New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 22

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No, I haven't seen this movie but I just googled it and read the plot....wow@ the scars left on the kid cuz the parents were so self-absorbed and couldn't manage the divorce and the aftermath well.

It's sad that the adults don't realize the magnitude of collateral damage thanks to their inability to get out of their own heads.

Minnie's first family messed with her head and now this one too will mess it up further. Not good.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: This would be HILARIOUS🤣

DO IT, Babita😈😆.....waise bhi sab cartoon ho gaya hai....let her be Babita Mini.....and side pe HS gardan jhuka ke bolega...."as you wish, as you like....sab aapke liye hi hai MAALKIN JI"🤣

Now that I think about it, HS was always like that, it's just that we didn't notice.

He always used to say "Hanuman Singh to aap ke hukum ka banda hai, ji"... humne hi seriously nahin liya uski.

Chalo, I feel better. Uska character itna nahin change hua jitna maine socha, bas yeh baatein aur 'nikharke' aayin.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I just wonder if one day he is really going to think about why he got married in the first place and if this is indeed what he wants for himself. It's hard for widowed people to remarry and then break off the second marriage too, because of their past experience with loss. Often people would rather be in a hollow marriage than all alone. I know it's easy for us to say as outsiders but those who are in sueych situations do struggle. Let's not forget, all his suffering and pain is still repressed. After getting this taste of family, I am not sure he could live without either Babita or Minnie.

I have never ever seen her think about HS' situation. You know, I don't need her to be a deep thinker, philosopher, etc. Just show that she cares about what's raging inside him, see the pain in his eyes, at least ask him to talk about himself, on topics that have nothing to do with her. Forget wife, even friends do that for each other. It's so frustrating to think that at this rate he may never open up to her about his past.

I hope he does because as a viewer, I really have no idea why he loves her. Is it really because of Minnie? Or because she reminds him of his mother and Imarti? Or it just the sex and food at this point? I really want there to be something more deep and meaningful than that because I can't equate HS with shallow thinking or a hollowness of any kind. It just doesn't click for me.

I know he wants some sort of companionship but why did he expect this from Babita? Did he mistake her interpretation of the letters to be her tuning into his emotions? Or was it him trying to get redemption by giving Babita her second chance at marriage? His mother never got the husband that she deserved and ended up dying as a result of it. Since he already sees his mother in Babita, he can try to at least make her life right.

She never thought about HS. Not before the marriage and surely not after. By marrying him, she got everything. She got the house, she got his name, the benefits of having a police inspector as a husband (high reputation etc.), a share in his income, all his attention, the implied romance, a father for her daughter, matlab sab kuch. HS ko kya mila? The only thing he wanted (I presumed) was a woman who would love him entirely and be sensitive to his feelings. Someone who would care about him and take care of him.

I knew from how their wedding night played out that HS will never get the love that he rightly deserves. Woh toh bas Imarti de sakti thi. 😒

Originally posted by: inlieu

What turn?

Turn as in twist. This changing surname ka funda kuch aur hi nikle ga. It won't be as simple as it sounds.

Originally posted by: inlieu

EXACTLY! She's a senior citizen after all. Itna stress theek nahin hai unke liye.

Imagine HS' reaction when he finds out what his own family is making Naeem Bi do at this age now. 😳

I know she has invested in the business and she does the work willingly but still. Btw, what would Babita have done if Naeem Bi had gone with Irfaan? Kammo ko taana yeh phir bhi maar thi aur Kammo taane sun ke kaam par aane se rahi. Phir yeh saara khaana kaun banata? Workers?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Imagine HS' reaction when he finds out what his own family is making Naeem Bi do at this age now. 😳

I know she has invested in the business and she does the work willingly but still. Btw, what would Babita have done if Naeem Bi had gone with Irfaan? Kammo ko taana yeh phir bhi maar thi aur Kammo taane sun ke kaam par aane se rahi. Phir yeh saara khaana kaun banata? Workers?

NB won't even tell him... She's too good.

