Originally posted by: kshah1987
He didn’t really control them in the beginning either, all the Bahus still played their own games under his nose.
Aj trusts guddan and I don’t deny he should take control somewhat but he takes guddans advice blindly which is good on one hand and bad on another. So yes for that I do think he needs to step up but the rest? No sorry I don’t blame him nor do I think he is at fault. Alisha took a knife to her wrist, what is he supposed to do here? Of course he chose his daughter. Anyone would.
For a moment if I forget this is a itv show and look for some logic , I just cant understand why keep should one always choose the child ,when the child is 18 yrs old and choosing to do everything that should not be done !!!!!! I know the parent child relationship nd I am a parent myself. And never have I sided with my children when they have been wrong !!!!! That in fact gives them a tool for blackmail ,which is exactly what alisha is doing !!!!!!
She knows all these threats are going to work and so keeps increasing the stakes .
Anyway that is totally my POV !!!! I dont believe in abiding by the child even if they are going horribly wrong !!!
Akshan scenes are a treat for me but too many random scenes thrown in without context reduce the impact . Anyway I know if I dont like the show I should leave , but that is what is causing the pain , Having been with the akshan journey for a year , SO hanging in there.