New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 16

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Bas ab toh yehi sun na rahe gaya tha. Behno ab toh sindoor aur bacche hi jeevan ki sachai hai.

Lol as predicted by you 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Babita only understands that he misses his mother and Imarti. What she will not get is the depth of his emotions and his trauma regarding both. She was like that even before the character was 'butchered'. She has been self-absorbed from day one, that hasn't changed a bit.

For her to get HS, she has to put her own self aside and really truly focus on him. Her wanting HS to dictate the letter was not about making him feel better or helping him but wanting to know what he had in his heart, because he has always been in awe of what he shared with Imarti, something she never experienced before. Aur ab dekho, mauqa mil raha hai to use bhi nahin karti. You could hear the same thing in her voice when she interpreted Imarti's letter to SS, her being in awe of HS' late wife and their love story. It's something Babita aspires to subconsciously but is clueless about how to get there or why. The fact that HS seems to love her so much is also this important to her because she feels that she has made inroads in terms of getting that high up on his list or whatever.

Not sure if this is making sense.

WORD....You've nailed it.....this is exactly how Babita thinks. All the times she tried to interpret his emotions for Imarti were also never about focusing on him.....it was more like an abstract fascination with the love and emotions he had for Imarti.....I remember the night after she told him to write the letter for Imarti, the next morning she told him she did it because she was curious to learn about the "tees" in his heart.....she almost said it with the curious fascination of a child....rather than actually processing that pain or identifying with his emotions or pain directly.

So yes, you're absolutely right....she would first have to learn how to put herself aside to even begin to truly understand the depth of someone's emotions....she somehow always manages to make it about her own interpretation of something or about how it impacts her rather than the other person.

So as you said....if HS loves her now, it's all about the fact that he loves HER....it's increased HER importance....that is all that's gotten through to her.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think when HS said that he was referring to his passion and emotions, not the physical stuff. Babita is nowhere close to being able to handle that fire in him. Remember that sharaabi episode and the look in his eyes? We've only seen HS like that once and were hoping to see that side of him being explored, par woh to hone se raha.

I don't think we'll ever get to see that again given the way Babita is turning out to be currently. 🤔 Heck, she can't even see the pain and stress she's putting her own daughter through, woh HS ko kya kaak samjegi? And what's worse is that she's not even trying. This is the part that pisses me off the most.

When we look at ANY real life couples, even though they may be reluctant at first, they eventually start to open up about their problems, grief, resentments, insecurities etc. Here, HS knows her so well, but has she ever tried to know anything about him? Has she ever taken the time out to think about him?

Bas pyaar karta hai, itna hi kaafi hai iske liye. I've said this before, but isse better toh yeh kunwara teekh tha. I don't want him to be stuck in a hollow marriage for the rest of his life.

Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa

Lol as predicted by you 😆

Loll, meine yeh kab kaha? Aur kaha bhi toh please maaf kardo. 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

He is wrong and I think he knows it but is reluctant to make waves. Every since mother-daughter entered his otherwise peaceful life, he's been on a marathon dealing with issues left right and center.

I am now sure they are deliberately showing this emotional abuse of HS and Babita continuing to play the victim card. It's linked to one of their tweets.

@bold, this is very sad indeed. Minnie and HS both suffered as children and now it continues in a different way. This is why I keep saying HS has to take charge, if nothing then to protect Minnie. Her break down hasn't happened yet, contrary to our expectations, so perhaps they are piling things on so that Minnie does indeed get to the point where she can't handle things any more. Kab tak survivor mode mein rahegi?

LOL yeah, they really keep pulling a bait and switch with us about Mini's breakdown na?😕😆.....each time we think it's around the corner, they punt it and switch gears.....so ab toh maine sochna bhi chhod diya hai if Mini will ever have her breakdown.....lol....survivor mode seems here to stay for a bit....sigh.

Yes, I remember those tweets by the PH.....they will likely again raise Babita's tendency to play victim to deflect blame.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, meine yeh kab kaha? Aur kaha bhi toh please maaf kardo. 🤣

Oh...my bad then...i thought someone said in the other thread that aj ek bhayanak promo milega jo obviously kisiko pasand nahi ayega aur wohi hua 🤣

Originally posted by: Meghna_IshRa

Oh...my bad then...i thought someone said in the other thread that aj ek bhayanak promo milega jo obviously kisiko pasand nahi ayega aur wohi hua 🤣

Oh, that was me! But considering it's PB we're talking about, yeh toh hona hi tha. 😆

And the funniest thing is more than half of us haven't even seen the promo yet. 😂😂😂

In HS imarti track they only focussed on their love and bonding .on the contrary after hanita marriage they are not at all concentrating on exploring them as couple ..babita to understand HS on deeper well actually keeping her ego herself aside and understand HS pain .Sirf chachi ki sewa karna ya Pooja karna or thinking about him all time doesnt mean loving him khud ko bhulake .Babita needs to come out of her past her insecurities her nature of thinking about what others will say .Leave HS if she will remain like then she won't be able to connect emotionally with anyone .Yes u had ur past life ur divorce but ur husband also had past life his guilt .If ppl are judging you so also they are judging HS.Khud ko bhulane Ka asli Matlab hota when she would have understood him and not pressurise him to be mini father .Abhi whatever she is going is not in love but in fear that may be she will again loose her married life .She do love HS and respects his feelings but right now her insecurities dominate every thing .

But the point is why are we discussing all this ,it's not love story it's a story which revolves around mini only .So we may not never get to see all this ever in show .Had they not showj imarti track or few of beautiful HANITA scenes before marriage i would not have expected anything .I really wanted to see HANITA explore their relationship specially from babita side but all in vain😔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh, that was me! But considering it's PB we're talking about, yeh toh hona hi tha. 😆

And the funniest thing is more than half of us haven't even seen the promo yet. 😂😂😂

Did you see it yet? Sab kuch try karliya, I cant find the promo. Oh well, hopefully they will post on Twitter/insta.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

What app am I supposed to download? I think the app is only accessible in India.

I don’t see the promo in sonyliv website.

Lol, India or no India the app shows an error while downloading itself. Same, can't see the promo.