Baby talk - Page 7

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, that's definitely PART of what they are trying to show....but there are other bigger issues related to Babita's fundamental personality flaws beyond her Ashok baggage too.....it's all twisted into a complex mess that gets worsened by HS blindly appeasing her rather than standing up for himself each time she keeps comparing him to Ashok or throws Ashok in his face.

HS is so much like Mini in keeping the depth of his own hurt inside, not letting others see it....so he will never jataao it to that extent and Babita's sense of entitlement will continue to grow since he continues to make her feel that the world revolves around her and her baggage only.

It's amazing how Babita cannot comprehend that no one would like to be compared to Ashok😕.....and this is the husband that she's otherwise proclaiming to the world that he supposedly loves her so much....that's the husband she never apologizes to for comparing him to Ashok🤔

babita ne mini ko mita she compare kiya. HS kya cheez hai. she says nonsense in the heat of the moment. he is her husband now so given how she is she will compare both husbands. She has not said sorry to both of them still. B day came everything was forgotten even NB gyan

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, that's definitely PART of what they are trying to show....but there are other bigger issues related to Babita's fundamental personality flaws beyond her Ashok baggage too.....it's all twisted into a complex mess that gets worsened by HS blindly appeasing her rather than standing up for himself each time she keeps comparing him to Ashok or throws Ashok in his face.

HS is so much like Mini in keeping the depth of his own hurt inside, not letting others see it....so he will never jataao it to that extent and Babita's sense of entitlement will continue to grow since he continues to make her feel that the world revolves around her and her baggage only.

It's amazing how Babita cannot comprehend that no one would like to be compared to Ashok😕.....and this is the husband that she's otherwise proclaiming to the world that he supposedly loves her so much....that's the husband she never apologizes to for comparing him to Ashok🤔

I can see HS suffocating these days, grasping at straws, desperate to find happiness in even the tiniest of things. I really hate seeing him like this. This whole amrit manthan thing is going on and on. Kab tak?

She proclaims to the world, that's enough for her. Apologize to HS? What? Never! If the tables were turned and he ever mentioned Imarti phir to Mahabharat shuru ho jaati ghar mein.

I wonder what trigger HS needs to get his act together.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Itna expect mat kijiye Babita se, please.

not expectingbut in general she is so obsessed with mini. the fear that she will feel out of place in this marriage wanting to cement hs mini as father daughter. i thought she would feel guilty about mini if an unexpected pregnancy happens. but yaha to she is dreaming about a child. looked out of character to me

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Having a baby would be a total disaster for this already messy marriage....but then this is desi society where shaadi and baccha are both usually rushed only..... so *shrugs*

I personally feel that one has to be more sensitive about bringing a child into a second marriage when a child already exists....it's not about holding back your desires and not living your life.....it's about the fact that you already have a child you are responsible for and you should balance that responsibility first before adding on new ones.....sirf population badhaane ke liye bacche na paida karo, have some sense about the full nature of responsibility that comes with it when you already have a grown teenage daughter and a marriage that still needs to be managed.

But yeh toh woh samjhe jisko reality ka koi idea ho.....Babita toh lala land mein hai and HS would probably just be happy to have a kid, period.....aage kya sochna.

It would be interesting if HS refuses for now for the reasons we all know, but Babita still wants it and he goes along with it just to make her happy.

Originally posted by: naq5

not expectingbut in general she is so obsessed with mini. the fear that she will feel out of place in this marriage wanting to cement hs mini as father daughter. i thought she would feel guilty about mini if an unexpected pregnancy happens. but yaha to she is dreaming about a child. looked out of character to me

Now that the photo of the trio is on the wall, Babita feels she ticked a box and is moving on to the next project.

Yeh baby bhi Minnie hi raise karegi.

Originally posted by: naq5

not the right time for her to be pregnant.

one thing that i felt odd was babes is so hell bent on that mini should be made to feel ease in this marriage she should not feel teesra. But while thinking of a baby she dint think how mini would take it. Sibling insecurity is a real thing even with real ones . here mini will be a step sibling she can very much feel left out if HS & babita own baby comes. but babita dint even think of that possibility

If Hanita have a kid, Mini will be a half sibling to that kid, not a step-sibling. If HS had his biological kid with Imarti, Mini and that kid would have been step-siblings.

Anyway, how will they show a Baby though. It will be hard for them to show a small baby, unless they take a leap and cast 5-6 year old kid, I don’t see them casting an infant. It will be highly difficult to manage.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

If Hanita have a kid, Mini will be a half sibling to that kid, not a step-sibling. If HS had his biological kid with Imarti, Mini and that kid would have been step-siblings.

Anyway, how will they show a Baby though. It will be hard for them to show a small baby, unless they take a leap and cast 5-6 year old kid, I don’t see them casting an infant. It will be highly difficult to manage.

Depends how 'realistic' they want to be.

I won't be surprised if HS finally becomes Minnie's father and says he doesn't want other children, she is more than enough.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Depends how 'realistic' they want to be.

I won't be surprised if HS finally becomes Minnie's father and says he doesn't want other children, she is more than enough.

You are expecting too much from this unrealistic realistic show 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Again, it's fine if she's nuts about him and feels he showers her with so much love. Has she stopped to think what she's giving him in return? I haven't seen that, not even once.

Exactly! It's always about HS loves me so much, showers me in love, I want to bask in his love. It's never I love him so much (except that one time we saw her breaking down to NB) or want to do this or that for him (except cook).

I know there are relationships which are skewed with one person putting in more effort. But I don't see any scope of improvement here yet. Babita isn't even acknowledging it.

Hell, ever since HS locked up that Sindoor ki dabbi, Babita hasn't even thought about asking about his mother? Yes, she was worried on the first night, but uske baad? Your relationship (Minnie) is of utmost importance to you, what about that of HS?

Originally posted by: tk2015

Exactly! It's always about HS loves me so much, showers me in love, I want to bask in his love. It's never I love him so much (except that one time we saw her breaking down to NB) or want to do this or that for him (except cook).

I know there are relationships which are skewed with one person putting in more effort. But I don't see that here any scope of improvement here yet. Babita isn't even acknowledging it.

Hell, ever since HS locked up that Sindoor ki dabbi, Babita hasn't even thought about asking about his mother? Yes, she was worried on the first night, but uske baad? Your relationship (Minnie) is of utmost importance to you, what about that of HS?

This isn't really a marriage....a marriage is a partnership.....this relationship right now is just about appeasement.....

HS is behaving like he only married Babita to give her happiness....he didn't expect anything in return.....and Babita seems happy enough with that. It doesn't even occur to her to ask him about what he feels, thinks, what his past is, what his emotions are. As long as he tells her loves her, he considers Mini his daughter, that's it for her. It's just about labels and general statements....no depth.

Like I said, she's an escapist....kaam kuch karna nahin hai, par phal instant chahiye.