Jo Tera Hai Woh Mera, Aur Jo Mera Woh Tera - Aa Jao Saarey - Upd Pg 1 - Page 30

Originally posted by: inlieu

It might be, but that's a lesson she will have to learn, unfortunately the hard way.

What will piss me off is if she chooses HS/realizes his worth because Ashok 2.0 convinces her.

I'd rather she come to this position on her own.

If she does this then I can't even look at the past Minnie the same way.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

We won't get a Dad vs. Dad fight but we get to see Minnie choosing Ashok as her father. Who would've thought we would see this day? 🥺

I just can't believe this, Gur!

What the heck was all that effort put in for HS-Minnie all those episodes ago?

When she remembered her father in flashback, did she not remember how HS had, in the first meeting with Ashok, stopped him from hitting Minnie or how HS had been the one she had leaned on when Ashok had humiliated her mother in court?

Can she really forgive Ashok for that? Oh wait, HS did that too to Babita is what some people will say but we know, as does Minnie what the circumstances were. Still, HS baap nahin ban paya, aur na hi woh mauqa degi usko, even if he'll be the one rooting for her to make something of her life and soar.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Let's just wait and watch, maybe she realises the difference in time....

My last ray of hope is gone, now. I can't believe this.

Ab to dard hi nahin ho raha, because I feel numb.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

But that's the Ashok that we know in India. We don't know how he was in London. Obviously there had to have been something in him which made Meeta fall so irrevocably in love with him. She couldn't even recognize the man she was seeing in India.

Idk, maybe if they had met in other circumstances Ashok truly may have been more respectful.

At this point, I feel like they'll do anything to keep any character they can except Hanita.

I don't know anymore. Thats how I see Ashok though. However he must have been with Meeta in London, it still doesn't excuse him of all the things he did to Babita, Mini, Meeta, his parents, as well as to HS.

Yep. They will retain everyone else, but Hanita. Just great. Whatever.

Just end this season already instead of dragging it so much. 🤔

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Pata nahi kya hai... I am just upset seeing all this.

Hanita needed to exit for Ashok's entry for Mini to get closure or whatever she's seeking at this point.

HS will definitely try to help Mini get in contact with Ashok probably behind Babita's back. I want HS to be honest with Babita about this. I really can't see another misunderstanding or separation. Just don't freaking separate or kill them. That will be cruel. 🤔

At this point, I feel like it's something hurtling at high speed, downhill and there's this sense of impending doom. Ugh.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think so too and of course Minnie will forgive him and happily accept his money.

HS kaun hai? Ek maamooli sa inspector, par Minnie ka baap to London mein rehta hai apni cool biwi ke saath.

If it all comes down to money, then I swear I haven't seen a more laalchi or matlabi girl than her. Is that what everything comes down to for her? Money?

I understand that being homeless and broke shook her, but is that the lesson that she took away from all her hard time? That money is everything? What about people's emotions and their feelings? All the dil ke rishte? Do they all mean nothing to her in front of all the blood ties?

Originally posted by: _Reka_

They probably just didn't know yet how to go on with the story 😅😅😅

Which is so frustrating since they had SO much to work with!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If she does this then I can't even look at the past Minnie the same way.

Yep, but Minnie has always had psychological problems since we first saw her. It's only going to get more twisted as she grows older because NONE of the adults in her life recognize it or can help her. Ek HS tha, par usko bhi cleaned bowled kar diya.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But what's her reference point for this?

Ashok has never spent any time with her over the years whatsoever?

What's pissing me off is that one CD incident of HS, which I understand was bad, is what she's using to push him away and frankly find excuses of sorts, whereas everything bad thing Ashok did will still give him forgiveness from her and a second chance that HS will never ever get.

Perhaps for her blood is indeed thicker than water, whereas for HS dil ke rishte hold equal weight, if not more. He doesn't want to force Minnie for anything and if she has made up her mind that HS is not family, she won't change it easily. What can he do?

Hm, maybe the reference point is babita Beeji Dadu and everyone telling her that this person is her father, andx obviously loves her and cares for her etc. Year after year as well.

And while she did ask him whether he loved her Babes and got her answer there, she was too intertwined with Babita to ask separately for herself. She needs to know what Ashok felt for her and they have never addressed that. Everything went down along the izzat-money-responsibility line. I am by no means saying that Ashok didn't fail as a father, but Minnie has to realise this for herself.

As for Hanuman, even before the CD incident, she immediately disowned him after she got to know that he loved her Babes. This indicates she wasn't considering him her dad - who would mind her dad loving her mom irl?

Idk what to make of all this, but now I bet the writers aren't better off either.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I don't know anymore. Thats how I see Ashok though. However he must have been with Meeta in London, it still doesn't excuse him of all the things he did to Babita, Mini, Meeta, his parents, as well as to HS.

Yep. They will retain everyone else, but Hanita. Just great. Whatever.

Just end this season already instead of dragging it so much. 🤔

He pushed his pregnant wife to the floor and insulted her in front of everyone. NOT forgivable.

Everything HS feared when that CD played during the wedding is now coming true. Makes me want to throw up.