly ..so rohits discretion would be the best in this case.. at least she could have tried to find out why rohit is hiding this and doesnt want the family to know....rani might be blackmailing him all this while ..and his only intention could be to protect pooja from a gold digger..and rani and pooja can of course wait for a another day or few more days , if they waited for 21 years..pooja getting her new mom to sippy mansion is not a normal thing either..what was pooja thinking ?

How will pooja take this is debatable ..she tried suicide the moment she knew..this obviously isnt a sign of a mentally strong person..n now it's clear.. she brought rani to her home.. that's seriously ..not the right thing to do..why should sippy s put up with pooja s real mother?

I agree rohit is wrong in asking her to sit back , without giving a proper reason..but this is where trust and faith comes in..there must be a reason he is not comfortable disclosing ..or will do it at the right time..what was the hurry is my only complaint...nobody is questioning sona s intention ...but this is going in a wrong direction I think..she will repent..

Originally posted by: ReadLo

We'll each have a different point of view.

For my part, I don't see how she should talk to Rohit about it, she's part of the family, she's legitimate, after all she's Rohit's wife, right?

After that, Sona is very emotional as I said, she's not rational.

However, @Nimaaaa, you say other family, so if I understand Sona is not part of the Sippy family?

Yes, Rohit is entitled to keep secret whether or not his father was unfaithful to Veena, but be serious and logical for two seconds. This is fiction so we can judge Sona's character.

In real life, you will tell me if you are in your family, your husband hides such a secret from you and he wants you to follow what he tells you without even explaining himself you will remain wise without doing anything?

Sona has always been honest with everyone. Rohit should have known that his wife would never sit idly by. We're not going to talk about the fact that it was negotiated so that Pooja's videos would not be published....

Then I don't want to justify anything, I'm just saying it's too easy to blame Sona. And then she didn't take anyone's right. YK and Nishi were not going to tell Pooja anything, and knowing that the young woman wants to know.

I think we're not thinking in the right direction. And when Pooja has been loved all her life? The real concern is that she felt betrayed, why they didn't trust her to tell her the truth? 21 years is not nothing, she's old enough to know it. So she came to tell herself if they didn't tell me, so they don't really like me.

Well, I'll stop here. You think Sona is wrong, you have your reasons and I think she has the right to say and do the right thing.

There are some unwritten rules of not interfering in other's personal space that Sona is constantly violating. She might be legally wedded wife, sharing Sippy family name and in a joint family, it definitely doesn't give her full freedom to do as she pleases. Particularly this is none of her business.

In fact, everyone has their secrets. Some big, some small. Sona's mom didn't reveal to Sona that the groom's costume was sponsored or Pari leaked the news.

The other way around, we felt Veena was overstepping her boundary by talking to Suman when she interfered in Sona s work.

Leave the prenup that Sona is hiding. What happened on 26th Sep.... did Suman / Pari / Pulkit jump and tell Rohit because that was the right thing to do? No right ... Sona took a decision if and when she wanted to tell.

Its about respecting boundaries particularly when they are already set. And we equally bash other characters when they don't do it.

Originally posted by: ReadLo

We'll each have a different point of view.

For my part, I don't see how she should talk to Rohit about it, she's part of the family, she's legitimate, after all she's Rohit's wife, right?

After that, Sona is very emotional as I said, she's not rational.

However, @Nimaaaa, you say other family, so if I understand Sona is not part of the Sippy family?

Yes, Rohit is entitled to keep secret whether or not his father was unfaithful to Veena, but be serious and logical for two seconds. This is fiction so we can judge Sona's character.

In real life, you will tell me if you are in your family, your husband hides such a secret from you and he wants you to follow what he tells you without even explaining himself you will remain wise without doing anything?

Sona has always been honest with everyone. Rohit should have known that his wife would never sit idly by. We're not going to talk about the fact that it was negotiated so that Pooja's videos would not be published....

Then I don't want to justify anything, I'm just saying it's too easy to blame Sona. And then she didn't take anyone's right. YK and Nishi were not going to tell Pooja anything, and knowing that the young woman wants to know.

I think we're not thinking in the right direction. And when Pooja has been loved all her life? The real concern is that she felt betrayed, why they didn't trust her to tell her the truth? 21 years is not nothing, she's old enough to know it. So she came to tell herself if they didn't tell me, so they don't really like me.

Well, I'll stop here. You think Sona is wrong, you have your reasons and I think she has the right to say and do the right thing.

@BOLD Sona is part of Sippy family but not part of Kapoor family (YK,Nishi and Pooja)

Such hue and cry over Sona overstepping her boundaries (which is wrong, admittedly) - but no one is batting an eyelid about the fact that Rohit and rest of the Sippys expect her to simply follow their command without sharing the entire truth with her, as if she's not a woman with her own thoughts and opinions. Incase you're forgetting, she did try to talk to Rohit about sharing the truth with Pooja on different occasions, only to be shouted at and asked to shut up. Quite frankly, the way Rohit deals with sensitive issues he truly comes across as a man-child who doesn't have the temperament to remain calm in complex situations.

