Jo Tera Hai Woh Mera, Aur Jo Mera Woh Tera - Aa Jao Saarey - Upd Pg 1 - Page 74

Originally posted by: naq5

so cvs forget what they showed a few episodes earlier too? before marriage ke episodes bhool gaye but i week pehle ke to yaad rakho

They are trying to undo everything and move on to Season 2 🤔

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I don't know why minnie hardly gives any updates to babita about stuff related to education and career. Even if babita were illiterate, it's her right to know what minnie is upto and it's Minnie's duty to tell her. No excuse for this blunder. If I were into babitas place I would not be able to control my anger. She didn't tell babita about applying for university outside India. It's a big thing, why did she hide this from her mother? People usually give frequent update to parents on how studies are going, exam, results, future ambitions...parents themselves take active interest in education of their children. I have never seen them talking about this in a long time except when minnie was shown with books during exam. Exam na ho to padhai ke baare main baat hi nahi hoti!!!

remember her mother is a glass doll, mini has to be the mother here and hide it from babita so that she dosent freak out on her going away to study.

1)Mini basically is not sure of going herself. Neither with the admission nor with the will to go that far from babes. So she dosent want to reveal untill she is sure.

2) She wanted to tell babita but she was like you wont go anywhere i dont want you to go, i was actually secretly happy u dint get admssion in delhi college. So what can mini do.

Originally posted by: Roopb

😭😭 writing is so stupid now... mini loved Hs before but suddenly ????? All became villain all of sudden and jo real villain thee show mein they all are whitewashed... when I watched old episodes again it was all clear... mera to dil karta hai ke old episode ke dialogue n after episode 180 ke contradictory dialogues tweet karun with #kathakottage... but who cares... they are arrogant n full of ego... they don’t care for our emotions... mini ka character ese likh diya ke sab us character ke basis pe ashnoor ke abuse karne lagge n thode din pehle Anirudh ko bhi... we loved the trio but now everything is screwed up... I remember when I read that show is finite.. I was like... what I’ll do after PB... ab yeh haal hai ke khatam karo bas... aur pata nahin yahi lag raha hai ke hanita will have sad ending... kion ke kk is full of sadness...😭😭😭😭

Hey Gur... are you from Toronto???

When I found out that the show is finite I was surprised since it was nearing 200 episodes. No finite show ever goes for more than that. They honestly should have ended it with Hanita's wedding and then made S2 with Minnie's leap or whatever.

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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

When I found out that the show is finite I was surprised since it was nearing 200 episodes. No finite show ever goes for more than that. They honestly should have ended it with Hanita's wedding and then made S2 with Minnie's leap or whatever.

I am! :D

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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm gonna share a little something.

I mentioned previously how shortly after my graduation, I had suffered from a huge mental break down as a result of being pressurized to find a job quick and some familial issues. In that time, I clutched onto Spain because it was my escape route. I wanted to go because I wanted to escape the mess that my life had become, and also just to get some peace of mind. I wanted to break out of my familial constraints and just grow. Learn and figure out who I really am.

So, I took up a course and am now certified to be able to teach English abroad. I started applying to agencies that organize these trips without my parents' knowledge largely because I didn't want to tell them beforehand and end up having to not go. It'll be a failure in my eyes and I didn't want to see their disappointment.

And that's exactly what happened. The first agency I applied to, I got rejected. I didn't tell my parents about it because there wasn't a lot of risk involved. It was just a simple interview over Skype, no big deal.

This second one however I told my parents because it involved large sums of money. I gave Dad the link to the agency, he checked it out to make sure it was safe and off we went.

Thus far, I've been paying for all the fees because I don't want my parents to do so even though I know they'll be fine doing so. This is my trip and it's something that I want to do on my own. Just knowing that I have their full support backing me up is more than enough for me. I don't really need much else.

