We WERE Friends once! - 5.12.19 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Scarlet.ferro

I too loved the preeran sequence. Solely because of how dheeraj and shraddha portrayed it.

Karan is absolutely traumatized by the fact that preeta may really cut him off and he won't survive it. In my opinion his pyaar Mei nafrat and nafrat Mei pyaar is the only reason he is sane. Or else he is literally standing on the line of genuine insanity.. he has shut off his emotions completely but the fact that preeta may/will leave him scares the shit outta him. He's a douche no doubt but sometimes I feel tad bit bad for him because he is so messed up lately. For all the sins he has done , I hope makers don't make it easy for him to win preeta back or I won't even mind if preeta moves on but I still feel bad.

Preeta on other hand makes me furious, pity, sad , hurt , everything all at once. Being a woman I understand how much anguish and pain her heart has.. I personally didn't approve her wearing mangalsootra and sindoor but today when she said *Dil kehta hai Chalo jaane do* I realised she too is messed up.

Nevertheless , *ek dost thou Meri, uski bahot yaad aati hai* stole the show for me. 😭

True yaar. Yesterday both the actor were too good on screen. Even I don't want Karan to win Preeta that easily, he should really beg for it. But like you said, he is on the verge of insanity and he needs Preeta badly. No other person can help him. Her dialogue is 100% true. Like we really don't get the right answers how hard you search for it, and that's when things gets messed up. Right now, for both things have been so f**king messed up.

I know I shouldn't feel bad for Karan, after all what he did, but I do. 😭🥺

Originally posted by: TheM5393

For the greater good of the show, I highly doubt that they will ever patch up (for good) even if they do, it may be temporary truce, and some comedy scenes in between, a lot of jealousy and insecurity, but I don't think any relationship can ever 'completely' recover from what Karan has done to Preeta. (in real or reel life) Especially, in Ekta Kapoor serials. I have never seen it happen, however, I could definately be proved wrong. 😊

EK has made reel relationships quite complexed! 😆 And not letting us think straight.

Originally posted by: MandyTheBlogger

He is still in confusion whether to accept her or reject her. All though he does show everyone that Preeta doesn't matter to him. Every single thing concerning Preeta Does matter to him deep down.

He is being coward, because he still believes that Preeta hates him and he is not someone important in her life. That's the reason, which I think he is behaving like this. As someone here said, he is as overly pampered adult, who still has a mentality of a kid sometimes. So just like when u don't give a kid much attention he will do everything possible within his limits to gain your attention. And that's what Karan has been doing with Preeta too.

For him, Preeta wants to get rid of Karan and get married to Prithivi and he didn't want that to happen. (Deep down he is just J of Prithvi and he wasn't ready to share his Preeta with anyone.) So he stopped her wedding. The reason that he gives is, she doesn't deserve to be happy.

But in actual, he is desperately trying to get in Preeta's way to gain her attention just like the old days. (Although some of his actions aren't right and we know he is suffering from internal circuit disorder 😆) Just like a kid he is desperately waiting for her to do the same with him. He doesn't want her to avoid him but to notice him.

And Mahira's case, even if Karan says out loud that he doesn't want to marry her, I don't think she will give an ear to that. She will still dream about them together. Maybe in the beginning she might have, but definitely not now. Karan was shown like he is always good with the girls. He never disappointed his fans, and just because of that itself he got into many troubles. So considering the fact that she has Kareena's support and not to forget about Sherlyn, she is only going come up with another plan if not this as long as Karan stays single. Preeta can only stop her now (Like if there's still hope for good in her character) by being Karan's wife officially. But i don't know when will this happen or will it even happen.

I do understand why Karan does what he does. I understand his motives. But. I don't understand why he should marry Mahira if he doesn't want to. I mean... OK, you don't need Preeta in your life. Fine. Why on Earth you should go and marry some other girl. Just because Kareena bua orders? He was always shown like very adamant part of his family. When he kicked Preeta out of his house he told his family: stay out of this and if you don't I will leave this house. When he married Preeta he said to his family: stay out of this, it's only between Preeta and me. And they OBEYED!

Why can't he say today: guys, I don't want to marry Mahira. I don't want to marry anyone. Stay out of this.

He doesn't have a courage to reject this marriage! And this is disappointing.

And if Mahira would dream about Karan even after being rejected then it is HER problem not Karan's. Now Karan gives her every reason to dream! And Mahira can't drag him to the mandap. Only if Karan agrees to go and sit there. And he does now! And he lies to everyone now. That is what I don't like.

Originally posted by: _Runa_

I do understand why Karan does what he does. I understand his motives. But. I don't understand why he should marry Mahira if he doesn't want to. I mean... OK, you don't need Preeta in your life. Fine. Why on Earth you should go and marry some other girl. Just because Kareena bua orders? He was always shown like very adamant part of his family. When he kicked Preeta out of his house he told his family: stay out of this and if you don't I will leave this house. When he married Preeta he said to his family: stay out of this, it's only between Preeta and me. And they OBEYED!

Why can't he say today: guys, I don't want to marry Mahira. I don't want to marry anyone. Stay out of this.

He doesn't have a courage to reject this marriage! And this is disappointing.

