Culprit vs Victim theory : tum ko chot logi toh tumhari galti hai! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Tacacs

Yes you are right.

You have to vote and you have to judge them.

What I wanted to say, that we have to chill little bit.

What they are doing here, is not the same 'what they will do in real life too with others'

I hated paras, the way he plays with mahira and Sana. Or his tricks.

But now I understand he is playing for game. Becoz this is what game wants. They have to get support even from the people whom they don't like.

I didn't like mahira Sana Rashmi also. But I understand now that they are playing game.

See, movies, serials are different, they are supposed to be near to real life.

But this is a game where they must support each other and then defeat them too.

Sid asim can go together till final. But if they go they know each wants to defeat each other also.

But in real life two friends can be together whole life without defeating each other.

In this forum, sometimes there is too much analysis of every move and equating with real life.

If someone says, the way sid is behaving in the game. This is the way murderer behaves in real life. Then what type of analogy it is? (Or replace sid by mahira Rashmi asim anyone..)

Hate or praise them in the game. But don't take it to their real personality. They are not this much stressed in real life.

I am very chill person. If I fight with someone. I keep my distance. I don't forgive easily. But I stay away and don't waste energy in thinking bad about them. I don't think about them.

But if you will keep me with the same person in a room for weeks in this game. I will lose my mind many times. Yes I should be strong. I should not lose my mind. But if I lose. Then it doesn't mean that I lose my mind in real life too.

I will say, ok judge me in the game. But please, I am not like this in real life.

Opposite can be true too. I may behave very nice for camera and money. Forgiving my enemies and controlling my anger. But in real life where there is no camera watching, I can be very dangerous too :p

One of the best posts I have read on this forum! .... I more or less linger on similar thought process .. GMTA .. 😆

Man child and woman child are the worst housemates ever.

Originally posted by: Tacacs

In this forum, sometimes there is too much analysis of every move and equating with real life.

If someone says, the way sid is behaving in the game. This is the way murderer behaves in real life. Then what type of analogy it is? (Or replace sid by mahira Rashmi asim anyone..)

It was a figure of speech. There was a comment saying how can he be a bully when he has friends and that he is well read so he must be great. This is the most obvious parallel that came to my mind. Blame it on my addiction to serial killers documentaries if you will. I just find psychology as a concept very intriguing.

A lot of times small things which go unnoticed and are normalised encourages these serial killers to go one step ahead. Not saying Sid is one, his behaviour is not normal which is my point.

But if you will keep me with the same person in a room for weeks in this game. I will lose my mind many times. Yes I should be strong. I should not lose my mind. But if I lose. Then it doesn't mean that I lose my mind in real life too.

Sure. I totally agree. But aggressive people who lack self control and patience react very negatively in such environments in comparison to people who aren't chronically aggressive. Keep in mind everyone is in the same environment over there, everybody finds it difficult to adjust and be around people who are more or less strangers. Everybody handles things differently. This is exactly my point. The way this man reacts just shows that he has only physically grown up, he is an entitled man-child.

He is not just destroying his own peace of mind but that of other's too.

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Bang on post

Agreed with all your points mentioned

By doing all this nonsense he is only digging grave for himself.. Sooner or later it will effect if Bigg boss open his eyes and for sure by getting this level of violent and intimidating he can't win the show

Originally posted by: .FemmeFatale.

He is not just destroying his own peace of mind but that of other's too.

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Nice to see your comments.

He got aggression. And when he is angry he forgets about audience. He just remembers the opponent and he wants to win that fight. Then he speaks a lot so that other can't speak. That is his strategy of fighting, which third person doesn't like.

But he is not that bad. He can think logically and maybe he is nice person. Generally he doesn't go to fight purposefully with others. I admire him for many things in this show.

Actually now after two months I don't have strong dislike for anyone.

Yes there are many thing which sid does, which no one should do.