I am married too, and we respect each other enough to share the truth if we expect something monumental of each other.

Yes, Sonakshi should not have done what she did. But equal criticism should be dished out to the Sippys, who are invariably doing the wrong thing by keeping Pooja in the dark. They're a bunch of hypocrites, much like any Indian family, who will do anything to maintain the so-called "peaceful" facade and pretend like they're the best family ever; albeit sitting on a well full of dirty secrets and lies.

Sonakshi started disappointing ever since the marriage track started. The entire mahesh fiasco would have avoided if she has trusted Rohit or his mom or someone rational other than suman. She has own rules i guess. And then Sonakshi trying to be the perfect bahu.....cooking, laundry, and sarees...what all. I can not digest the super bahu concept. On top of that, this fiasco. I am not tuning in for khkt for a while now. Will come back when there is a scope for suhag raat.... :)

@ReadLo

I totally understand what you are saying.. also understands that Rohit is doing wrong while hiding things from his legally wedded wife but then there is time for everything. Here question is not what Sona did, question is when she did and how? There is a procedure for everything to be done. Just few hours ago you met a struggling actress who claimed to be Pooja's biological mother and without even thinking head or tail you decide that Pooja and Rani deserve to see each other without thinking that she might be an imposter, after all Rani is an actress (I m sorry if my statement is offensive to anyone), and that too accidentally. Had Rani not left her bag in Sona's car, and she could not get to see that too after bag has fallen accidentally, she could not get to know all this, what if, it was all planned by Rani herself, leaving her bag in car and all?

Yes Rohit should have told her but first she is still new in the family and everything takes time to be told and second thing which is more important this secret is basically of Kapoors, not Sippys, just because Nishi, YK and Pooja are living at Sippy Mansion, doesn't mean Sippys have any right to interfere into their matter and even if its any of Sippy's matter, still Sona had no right to do what she did, at least not before discussing it with her husband. When Rani and Pooja had waited for 21 years they can wait for few more hours. Rohit was not moved to Mars, he was in hospital and would be back in few hours. what was the need to tell Pooja that she met her biological mother.

What if tomorrow Sona has problem with any of her producers, crew members or c-actors then any of her family members should go to her set without her knowledge and tell the producer off. Will Sona or her mother approve it? Won't Sona want to solve this matter on her own first? Similarly this was YK and Nishi's matter to tackle, being a family member doesn't mean that you will go and take every matter in your hand whether it concern you or not. Being good to heart is one thing but being interfering is another and I m sorry but Sona was here being interfering.

Also I said it in another post and will say it here too that I don't understand Pooja's desperation or may be obsession for her biological parents. An article is published in newspapers that you are adopted and all your emotions changed towards your foster parents, what if it was media's stint to pull you down to break you emotionally.

Originally posted by: justlife

Such hue and cry over Sona overstepping her boundaries (which is wrong, admittedly) - but no one is batting an eyelid about the fact that Rohit and rest of the Sippys expect her to simply follow their command without sharing the entire truth with her, as if she's not a woman with her own thoughts and opinions. Incase you're forgetting, she did try to talk to Rohit about sharing the truth with Pooja on different occasions, only to be shouted at and asked to shut up. Quite frankly, the way Rohit deals with sensitive issues he truly comes across as a man-child who doesn't have the temperament to remain calm in complex situations.

I am married too, and we respect each other enough to share the truth if we expect something monumental of each other.

Yes, Sonakshi should not have done what she did. But equal criticism should be dished out to the Sippys, who are invariably doing the wrong thing by keeping Pooja in the dark. They're a bunch of hypocrites, much like any Indian family, who will do anything to maintain the so-called "peaceful" facade and pretend like they're the best family ever; albeit sitting on a well full of dirty secrets and lies.

How do you know they were keeping her in dark? May be they are protecting her from some heartbreaking truth. Plus she (Pooja) could see that she was adopted into family but she could not see the love of her family for her. Did you notice the shine in Nishi and YK's eyes when Pooja call them mama and dad, esp after all this fiasco. Just one truth came out that you are adopted and you start behaving as your whole world is crashed.

leave the thing of weather sonakshi has rights to interfere in sippy matters without consulting them. leave the point that ssippy are hiding things from her and pooja. The main thing is does sonakshi think adopted parents do not have any rights. How much right do you have on your own child who is adopted. Can the original parent who was not ready to take care of the child when she was born and the adopted parents have brought her up, just walk into the adopted parents life conveniently and claim the child.

Pooja has a fixation of knowing about her birth parents for her the feelings of her adopted parents who have actually been her parents do not matter. sonakshi instead of making her understand tells her she has found her real mother. what mother was she even her mother?. The mother who is telling sob stories to sonakshi made a mistake of trusting a wrong guy, dint use protection got pregnant, left the child because she could not take care of it. Now when she wants to meet her child and hug her and be her mother without bothering about how she is snatching away the rights of her adoptive parents. Did Sonakshi think of YK or nishi before doing all this. what if tomorrow sonakshi and rohit decide to adopt a child and 18 years afterwards someone takes their child to meet her real parent without informing them.