New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 28

Originally posted by: Roopb

This is just my thinking... I could be wrong....

It could be me... but I have theory... there was twitter war during imarti track... when they were showing mini doing everything for Hs case... Babita SS became minimum... n twitteratti got so angry and started bashing mini (Ashnoor) after that KK added more space for mini and show turned into something else... I felt there is ego in kk... look at the tweets they post... so arrogant... n can not take criticism...

But to be honest.. it’s form of art.. and they are doing it for public view... so when it is public show one needs to have guts to take criticism...

I paint... n when ever I did exhibition... it is for public and they have right to judge my work...people gave opinion on my work... they may like it or they may have some question or issues over something... we always take the criticism in positive way... yes when ever I make painting for myself... it always reflects my feeling and emotions... as it is mine...I hope I explained...

I didn't really pay a lot of attention to what was going on Twitter during that time since I was fairly new to the forum itself. But looking at what happened to the story, then I felt like something was amiss when we weren't getting Babita's POV. This was an incredibly important track and we didn't get even one introspective scene from her? It felt so off. And then the rest was history I guess. 🤔

I agree with you on KK not being able to take criticism though. Whatever form of art it is, it's no longer yours once you share it with someone else. It becomes the public's and they have the full right to comment however they want on it even though you as the artist, may not agree with it.

You've explained it beautifully! I would dare to call myself a creative person as well since I write, make vids, and dabble a bit in making sigs. I know which areas I'm stronger at but it doesn't stop me from trying. Writing is my strongest suit since I practice that a lot and I'm more comfortable with words, but it doesn't shake away that fear of being judged or having my piece not be treated positively. It's your baby, something that you put a lot of efforts into creating. It's only natural to feel so protective over it. But you need to put it out there in the world so that it (and you) can learn how to grow. Take the positive and negative criticisms and grow. Be better and do better. That's all we can aim for. No one's ever going to be perfect since there will always be someone to say something mean about your creation. But you need to learn how to take in strides and let the negativity go.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nope, wasn't directed at you. Please don't take it on yourself.

I take issue with the original post that claimed that Mini should leave Babita and go live with HS. You didn't make that post.

There are fans of the lead actress in this forum who's bias is quite obvious as they try to run down other characters. That is what I responded to.

I give my take on all three characters as I see them too.

P.S.....yes he got sex....yehi toh JEEVAN KA SATYA hai😆

Ok. Coz I see bias for all 3. There are staunch fans for all 3.

Mini is still a teenager so I will excuse her. Coz she doesn’t even know about life much. But Babita and Hanuman married each other knowing fully well. So to me, both gets the blame equally and Hanuman is not some great guy doing upkaar on Babes. Even if he is compromising, he is getting what he wants.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I also think they are showing that remarrying on the rebound is a bad idea. In some ways, that's what it is for Babita. She is not over her history with Ashok yet.

This is what I think it is too....all signs point to it....she is clearly not over her Ashok baggage and really wasn't ready for a second marriage.....that is why it's such a mess and all they are trying to do is brush things under the carpet but the mess is obvious.....it won't stay hidden for long.

Rebound is NEVER a good idea....you don't just ruin your life, you ruin many others alongside.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

NB jitna nazar utaarti hai, utni hi logon ki nazar lagti bhi rehti hai😆......cuz Babita basically courts that nazar with her showing off....lol

I was about to say that.

Babita invites nazar on her family. Fir toh lagegi hi.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

So according to the discussions here,

Hanuman knew Babita is not there yet and still he went ahead and married her?

He even knows he is not gonna get emotional compatibility after First night and yet he was eager to go on honeymoon.

Basically, this makes him sound like he got married to have sex. That makes him shallow and special kinda tharki.

Well I thought him to be better guy. LOL. After all men.

@bold nope, but realizing he might not get compatibility doesn't mean he walks out of this marriage. I don't think he ever thought of quitting at this stage, and he's going to do what a lot of spouses do: keep the peace.

We may agree or disagree with this approach, but there are loads of marriages like this.

They are still young so the physical aspect is there but after a while it won't be enough and definitely not the basis of growing old together.

Originally posted by: Openminded

Although there are things I am complaining, I can't stop this serial. There is something that pulls me to this series.

Count me in. 😆 I still like all 3 for different reasons.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I have been saying this. She really should have left the haveli then.

Mini-HS could have continued their relationship. Mini would have turned 18 and could have decided whoever she wants to stay with, either Babes or HS, her life, her choice.

Shaadi aur pati ko maro goli, Babita, concentrate on your business and take it to great heights. Maybe you can be a world renowned chef some day. True emancipation 🥳

Yeah, but I don't think women should necessarily have to choose between getting married and having a career when they get a second chance in life. They can potentially have both and be happy. They will just have to learn to balance.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

So according to the discussions here,

Hanuman knew Babita is not there yet and still he went ahead and married her?

He even knows he is not gonna get emotional compatibility after First night and yet he was eager to go on honeymoon.

Basically, this makes him sound like he got married to have sex. That makes him shallow and special kinda tharki.

Well I thought him to be better guy. LOL. After all men.

And his "main toh thera mard" comment isn't helping either.

I really don't want him to be this though. This isn't the HS that I became so attached to. 🥺

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she loves the idea of being in love, than being in love itself. It restores her sense of pride and confidence in herself as a woman to see that HS loves her so much, that there's nothing lacking in her, etc. The fact that HS loves Minnie made it easier for her to decide because she knew her daughter would accept him too.

Then why should HS suffer like this? They should really get a divorce. Only possible option I see. It seems like Babita is incapable of growing up and maturing... toh sex ke kitne din kaam chalega.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Ok. Coz I see bias for all 3. There are staunch fans for all 3.

Mini is still a teenager so I will excuse her. Coz she doesn’t even know about life much. But Babita and Hanuman married each other knowing fully well. So to me, both gets the blame equally and Hanuman is not some great guy doing upkaar on Babes. Even if he is compromising, he is getting what he wants.

I'm not a staunch fan of any of the three actors......so I don't give my opinion based on that. I give my opinion based on the story and characters that I feel attached to.....not to blindly defend anyone.

And I never said HS did some upkaar on Babita....I call him out for all his mistakes all the time.