And if Mahira would dream about Karan even after being rejected then it is HER problem not Karan's. Now Karan gives her every reason to dream! And Mahira can't drag him to the mandap. Only if Karan agrees to go and sit there. And he does now! And he lies to everyone now. That is what I don't like.

I think Karan when threw preeta out he was in rage beyond measures. The combined emotion of absolute hurt and uncontrolled anger clouded his mind. He was *Sure * of his emotions. Sure of his actions and made sure everyone stayed away from this. The realisation of how his life will turn after he throws her out didn't stike then. He didn't realise the miserable condition he is going to be in.

However now things have changed. The life has struck and there's addition of emotions. From anger to hurt to loneliness to being stuck at hatred filled love to delusion.

He is not backing off not because he is forced to do marriage but because he doesn't want to back out from his commitment. His own official statement and morever he wants to show preeta.. God knows what.

It's foolish, stupid and plain idiotic but I don't think it's cowardly because not once it's shown he is holding back because of Kareena bua or anyone as a matter of fact.

Also a coward act is when you are knowingly running away.. I don't think Karan is knowingly doing anything lately..

He needs to though if he wants to stay normal.

It's just my opinion

Originally posted by: _Runa_

I do understand why Karan does what he does. I understand his motives. But. I don't understand why he should marry Mahira if he doesn't want to. I mean... OK, you don't need Preeta in your life. Fine. Why on Earth you should go and marry some other girl. Just because Kareena bua orders? He was always shown like very adamant part of his family. When he kicked Preeta out of his house he told his family: stay out of this and if you don't I will leave this house. When he married Preeta he said to his family: stay out of this, it's only between Preeta and me. And they OBEYED!

Why can't he say today: guys, I don't want to marry Mahira. I don't want to marry anyone. Stay out of this.

He doesn't have a courage to reject this marriage! And this is disappointing.

And if Mahira would dream about Karan even after being rejected then it is HER problem not Karan's. Now Karan gives her every reason to dream! And Mahira can't drag him to the mandap. Only if Karan agrees to go and sit there. And he does now! And he lies to everyone now. That is what I don't like.

Well, atleast he told the half truth to his dad today. Yaar, even I don't like when he don't say "stay out of this" when he really have to.

Originally posted by: Scarlet.ferro

I think Karan when threw preeta out he was in rage beyond measures. The combined emotion of absolute hurt and uncontrolled anger clouded his mind. He was *Sure * of his emotions. Sure of his actions and made sure everyone stayed away from this. The realisation of how his life will turn after he throws her out didn't stike then. He didn't realise the miserable condition he is going to be in.

However now things have changed. The life has struck and there's addition of emotions. From anger to hurt to loneliness to being stuck at hatred filled love to delusion.

He is not backing off not because he is forced to do marriage but because he doesn't want to back out from his commitment. His own official statement and morever he wants to show preeta.. God knows what.

It's foolish, stupid and plain idiotic but I don't think it's cowardly because not once it's shown he is holding back because of Kareena bua or anyone as a matter of fact.

Also a coward act is when you are knowingly running away.. I don't think Karan is knowingly doing anything lately..

He needs to though if he wants to stay normal.

It's just my opinion

I understand the turmoil in his mind and heart when it comes to Preeta. I don't approve his actions but I can understand from were his anger and frustration and pain have come.

But I see the engagement situation different. He was trapped by Kareena and Mahira. He has never thought about Mahira that way.. as his love interest or his wife. And he did nothing to avoid this trap. Yes, he knows that Kareena is doing it with good intentions. But it doesn't mean he should obey. How come he agreed to this marriage as he has never wanted it? He said it not once. Even Rishabh tells him to cancel the engagement if he wants. And Karan knows that he doesn't want it. He has no confusion about this. He lets Mahira think that he is happy and satisfied with this shaadi. So he knowingly running away from a serious discussion and very important decision about his future life. That is why I am talking about cowardice. And another reason he doesn't back out, of course, his ego.

It is just my opinion too. It's ok if we disagree 🙂

Originally posted by: _Runa_

I understand the turmoil in his mind and heart when it comes to Preeta. I don't approve his actions but I can understand from were his anger and frustration and pain have come.

But I see the engagement situation different. He was trapped by Kareena and Mahira. He has never thought about Mahira that way.. as his love interest or his wife. And he did nothing to avoid this trap. Yes, he knows that Kareena is doing it with good intentions. But it doesn't mean he should obey. How come he agreed to this marriage as he has never wanted it? He said it not once. Even Rishabh tells him to cancel the engagement if he wants. And Karan knows that he doesn't want it. He has no confusion about this. He lets Mahira think that he is happy and satisfied with this shaadi. So he knowingly running away from a serious discussion and very important decision about his future life. That is why I am talking about cowardice. And another reason he doesn't back out, of course, his ego.

It is just my opinion too. It's ok if we disagree 🙂

I agree with the cowardice bit, I mean, everyone constantly talk's about Karan and his character as thou his behaviour because of his child like quality makes him dependable. But the real 'fact' at the end of the day is HE IS NOT A CHILD, a 'man-child' for sure, but he is a 'grown-ass' man. He like everyone in this world is responsible for his actions, running away from ones's own feelings and then NOT taking into consideration anyone else's feelings while being in the trip of his ego is definitely not something brave.