Originally posted by: Nachiketj
I can't see this Shehnaaz bashing for small odd things. As if she has done something horrible. So much negativity towards Shehnaaz. And when they come together these same people are praising her then. Henceforth I don't want that nakli praising also. Also, I don't like this god like status given to Shukla and that he is never ever wrong. It's only shehnaaz who is wrong always. Bash her left right centre. That's what I see everywhere. And these ehsaan jatana we will never support Shehnaaz now as she has hurt Shukla. Arre bhaad mein jaao. Tumhara ehsaan chhaiyye bhi nahi. Let shehnaaz be evicted and this season will be so dull and boring. Give these people SidRa and SidLeena.
Nachi, I can’t speak for others, but can speak for myself. The reason why I don’t write anything on the Sana or Sid threads is because they appeal most to me a pair. It is their nok jhok that interests me most as much as we may love one or the other a bit more and I assume it’s the same for many.
Now many of us, let me put it this way in plain speak, would have liked to believe that Sana is/was already in love with Sid and that her Parasjaap was game. Our bad perhaps. But Sid has never been attached to anyone in the house except Sana in word or deed. The entire world knew all the other pairings were for fun- he would bitch about them on the side. So, there was no ambiguity from his side.
I can let go her captainship tantrums. Tantrum is her game and it can be cute from a show point of view. But the kitchen drama yesterday was not game, right? She brought in Paras’ name yet again and when he is already committed. May be she means she has expectations from him as a friend. I really don’t know. And that is where I am stuck and that is also one of the points where Sid is stuck I believe, as in, she will always like Paras. And that was a revelation for me as well. Or maybe we’re overthinking it and Sana herself is just processing PaHira and her crush and everything else.
But for her to ask after everything ki maine kya kiya is a bit juvenile. Sid is surely no mahapurush. He has a thousand defects and probably more than you or me as well. But he has been a very straightforward gamer as Sana herself said in the USUD. For someone with such high EQ, and who can read Sid impeccably, doesn’t she get that Sid is now more than attached to her? That man is just back from hospital, his arms are bandaged with swelling and obvious medical treatment behind the screens which we don’t get to see. One can’t deny that the man has been loyal to whatever you name between them. And he deserves better than drama. At the least, he deserves clear conversation when things are critical.
Considerable water has flown under the bridge. She can’t expect to revert to previous dynamics without clarifying her position- remember, she herself invited it and all actions have repercussions. Everybody has emotions. Everybody can hurt.
I completely agree that without Sana’s mischievous self and the idea of Sidnaaz, BB will turn to just another shabby season. They are the USP. But, as viewers, Sidnaaz fans were after a real relationship, not something manufactured for us. And it is the fear that she could have fooled us into believing she was in love that is inspiring these reactions. People too guard their hearts like she does and he does, Nachi.
Don’t be affected by others’ reactions. Everybody is more or less in the same boat and vary in just degrees of how affected we’ve been. No regular here doesn’t want a real Sidnaaz love story. We are just wary right now. And since Sana set the ball rolling, there is disappointment towards her.
Tomorrow, hypothetically speaking, if Sid begins saying how important Aarti has been on his BB journey, and multiple times at that, this thread will erupt against him too. The audience doesn’t react without reason.