Baby talk - Page 6

Imagine if Babes gets pregnant

Then Minnie and HS will need to have eggshells taped to their feet 🤦🏽‍♀️

No one will want to upset the mom-to-be who ironically never grew up to be an adult

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This is ABSOLUTELY going to happen.....I don't even doubt it anymore.....it was obvious from that conversation only that she didn't fully grasp what HS was telling her about her relationship with Ashok.....all she got was that she should jataao haq for it to be pyar....she didn't grasp the full picture of what HS was trying to explain to her.

The moment conflict invariably crops up in her and HS's equation, she will twist his own words and claim that the whole love was a mirage.

Instead of understanding the full picture, she will fixate on selective points and twist them.....this is how she always does things. She is anyways quick to throw Ashok comparisons in HS's face in almost every argument.....so I fully expect her to do this at some point too.

HS will be hurt but I wonder if his hurt will even then be enough for her to feel regret and understand what she's doing wrong.....lol or just one more repeat of lame feather romance and apology done *rolls eyes*

I am sorry to say this, but aside from Lala, NB, and Chachi, no one really cares about the depth of HS' pain and hurt. Babita to bilkul nahin.

I have never seen her think of it as a second chance for HS too, after everything he lost. Rather, the fact that he told her he had more to lose than she did has reinforced her already overt sense of entitlement now that she thinks he won't leave her. She compared him to Ashok as a husband and as a father and I am sure she will do it again and again to justify her viewpoint. What an insult to a man like HS, to have to be compared to someone like Ashok.

Maybe they are trying to show that after remarriage one should not compare current and ex-spouses or expect the new spouse to fill the voids/atone for the mistakes of the ex. Unfortunately, that's exactly the position HS has been put in and it's totally unfair to all three of them.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Imagine if Babes gets pregnant

Then Minnie and HS will need to have eggshells taped to their feet 🤦🏽‍♀️

No one will want to upset the mom-to-be who ironically never grew up to be an adult

You know, that's exactly what I was thinking. I am so dreading this.

Originally posted by: naq5

ive been telling about it since the marriage rituals started that HS Mini need to let go of this thing to molly coddle babita. she has been empowered enough she now needs to behave like an adult and take responsibility

In a way both have forced each other or convinced each other to do it even when the other wasnt willing. Its not only mini even HS has done it with convincing mini when she was upset with babita. They are doing the same now too and in all this its their relation which has taken the worse hit

I don't think Babita has proven that she can behave like an adult and handle responsibility....that is why HS-Mini keep trying to appease her even now.

They used to do it before the marriage also but they used to balance it with giving her some tough love as well from time to time.....now it's just blind appeasement, so it's worse.

Babita ka toh jo hoga so hoga.....HS-Mini are definitely damaging their own relationship in the process too since they barely think about interacting with each other about genuine things beyond whatever Babita related crisis they have to manage or put on an act for. They are so consumed in only managing Babita's moods, that they aren't being able to see how they both are also losing their identities and relationship with each other in the process.

Originally posted by: naq5

ive been telling about it since the marriage rituals started that HS Mini need to let go of this thing to molly coddle babita. she has been empowered enough she now needs to behave like an adult and take responsibility

In a way both have forced each other or convinced each other to do it even when the other wasnt willing. Its not only mini even HS has done it with convincing mini when she was upset with babita. They are doing the same now too and in all this its their relation which has taken the worse hit

Absolutely. They have to let her make mistakes and learn by herself instead of trying to cocoon her. Hadh ho gayi.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't think Babita has proven that she can behave like an adult and handle responsibility....that is why HS-Mini keep trying to appease her even now.

They used to do it before the marriage also but they used to balance it with giving her some tough love as well from time to time.....now it's just blind appeasement, so it's worse.

Babita ka toh jo hoga so hoga.....HS-Mini are definitely damaging their own relationship in the process too since they barely think about interacting with each other about genuine things beyond whatever Babita related crisis they have to manage or put on an act for. They are so consumed in only managing Babita's moods, that they aren't being able to see how they both are also losing their identities and relationship with each other in the process.

@bold, and I believe this is exactly what the writers are trying to show us. What a mess!

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Imagine if Babes gets pregnant

Then Minnie and HS will need to have eggshells taped to their feet 🤦🏽‍♀️

No one will want to upset the mom-to-be who ironically never grew up to be an adult

one thing that i felt odd was babes is so hell bent on that mini should be made to feel ease in this marriage she should not feel teesra. But while thinking of a baby she dint think how mini would take it. Sibling insecurity is a real thing even with real ones . here mini will be a step sibling she can very much feel left out if HS & babita own baby comes. but babita dint even think of that possibility

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am sorry to say this, but aside from Lala, NB, and Chachi, no one really cares about the depth of HS' pain and hurt. Babita to bilkul nahin.

I have never seen her think of it as a second chance for HS too, after everything he lost. Rather, the fact that he told her he had more to lose than she did has reinforced her already overt sense of entitlement now that she thinks he won't leave her. She compared him to Ashok as a husband and as a father and I am sure she will do it again and again to justify her viewpoint. What an insult to a man like HS, to have to be compared to someone like Ashok.

Maybe they are trying to show that after remarriage one should not compare current and ex-spouses or expect the new spouse to fill the voids/atone for the mistakes of the ex. Unfortunately, that's exactly the position HS has been put in and it's totally unfair to all three of them.

Yes, that's definitely PART of what they are trying to show....but there are other bigger issues related to Babita's fundamental personality flaws beyond her Ashok baggage too.....it's all twisted into a complex mess that gets worsened by HS blindly appeasing her rather than standing up for himself each time she keeps comparing him to Ashok or throws Ashok in his face.

HS is so much like Mini in keeping the depth of his own hurt inside, not letting others see it....so he will never jataao it to that extent and Babita's sense of entitlement will continue to grow since he continues to make her feel that the world revolves around her and her baggage only.

It's amazing how Babita cannot comprehend that no one would like to be compared to Ashok😕.....and this is the husband that she's otherwise proclaiming to the world that he supposedly loves her so much....that's the husband she never apologizes to for comparing him to Ashok🤔

Originally posted by: naq5

not the right time for her to be pregnant.

one thing that i felt odd was babes is so hell bent on that mini should be made to feel ease in this marriage she should not feel teesra. But while thinking of a baby she dint think how mini would take it. Sibling insecurity is a real thing even with real ones . here mini will be a step sibling she can very much feel left out if HS & babita own baby comes. but babita dint even think of that possibility

Itna expect mat kijiye Babita se, please.

Originally posted by: naq5

not the right time for her to be pregnant.

one thing that i felt odd was babes is so hell bent on that mini should be made to feel ease in this marriage she should not feel teesra. But while thinking of a baby she dint think how mini would take it. Sibling insecurity is a real thing even with real ones . here mini will be a step sibling she can very much feel left out if HS & babita own baby comes. but babita dint even think of that possibility

Having a baby would be a total disaster for this already messy marriage....but then this is desi society where shaadi and baccha are both usually rushed only..... so *shrugs*

I personally feel that one has to be more sensitive about bringing a child into a second marriage when a child already exists....it's not about holding back your desires and not living your life.....it's about the fact that you already have a child you are responsible for and you should balance that responsibility first before adding on new ones.....sirf population badhaane ke liye bacche na paida karo, have some sense about the full nature of responsibility that comes with it when you already have a grown teenage daughter and a marriage that still needs to be managed.

But yeh toh woh samjhe jisko reality ka koi idea ho.....Babita toh lala land mein hai and HS would probably just be happy to have a kid, period.....aage kya sochna.