Bigg Boss 13: Daily Discussion Thread- 25-11-2019 - Page 114

Waise its so true Shukla ki kisi bhi HM se ladai ho uska poora group Protection Squad banke aa jata hai uske liye ladne

But Shukla has never ever taken a stand for any of his so called friends be it Asim or Aarti or Sana or anyone else for that matter aur fir bolta hai khud lad rahi hai main kyon beech mein padunga uske liye stand loonga ro rai hai faltu mein ....what an ungrateful person and friend this man is

If Aarti keeps standing up for herself like this and against Shukla...all support to Aarti 🥳

And omg Aarti ka rona 😲

Originally posted by: TheLastCarnival

Am not disputing that he's a complete jerk. I still can't stand him. But the premise of Aarti's trigger being "Shukla didn't ride to my rescue" is what I find troubling. Am not talking only from game point. Aarti's general dependency and taking his abuse in so many instances gives off red flags. She's expecting him to wake up one day when he's driven off everyone else and notice her loyalty. It is not gonna work that way. And she needs help. I work in a hospital so have seen cases like this where a person who suffers from anxiety gets triggered by even mundane things we take for granted....Like if someone doesn't say Hello back. It can be that debilitating. But in all cases where someone suffers from a mental health illness one thing is important and that's "SUPPORT SYSTEM" Someone who is patient and even if they're getting impatient, they tackle the matter in another way and take care not to show it in front of the patient. And Shukla isn't equipped to be her support system. In no way. And he has been consistently like that. It is not a new development.

Rest regarding him losing out on the weekdays ka muft lawyergiri. I don't think he cares right now cause he's got so many others. Koi na koi toh usko whitewash karega hi. And if no one does then BB will give another romance task. So he's sorted.

Aarti expecting support from someone for whom she fought is normal. She never got affected at small things like hi hello .... Sid behaved more nicely with Sana . She dint compare. Sid is her love or obsession don't know but she was blinded. Now she realised the truth it hurt her plus she has anxiety issues. It's a more trouble some to her.

She gives back to other people with so much confidence.

When u invest in a relationship because ur in love or whatever .... The more u invest if at all the person is not worth investing u get hurt....

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Sabka EQ different hota hai. Aarti ko anxiety issue hai. Sid ko bhi anger management problem hai . There are reports that he had counseling. My guess is Sid can do only this much . He i think dont know how to handle someone when one is crying. Not a good quality but he is like that.

Woshayad khud rota nahi hai jyaada kabhi so he doesnt know ki aise situation mein kaise deal karte hain.

There are many ppl who are like that . That doesn't mean they are insensitive. Everyone has a diff approach .

Obv there will be exception like sana or even asim in some way. Cos he has a special connection. There are friends and best friends. Ppl are diff with diff ppl . And there is no logic in it. Kisi ke saath accha bond hai to wo alag ho jaata hain

What I see is aarti desperately trying to have that special bond which sid is not interested to have

See the issue is not if Shukla was wrong, frankly you're right Arti's frustration and anxiety attack comes from losing her friend. It is true he stood up for her during Dey times/saved her over Sana also and to be fair there are times she started shouting when he did not even ask her to do. She always wanted to please him no matter what and at what cost - her game. At the end of the day she like Luv also heard many taunts about herself.

But see, Shukla should have comforted her while not admitting fault. Problem is when he went second time and left, ussne ego pe le liya but she is genuinely having a panic attack even during video task she was not looking normal and all she wanted was his affection not his apology. Also Sana should have told him to go because Arti would have done that, if Sana was in her place, that much I can say, instead of taunting her more. When you can see someone is crumbling, even if you hate them, show some sympathy man.

Maybe he gets irritated with her because he knows she has feelings but he does not reciprocate but also feels protective about her, par ye game aisi hai abb 2.5 months remain, Arti will not be able to handle it frankly, she has to detach.

