Sidnaaz-true or false- thread 5 (DT Note pg. 110) - Page 49

Yaar y is every1 getting so serious. Nobody is against nobody. Both Sid and Shehnaaz are important and loved by us and that is y we r here for Sidnaaz.

Here we need to understand that when we go awwww over their cute moments then we also have the right to get upset when any of them do sthg stupid. I am not saying that Sana is wrong and Sid is right or vice versa but IMO she is losing her plot by giving mixed statements. One day she expeesses her feelings for a guy and next day she calls it a show for camera but then she again does the same. If she is into Paras then its fine but then getting close to another guy with more intensity is not right. She can not have both the guys. It does not work like that. She needs to draw a line some where coz this is making her look confused and gamer and is affecting the fans too. Coz at the end of the day, Sidnaaz fans are looking stupid.

I hope u understand wat I am trying to say here

Originally posted by: Nachiketj

Absolutely true. Just because Shukla is hurt everyone is turned Devdaas here. When Shehnaaz was hurt the environment was normal here. Even I have began to doubt is it really a SidNaaz thread. Because concern is only for Shukla always. Yesterday only I (since am Shehnaaz supporter) was told off that as a SidNaaz supporter I should see POV of both Shukla and Shehnaaz. Whereas same is not being told for Shukla supporters. Their Shehnaaz rants over here are left Scott free. I only see Jyoti ji talking from Shehnaaz and Shuklas POV. Had expectations from Uma ji also regarding thinking from both Shehnaaz and Shuklas .

That's it from my side. Had to reply u so came back.

I agree its difficult fr sana fans bec she gets universal hatred in forum ..but i dont think people in this thread hate her ..they r just angry on her and theres a difference between hate and anger ..

They r more worried that sana mayb ruining her game with paras chant bec paras is busy kissing and making out with mahira..so its making sana look desperate..its more of worry than hate ..

When i saw a certain mid trying to pour hate ,i immediately told the person off ..

Originally posted by: TheSmurfs

Nopes. Even a neutral viewer will expect her to leave both the guys alone , and try to play a clean n dignified game.

Dont prioritise either of the two but just your own self respect and game , like Salman suggested .

She demands respect . Then better work for it.

And I really hope , if Sid doesn't budge , there should not be any channel intervention and any random call .

She is not interested in going with outside reviews. Fair enough but then the channel should stop pestering her n let her be. Let her decide how she wants to proceed, whether positive or negative.

Doesn’t matter what people expect. I do see them coming together as they should. It’s a beautiful bond and for either of them to give up on it so soon would be silly. 2 mahine ki game hai, you can’t be in that house without being emotionally connected to someone otherwise you’ll go insane.
And if they have to go back, Sana might as well understand the expectations and try to do right by Sid and us supporters.
I do hope she realises what she’s doing and that her Paras angle is helping no one.
She doesn’t need to show any loyalty there at all.
She doesn’t and shouldn’t give up anything for Paras no matter how she feels, because none of this will be reciprocated.

I also hope Sid clearly speaks about how he feels and what he wants. He doesn’t have to be in love to get hurt. And Sana needs to pick a side. High time.

A beautiful organic bond is better than unrequited forced "attraction".
If only she stops thinking from her d*ck and more from her heart and mind.

Taking 2-3 days break from shipping ...ll start watching d show freshly from next Monday ....too much stress ....😆

Here the tension is increasing and this thread is depressed slightly and colors haven’t released any new promo yet, it’s the same thing telecasted yesterday! Looks like channel wants to encash this curiosity! Sid has flaws and even Sana has her own set of flaws, no one is perfect but yes we like them together for their bond, not necessarily they have to love each other but their bond always looked genuine and suddenly when Sana didn’t stop her Paras chant for 2 days it’s upset everyone and here Sana was at fault this time and Sid is hurt the support is more on his side but it’s definitely not that Sana is being bashed! Even a neutral viewer feels that Sana was wrong here so it feels that Sana is being bashed! The day Sid does this he will also be bashed if Sana is hurt! So we need to wait till the episode is aired and where their tiff takes us!

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Really? You seriously feel that? As harsh?

In case you come back, I’d really like to know something from your pov- could you enumerate Sid’s faults in everything beginning from the captainship task point? This is a genuine question.

Hi Uma ,this is going to be my last post on here otherwise Catcher's going to come and shoo me away😆

It's interesting as you said we are immoral voyeurs and then we start to have expectations from the people we are watching and I get the disappointment ,what irked me was the language used to convey that disappointment.

Sana was called a stalker pyscho in this thread and people here liked that comment.