So in a lot of ways, I can understand where Minnie is coming from because I did it myself but the thing is that the truth will come out eventually and it's better if it happens soon and from her own mouth. There's a world of difference in leaving for a place knowing you have your family supporting you and leaving on bitter terms.

i do understand your thought process i would like to add one more thing. in your case you were sure you wanted to go. Mini here is not even sure yet if she wants to break off from babes and wants to go. that would have the reason for her not telling HS that day. Otherwise i think if she was sure she would have told him. Babita se to i dont expect mature talks with mini

Originally posted by: Roopb

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Originally posted by: naq5

i do understand your thought process i would like to add one more thing. in your case you were sure you wanted to go. Mini here is not even sure yet if she wants to break off from babes and wants to go. that would have the reason for her not telling HS that day. Otherwise i think if she was sure she would have told him. Babita se to i dont expect mature talks with mini

My situation differs from Minnie's in a lot of ways.

I love my parents, but I'm not too close to them. I don't share a lot of my problems with them partly because I don't want to stress them out, they may not understand me etc.

But Minnie is very close to Babita. Babita has already expressed her opinion in not wanting her to go but she hasn't put forth her wishes or desires. Unless she voices them out how will Babita know what she wants? Heck, Minnie should tell this to HS too so that she can get some sort of support from somewhere.

Babita is bound to be on her "no" jaap at the beginning but when she sees how it will benefit Minnie in the long run, she would say yes. Naeem Bi can help her out in the matter too since she's been living away from Irfaan all this time.

The thing is that the writers have messed up Babita far too much. Now no matter what the situation arises, she will never be presented as the mature one. She'll always be the one who needs to be coddled and have things explained to. Even then she won't understand and put on childish tantrums.

Everything is a mess. All the characters have been butchered to some point or another and now drama is being created for the sake of drama.

Anyone here have watched Gilmore Girls? I loved mother-daughter bond in that show 😊

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Itna saara pyaar toh de chuka hai yeh already. Aur kitna chahti hai yeh ladki?

Even if she wanted to leave, the way she went about it was all wrong. She should have at least brought up the topic and start easing her parents into it rather than just throwing the bomb onto them.

(For example, I had brought it up with my parents a year ago but actively applied only this year.)

Now she's gonna leave by scarring them both: HS and Babita both thinking that he couldn't love her enough to make her want to stay back with them. There will always be this hollowness, a void in their lives now because of the way she'll end up going on.

And my gosh, if they end up dying then it'll be with this thought in mind. It just makes me sick.

Wahi to! This is terrible. I can't imagine how Babita is going to feel. The guilt will never leave her and she may never fully enjoy being married to HS. As for him, I don't even know where to begin. It would be like losing Imarti and part of his jeene ki aakhri umeed all over again.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This show has always been about Mini's journey.

Season 1 - Mini's parents separate because Mini's dad cheats on her mother. Mini supports her mother against her father in the divorce proceedings, gives her confidence to become independent, helps her in opening her own catering services, thus giving her pankh. In the process, Mini's mother and their landlord fall in love. After the initial apprehensions, Mini begins to see that their landlord is the perfect man for her mother, and realizes that her mother deserves the happiness and love she never received from her father. In the meantime, Mini also supports her landlord uncle in overcoming his past demons regarding his ex-wife. Mini then gets her mother married to the landlord uncle. Mini realizes that her mother never wanted pankh and is happy being in her comfort zone of being a housewife. Mini feels she has failed to achieve her goal of giving pankh to her mother. Mini, then decides its time to live for herself so she decides to go to Australia, leaving her mother and her mother's husband behind.

Season 2- This will be Mini's journey in reconnecting with her father. The father she never knew because he was absent from the last 18 years of her life. Even though, her father didn't treat her mother right, or didn't do right by her, he is still her father at the end up the day, and will always remain so no matter the consequences. She will probably end of sudharoying her father too.

And all this time, I thought this was Babita's journey in getting emancipated with her daughter's support, along with discovering love with Hanuman. Hanuman and Babita's journey in 2nd chances in love and marriage. Hanuman's journey in coming out of his past demons, childhood trauma with the help of Babita and Mini. Mini's journey in finding a family in the most unexpected way. Mini's journey in adjusting to new dynamics. The trio's journey in finally settling in this new dynamics.

We all thought the same thing. Ek saal se bewakoof banaya humein iss PH ne.