Shehnaaz ne Director banke bhi poore maze le liye task ke.....poora enact karne k baad she asks achcha tu shirtless ho sakta hai and Shukla goes nahi ho raha hu 🤣 ye suhaagraat nahi hai phool hatao, Shehnaz goes hai suhaagraat 😆

Rashmi Shukla are really good actors, itni dushmani k baad this, 👍🏼

Aarti Assistant Director 😆

Originally posted by: -EvilDesires-

Mahira Paras and to some extent all three look scared of elimination but say they are not

Actually they have accepted Shukla as winner in their heads.

Now they want to be 2,3,4

They can accept Shukla as winner as he is a " brand" in words of Paras ( hope I heard it right)

But can't accept Asim to even be a finalist.😂😅

It's just to remove Asim from that list because according to them, Asim is nobody.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Lo ji . Himanshi ko bhi feelings aa rahi hain🤪. Now dont tell me asim pyaar mein nahi hai😆 . Kal shukla ne sahi bola tha.

ab ye game haibyaa real, pick ur choice.

https://twitter.com/ColorsTV/status/1199191122171449344?s=19

Bandi ek number chalu hai. Abhi usko pata hai Shuklaji bhi bhaav nahi de rahe hai. Shefali ko bhi Salman ne phuss kar diya captain task mein. Abhi iske paas kuch nahi raha sivaay nakli aansoo bahane ke. Woh ansoon bhi useless saabit hue. So now this fake angle with Asim to get limelight.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Aarti expecting support from someone for whom she fought is normal. She never got affected at small things like hi hello .... Sid behaved more nicely with Sana . She dint compare. Sid is her love or obsession don't know but she was blinded. Now she realised the truth it hurt her plus she has anxiety issues. It's a more trouble some to her.

She gives back to other people with so much confidence.

When u invest in a relationship because ur in love or whatever .... The more u invest if at all the person is not worth investigating u get hurt....

@Yellow - I was giving an example of how bad anxiety can get. I did not mean Aarti had such an episode.

@Red - Yes. But I also remember him trying to console Sana with "Chup Reh. Mat Ro." Maybe after that he was softer or whatever. But I've noticed his limitation when it comes to comforting people from the start of the season.

@Blue - Yes. That's why am saying why does she need Shukla to ride to her rescue? She's enough for herself. And she needs to realise that. She doesn't stand upto him. Cause her fixation is on him. He never acted like it was a two way street. He has always belittled her regarding her intelligence. She always took it quietly. She's finally speaking up so good for her.

Finally @Burgundy - YES. Normal human reaction is when we invest in something we expect some return. Shukla himself fought with Asim cause he felt Asim didn't have his back during that breakfast table wala argument (am forgetting what food they were arguing about. Too many have happened). She is not wrong in expecting. But am saying that expecting to such a level that when those expectations are not met, you have a breakdown and put your health at risk .....THAT IS UNHEALTHY. She is as you mentioned more vulnerable due to her pre-existing anxiety issues, so she should not centre her entire mental well being on one person.

Shehnaaz did great as director and Shukla Rashmi as actors, loved how Rashmi left Shukla everytime Director said cut and the entire shoot was just effortless 👍🏼

Pool wala and glass wall wale shots were awesome 👏

Aarti ne bhi AD banke phool barsane ka kaam bohot achche se kiya 😆

Originally posted by: Nachiketj

Bandi ek number chalu hai. Abhi usko pata hai Shuklaji bhi bhaav nahi de rahe hai. Shefali ko bhi Salman ne phuss kar diya captain task mein. Abhi iske paas kuch nahi raha sivaay nakli aansoo bahane ke. Woh ansoon bhi useless saabit hue. So now this fake angle with Asim to get limelight.

Ikr. Moral high ground kaa kyaa hua. Mera finace hai. Ye aise hypocrite mujhe katayi nahi pasand. She wants to may be give competition to sana sid.🤪. Sana ke paas sid hai. Mere paas bhi koi ho.

Tbh paras is better than her. Atleast he is saying from starting , I am playing game.

Not a fakester oh mera fiance hain dont flirt with me to this👎🏼.

Kal video task se pehle sitting arrangement kitna weird tha...waise hamesha Shukla ji Aapni shukliiiz ke beech beith-te hain aur kal Rashmi aur Debo ke beech