I haven't watched the episodes so I cannot enumerate Sid's faults ,my dislike solely stems from the love showered on Sana on social media by Sid's fans.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Nachi, I can’t speak for others, but can speak for myself. The reason why I don’t write anything on the Sana or Sid threads is because they appeal most to me a pair. It is their nok jhok that interests me most as much as we may love one or the other a bit more and I assume it’s the same for many.

Now many of us, let me put it this way in plain speak, would have liked to believe that Sana is/was already in love with Sid and that her Parasjaap was game. Our bad perhaps. But Sid has never been attached to anyone in the house except Sana in word or deed. The entire world knew all the other pairings were for fun- he would bitch about them on the side. So, there was no ambiguity from his side.

I can let go her captainship tantrums. Tantrum is her game and it can be cute from a show point of view. But the kitchen drama yesterday was not game, right? She brought in Paras’ name yet again and when he is already committed. May be she means she has expectations from him as a friend. I really don’t know. And that is where I am stuck and that is also one of the points where Sid is stuck I believe, as in, she will always like Paras. And that was a revelation for me as well. Or maybe we’re overthinking it and Sana herself is just processing PaHira and her crush and everything else.

But for her to ask after everything ki maine kya kiya is a bit juvenile. Sid is surely no mahapurush. He has a thousand defects and probably more than you or me as well. But he has been a very straightforward gamer as Sana herself said in the USUD. For someone with such high EQ, and who can read Sid impeccably, doesn’t she get that Sid is now more than attached to her? That man is just back from hospital, his arms are bandaged with swelling and obvious medical treatment behind the screens which we don’t get to see. One can’t deny that the man has been loyal to whatever you name between them. And he deserves better than drama. At the least, he deserves clear conversation when things are critical.

Considerable water has flown under the bridge. She can’t expect to revert to previous dynamics without clarifying her position- remember, she herself invited it and all actions have repercussions. Everybody has emotions. Everybody can hurt.

I completely agree that without Sana’s mischievous self and the idea of Sidnaaz, BB will turn to just another shabby season. They are the USP. But, as viewers, Sidnaaz fans were after a real relationship, not something manufactured for us. And it is the fear that she could have fooled us into believing she was in love that is inspiring these reactions. People too guard their hearts like she does and he does, Nachi.

Don’t be affected by others’ reactions. Everybody is more or less in the same boat and vary in just degrees of how affected we’ve been. No regular here doesn’t want a real Sidnaaz love story. We are just wary right now. And since Sana set the ball rolling, there is disappointment towards her.

Tomorrow, hypothetically speaking, if Sid begins saying how important Aarti has been on his BB journey, and multiple times at that, this thread will erupt against him too. The audience doesn’t react without reason.

Sid is always giving importance to Arti and now Mahira also. But we don't make an issue over it.

Even we are upset and somewhere Shehnaaz also that in SR Shukla didn't save Shehnaaz. Arre atleast he should have argued with Paras. So Paras would have said to Shehnaaz Shukla was not ready to save Mahira he was adamant in taking ur name. That is what Shehnaaz expected IMO. But what happened? Everywhere Shukla was praised waah what strategic decision shukla took. Claps. Yeah. So he is also playing game rt? Emotions were kept aside then? But Shukla must be praised. Whatever he does is always right.

Point is Shukla may not throw tantrums like Shehnaaz but he also favors some people and Mahira is added to that list..Mahira???? Of all the people?? . And now we are also not liking it. Plain and simple.

Ps- came back to reply u

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I agree its difficult fr sana fans bec she gets universal hatred in forum ..but i dont think people in this thread hate her ..they r just angry on her and theres a difference between hate and anger ..

They r more worried that sana mayb ruining her game with paras chant bec paras is busy kissing and making out with mahira..so its making sana look desperate..its more of worry than hate ..

When i saw a certain mid trying to pour hate ,i immediately told the person off ..

Yes u did. And I appreciate it.

Originally posted by: dondy27

Does anyone feel bad for Paras? 😂 Bechara kahan phas gaya 🤣

He genuinely seems like a sidnaaz shipper. Mostly because he probably wants Sana to leave him and mahira alone. 🤣 Seriously I’m getting second-hand embarrassment watching sana being despo. We girls usually handle rejection like a BOSS. Like it never happened 😂

Also did anyone catch what paras and mahira were saying when they told sana to go feed sid? They said “we will use him, we won’t let you use him anymore.” Something along those lines. I think they were trying to make her realize that it looks like she just used Sid to the audience.

Guys just for a second imagine you are with your lover in BB and some girl is saying she loves him and wants alone time with him...

Veham

Can I jus say I became a Sana fan first n then started liking sid because of his equation with Sana....

But Sana needs to decide which side of the fence she wants to be on....sid or not!

If she rather be on other side I hope it’s not paras I can’t stand him at all now....i rather it be Vishal or Asim. 😞