Originally posted by: Ilovewahi
Tbh i feel bad for her as she is suffering from inside about not being able to get the love of her real parents and being given to adoption by her family due to their helplessness. N m sure she feels the pressure of not being able to get recognition and fame as much as her brother, mama or cousins. She is the kind of person who has it in her nature to be tolerating the kind of behavior shukla has towards her, in hopes of love, recognition.
All of her dormate behavior is due to her suppressed desire of missing out on parental love( from her REAL parents) in growing up years and from the whtever small amount of guilt of her real mother passing away while bringing her into life. Sometimes people dont realize how difficult it is for someone to grow up knwing all this details about yourself and family. No amount of love from her foster parents would be able to relive from it and its pretty evident.
Having gone through something similar in life and battling depression just like her, i can say she is pretty brave to comeout/ realize it herself and i wiuld just wish ajd pray she finds her happiness soon
Sorry we are not allowed that app here, so didnt get to watch the video, but thank you all for elaborating the content for people like me.
Iām sad to hear what she has been through.,,
number 1, she is not responsible for the circumstances, she couldnāt have done anything regarding her mother. She should stop blaming herself for this. Her mother would never blame her for this, so she should be reassured. Itās something, not in anyoneās control.
2. Itās good she had a opportunity to be taken care off by foster parents - there are so many in this world, who donāt have that blessing
3. She should not compare her life with anyone elseās life, her life is her own journey and she is the author for it
4. She may have had problems in life, we all do, but living is all about, rising above these circumstances and still able to enjoy the sunshine and other blessings in life.
5. She needs help from a professional but importantly she has to find her passions which will give real joy and soul satisfaction. SS doesnāt come across as likely to give it - but I maybe wrong.
6. Regarding this show, she is brave to be here and lasted so long already, I just hope she stops feeling insecure and comes out of her shell and just enjoy her time there, which I doubt bb will allow it happen, yet itās a unique opportunity to be fair and be human if she wants.
End of the day - BB is not real life, itās just being strong to deal with the big bullies there, besides stresses and adversities in living there. No one becomes great winning this show? They are already great for being bien human and if they continue to be human
Sorry that was quite a long post.
Edited by Priya9. - 4 years ago
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