Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus
THIS is the father Abir needs and deserves👏🤗❤️
one who is giving him assurance, support and guidance through his trust and respect for his son-in-law🤗
Although abir smiled and was happy Baba wanted to gift him the change of his name today itself..you could see Abir wasn't quite sure how to react, what to say or what to do;
1. He can see his mother has been deeply affected by his choice to change surnames
2. In abir's mind, he still hasn't told Mishti about his decision. He's only said that he has hurt Meenu heart (at the mandhir) but never explained what he did. So Abir is still unsure as to whether he should continue with this decision, when Baba you want to sign here now?
This is why BP words are so important right now for Abir - it provides him with some comfort and assurance that his identity is not the most important right now, because BP knows Abir's value as a human, brother, son and now soon to be 'son-in-law'. BP respects Abir so highly that he doesn't give any notion of forcing abir to make his mind up and take decision right now, but rather tells him that the most important thing today is the godhana - these minute details of his name and identity can be dealt with later.👍🏼