He should just go off somewhere outstation with NB and Lala and let the three of them take a nice long break.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Turn as in twist. This changing surname ka funda kuch aur hi nikle ga. It won't be as simple as it sounds.

In what sense? You mean Babita doing this under pressure of log kya kahenge?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I hope he does because as a viewer, I really have no idea why he loves her. Is it really because of Minnie? Or because she reminds him of his mother and Imarti? Or it just the sex and food at this point? I really want there to be something more deep and meaningful than that because I can't equate HS with shallow thinking or a hollowness of any kind. It just doesn't click for me.

I know he wants some sort of companionship but why did he expect this from Babita? Did he mistake her interpretation of the letters to be her tuning into his emotions? Or was it him trying to get redemption by giving Babita her second chance at marriage? His mother never got the husband that she deserved and ended up dying as a result of it. Since he already sees his mother in Babita, he can try to at least make her life right.

She never thought about HS. Not before the marriage and surely not after. By marrying him, she got everything. She got the house, she got his name, the benefits of having a police inspector as a husband (high reputation etc.), a share in his income, all his attention, the implied romance, a father for her daughter, matlab sab kuch. HS ko kya mila? The only thing he wanted (I presumed) was a woman who would love him entirely and be sensitive to his feelings. Someone who would care about him and take care of him.

I knew from how their wedding night played out that HS will never get the love that he rightly deserves. Woh toh bas Imarti de sakti thi. 😒

I also want to see that introspection. From what he says to Lala it's clear he's bothered by it. The physical comforts are a bonus, not the core of a marriage. HS has been married before and has experienced ALL of it, so he knows what's missing (not that he wouldn't if it were his first marriage). Whether he becomes a full-time joru ka ghulam or not, he's got too much depth of character to just be ok with this year after year. He's 37 now - zindagi bohot lambi hai. He can't even be a proper father to Minnie yet or raise her, and it's unfair to expect him to do that on his own. In many marriages, the couple becomes more of co-parents and less involved with each other, but I don't even see them being able to co-parent because they are both on completely different planes in this regard.

Yes, he is doing penance and over-compensating and if it means hurting himself and suffering in silence, he will. His conversation with Minnie when she apologized keeps coming to mind. I don't want him to become a martyr for this cause, PLEASE NO!

@bold, aptly put. Now that you've articulated, the contrast appears even more stark. 😔

It's one thing to be alone without a partner and another (worse situation) to have a spouse and still feel you are all alone. I don't want him to turn into this angry bitter man who has lost his enthusiasm for life and love. Minnie ka bapu hi ban ke reh jaye ga ke (if Babita even let's him do that)?

Yes, that wedding night scene about the sindoor ki dibbi and the way he looked at himself in the mirror with the realization that he has walked into a life of emotional umar quaid. Gur, that scene just pierces my heart every time. The finality of the closing the drawers and locking a part of himself away, perhaps for good, is just too much to bear.

Yes, he's been making mistakes, but none are so great that he cannot be forgiven or that he doesn't deserve love and care. Sure, having Minnie is great, but she's a daughter she can only help him so much. A companion in the true sense is what his heart always sought and I do think he was right that he could love no other the way he loved Imarti and none can love him the way she did. That balcony scene of theirs was proof enough.

It should have been his second chance too but life has dealt him an even bigger blow. What he thought was a ray of sunshine in the darkness of his life, turned out to be a fleeting thing.

My heart's breaking at this thought.

Originally posted by: inlieu

In what sense? You mean Babita doing this under pressure of log kya kahenge?

No, I haven't seen the promo obviously but from her smiling face it doesn't seem like she's doing it out of pressure. (Although if she does, I wouldn't be too surprised. 🤔)

But what I meant to say was that the CVs will make this a lot more complicated and twisted than it needs to be.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

No, just do a direct copy and paste. If you're trying to post a photo, then it needs to be a .jpeg

Yes I tried pasting direct link.... it’s not letting me copy paste... may be I am doing it through phone... not using pc...