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Originally posted by: naq5

HS was then like a mentor to her showing her the right path but what to do HS himself has forgotten his teachings. Earlier he was so much invested in Patiala babes these days to he dosent even ask why she dosent go there. ulta ye dono NB se kaam karwate hai shop me. He is just happy with babita being happy in whatever she is doing and telling jaise aapki marji. The earlier HS would have shaken her out of her slumber even if it meant telling a few harsh truths to her. Im getting so irritated with this HS now

I agree. For once, can HS tell Babita to come out of it and actually show her the light. She can still be a career-woman along with being a wife. Maybe she needs to hear this from her husband instead of hearing it from daughter always.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sometimes I feel like HS is Chandler and Babita, Joey. 🤔🤓

Apt!!!🤣

And Ross is us, Monica is society. (Everything has to happen according to the society.)

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Didn't Babita also say "sab kuch apne aanchal mein sama lena chahti hun".. Kya pata wohh bhi samati hogi.. its not like writers will show us that. Yeh bhi implied hai 😆

I think when HS said that he was referring to his passion and emotions, not the physical stuff. Babita is nowhere close to being able to handle that fire in him. Remember that sharaabi episode and the look in his eyes? We've only seen HS like that once and were hoping to see that side of him being explored, par woh to hone se raha.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I agree. For once, can HS tell Babita to come out of it and actually show her the light. She can still be a career-woman along with being a wife. Maybe she needs to hear this from her husband instead of hearing it from daughter always.

Maybe but I wish she would do it herself without anyone having to tell her. Mickey was right about this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I totally agree with you. This could damage their reputation if things go bad, especially since Minnie convinced the client to reconsider them after taking Vikas Khanna's name.

I just meant in general, Minnie needs to take a break from this stuff and let the grown ups handle it, but I don't think she can.

I hope she explains to HS how big a deal this is because it looked like he had just thought it was the regular kind of order. If he still doesn't react the right way after that then I don't know what to say. 🤪

She is in haan ji HS uncle mood these days like HS is in haji makan malkinji mood. Im sure she is not going to tell this order is important.

im sure she wouldnt have convinced client for order if she knew chachi was coming and babita had to do seva for 2 days. Now after taking order Mini and NB are left with a high and dry situation. Babita & HS are to least bothered about it.

this business was started by mini & babita . with mini being the mind behind it and babita's cooking as skill. She still has the responsibility of marketing and getting new clients for PB. So mini is only doing the work which has been allotted to her. If grownups are supposed to handle then Babita has to hire a marketing person to do minis job which she hasnt nor has she sat down with mini and told her that i want a break to concentrate on marriage so do not take new orders till then.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Not just one, I think he will get a few slaps.

These two communicated better with chamach and paayal before they were married. Ab dekho...

Yes, I know he wants to keep the peace, and he said so to Lala as well but it's just not sustainable. His basic nature will make him explode at all this one day and then Babita will wonder what's suddenly wrong with him.

As for side benefits, it's ok while he's a newlywed but when all the glitter fades away, he will be struck by the emptiness. I think he knows it but is being an ostrich at this point. Uff!

Actually, then Babita will have an EXCUSE to blame him for everything....he will explode and Babita will play victim that he's shouting, he's to blame, he's the one mistreating her. Her part in this will all be wiped away by HS exploding out of frustration.

Oh well, perhaps he'll deserve it then....hard lesson of life for being joru ka ghulam without using your own brain.

And sad day for women where we are being depicted as confused shrews who deflect blame and just look to victimize ourselves in front of everyone rather than ever owning up to our part in something🤔

Re: side benefits.....lol this glitter will turn into a security blanket eventually....the only reason to tolerate all emotional abuse...."side benefits" jo mil rahe hain *rolls eyes*

Chammach Payal ka toh zamaana hi koi aur tha.....woh toh ab kisi ko yaad bhi nahin since we now have Lady of the House and her joru ka ghulam in "marital bliss"......lol

Originally posted by: naq5

She is in haan ji HS uncle mood these days like HS is in haji makan malkinji mood. Im sure she is not going to tell this order is important.

im sure she wouldnt have convinced client for order if she knew chachi was coming and babita had to do seva for 2 days. Now after taking order Mini and NB are left with a high and dry situation. Babita & HS are to least bothered about it.

this business was started by mini & babita . with mini being the mind behind it and babita's cooking as skill. She still has the responsibility of marketing and getting new clients for PB. So mini is only doing the work which has been allotted to her. If grownups are supposed to handle then Babita has to hire a marketing person to do minis job which she hasnt nor has she sat down with mini and told her that i want a break to concentrate on marriage so do not take new orders till then.

