Originally posted by: NathuPyare
first of all its not a bout. This was just a regular task not even a dangal where u are expected to get physical with the opponent. Even in Bigg Boss Dangal every contestant is expected not to get too aggressive whether the dangal is between two men or between man vs woman. Are woman instructed in BB dangal that if an opponent (whether male or female) gets too aggressive just quit and accept defeat or is the opponent warned not to get too aggressive? I'm curious, if there's a mixed dangal in BB then are guys expected to go in their full hulk mode on girls and girls to sustain every injury without complaining or else just quit without fighting cos the guy is allowed to be as brutal as he wants.
Secondly Shukla didnt even have the decency to apologize or show concern to Mahira after she got hurt.... this is a very basic expectation from an decent human being.
Right. It's not a bout. But Mahira made it one as did all others when they began stealing others' sacks/boxes.
Nathu, this is not just about the Bigg Boss house. In real life, man or woman can take on each other verbally any which way with consequences left to them. But if we take on someone physically stronger and then complain victimization, it's ridiculous! This was clearly poor thinking from Paras, if he was the group captain for the task- he should have had someone like Arhaan at that point. The very reason he would have assigned this snatching task to Mahira would have been knowing that Shukla would be inhibited.
I am sure there will never be a fixed dangal on BB or any other reality show. If there is, women have to take the brunt as in the real world too. Men don't need to bow down before women for the sake of it by underplaying- what rot! If women are strong, take on men for sure. I mean, if Mahira were a Venus Williams or a wrestler of a woman, I wouldn't be saying this or else, leave the physical stuff to guys and leverage at whatever we are strong at. We didn't fight for equal justice to be given reservation and treated like bambis. Women need to know where to pick fights and know what's just and not or else like the previous poster mentioned, it will seem like Shukla is being targeted by all and his real vices will never important enough.
As for apologizing, Shukla is no Sana who shall throw away apologies knowing he will only be ridiculed for that too. How many people have actually apologized for anything in the history of BB? I am not saying Shukla shouldn't have, but then Mahira is constantly stalking him- he'd only have time to say sorry with her.
Or let's have a tennis match between a guy and girl, but hey dude, don't do too much of baseline play and stick to volleys coz hey, girls don't have the strength for major baseline play and so, hey, curb your strength, eh? And in this case, Mahira willingly went into the lion's mouth and then weeps when the lion closed his jaw. Was he supposed to keep it open for the sake of the darling doe? What rot... anyone- man or women need to pick physical tasks with equals. Not with people stronger than them and then claim to be a victim.
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