There are people who get angry very fast. But that doesn't make them bad person.

Originally posted by: Tacacs

Nice to see your comments.

He got aggression. And when he is angry he forgets about audience. He just remembers the opponent and he wants to win that fight. Then he speaks a lot so that other can't speak. That is his strategy of fighting, which third person doesn't like.

But he is not that bad. He can think logically and maybe he is nice person. Generally he doesn't go to fight purposefully with others. I admire him for many things in this show.

Actually now after two months I don't have strong dislike for anyone.

Yes there are many thing which sid does, which no one should do.

There are people who get angry very fast. But that doesn't make them bad person.

Good or bad person doesn’t matter. Rules are rules and they’re applicable to all. He did even confess to Vishal that he did push Asim very hard and he went flying! How’s that okay- no matter the kind of provocation.

Anger is a Big issue. I mean if you kill someone or injure someone in a fit of anger you’ll still go to Jail. Right no matter if you’ve been mother Teresa before that your whole life.

Police and law only look at the crimes committed and not a persons nature committing the crime. So this logic good or bad person with anger issues doesn’t matter

Originally posted by: .FemmeFatale.

I'm pissed okay? I have binge watched this bigg boss season and I am extremely pissed at this man-child called Siddharth Shukla. Let me start by saying when this show started I was most excited to see Shukla-this handsome tall decent looking gentleman. To think I thought this about this man, SO IRONIC.

This man has no control over his tongue, uses his height to intimidate people, does not understand personal space and he is a BULLY. He is. He has some kind of a superiority complex and believes he is always right. A sensible person knows when to draw the line, knows his/her limits and has the capacity to judge what is right and wrong, more importantly knows to accept his/her mistakes.

This man-child has no self-control.

Add onto this people who encourage him by asking others to not provoke him. Excuse me? Is he a 10 year old child? Actually, he is. He gets triggered by anything and everything and throws tantrums like a 10 year old. And instead of calling him out, the host of the show pinpoints others' and tells them they should be more careful around him.

WHAT?

By this logic, if you are walking across a street and a car breaks a signal and goes right over you, it is your fault. Why are you crossing the road?

If you are walking across a street and you are assaulted by a criminal, it is your fault. Can't you see the criminal and turn away?

This is the age old tradition in India right? Shame the victim but don't make the culprit accountable. No responsibility at all.

Victim shaming is a BIG NO.

The way man behaves in this show is classic example of how not to raise a boy. Pamper him too much by telling him he is always right, this is what he grows up to be.

We can only hope he is not like this in real life, because what a nightmare that would be.

Well Said! 👍

Originally posted by: SiddJ

There's a mums group on fb where bb13 was being discussed. And shukla seemed to be everyone's fav.. I seriously wonder how.

In forum its atleast not revealed who the person is.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Good or bad person doesn’t matter. Rules are rules and they’re applicable to all. He did even confess to Vishal that he did push Asim very hard and he went flying! How’s that okay- no matter the kind of provocation.

Anger is a Big issue. I mean if you kill someone or injure someone in a fit of anger you’ll still go to Jail. Right no matter if you’ve been mother Teresa before that your whole life.

Police and law only look at the crimes committed and not a persons nature committing the crime. So this logic good or bad person with anger issues doesn’t matter

Being angry is not good. Everyone should control that emotion.

But

Provoking someone purposefully, so that, that person becomes angry, so that you can take advantage of his anger.. Is not good in my opinion.

Maybe you are right. And I am wrong. But this is how I think.

Originally posted by: Tacacs

Being angry is not good. Everyone should control that emotion.

But

Provoking someone purposefully, so that, that person becomes angry, so that you can take advantage of his anger.. Is not good in my opinion.

Maybe you are right. And I am wrong. But this is how I think.

Yeah maybe morally wrong. But legally no. And for this game definitely not. Everyone instigates and provokes in this game and Asim is helluva mad right now and he won’t stop.