Totally agree. I have a bad feeling about this, and the fact that Khatri poached this new client should have set off alarm bells in Babita's head. Remember how mad she got when Khatri had set up Patiala Bibi? Where's that fire in her?

Also, everything that NB explained to Babita about the role she needs to play in Minnie's life now seems to have gone over her head. Can't she see how stressed Minnie is about all this?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Actually, then Babita will have an EXCUSE to blame him for everything....he will explode and Babita will play victim that he's shouting, he's to blame, he's the one mistreating her. Her part in this will all be wiped away by HS exploding out of frustration.

Oh well, perhaps he'll deserve it then....hard lesson of life for being joru ka ghulam without using your own brain.

And sad day for women where we are being depicted as confused shrews who deflect blame and just look to victimize ourselves in front of everyone rather than ever owning up to our part in something🤔

Re: side benefits.....lol this glitter will turn into a security blanket eventually....the only reason to tolerate all emotional abuse...."side benefits" jo mil rahe hain *rolls eyes*

Chammach Payal ka toh zamaana hi koi aur tha.....woh toh ab kisi ko yaad bhi nahin since we now have Lady of the House and her joru ka ghulam in "marital bliss"......lol

Agar Lady of the House banna hai to woh theek se banein, par na ji, woh to door door tak nahin dikh raha.

Victim card kab tak play karegi?

And yes, you touched upon an important point. In order to keep women happy, men need not go through emotional abuse. Aur ab jab aap aur mein yeh bol rahe hain to sab humein Babita ko bash karne ke liye blame karenge.

That security blanket can serve his needs to a certain point but not for long. He's too emotional and sensitive to tolerate it for the long term. He knew what he was getting into with this marriage but I think he overestimated his ability to cope with her.

And it's a shame that he is put in a position to have to "cope" with his supposed life partner.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Humaare prefer karne se kya hoga, Jean😆

HS toh aise hi chalta rahega in joru ka ghulam mode....."sab aapki wajah se ji"🤔.....it feels so fake when he goes OTT in every line trying to just bow his head and make her feel like a Maharani.....aage se Babita ki pleased smiles *rolls eyes*......aur inflate karo her delusions......she will really start to believe that she is managing everything perfectly🤔

I get it.....she drives anyone nuts with her tantrums....if you want peace in the house, you give in to her tantrums and make her feel like she's right so that she's happy.....but long term, this will just create a Frankenstein you can't manage.

Anyways, he's enjoying the side benefits as a man too na....lol if he tells her to snap out of it, shaayad woh sab na mile, so he doesn't say anything.....fattu kahin ka😆

I don't know what he coached her for all these months....clearly, the woman he was coaching is not the woman he's now married but he doesn't dwell on that at all.....the gyaan about self-sufficiency, choice, empowerment.....all seems to be on the backburner for a facade of a marriage.

So then a hard slap from life is inevitable.....he will learn the hard way that he shouldn't have let all this slide and build up for so long.....he has no idea how Babita's mind is really working and what direction it will take when things get rough.

@ bold This HS just dosent seem the HS i have seen till now. Cvs what have they done to a gold character. He does sound so fake these days

@ bold 2 looks like even that was a facade he isnt bothered about all the coaching given. Dosent seem to see the change in Babita. looks like he is living this marriage superficially. With babita with mini too.

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold This HS just dosent seem the HS i have seen till now. Cvs what have they done to a gold character. He does sound so fake these days

@ bold 2 looks like even that was a facade he isnt bothered about all the coaching given. Dosent seem to see the change in Babita. looks like he is living this marriage superficially. With babita with mini too.

I don't see that he has much of a choice short-term. He needs to really take a step back and think about what he wants.

This family needs a head of the household and he's the only one who can and should take that role up from the looks of it.

Come on, HS!