Originally posted by: naq5
she did make her own identity with patiala babes. She did become sort of famous and people knew her by that. But now she is not concentrating on the very thing that gave her an identity. Mini is bound to be upset. She dint give babita wings to loose her own identity like this
why is it that a women's identity is that of someones wife why cant they maintain their own. Is this the way babita wants to be a part of HS' s life. Or if she dosent take on HS name it will be like she dosent love him enough or hasnt accepted herself a part of his life. She is becoming the same way as she was as a khurana bahu. Loosing herself for a man again. the only difference is here she can throw tantrums and HS is taking it there she could not. And why cant a woman love a man without loosing herself in him. And where is the strong babita that we saw just before imarti track. I dont understand this kind of love and i never understood the babita who was living with khuranas, highly delusional she was and she is becoming one again. All the talk of i want to drown in HS love , i want to be a home maker, i am not bothered about patiala babes, is leading her to the same way she was as a khurana bahu. Its just that HS is not another Ashok who will cheat on her.
Exactly.....she is literally repeating what she did before.....copy/paste.....perhaps this is all she knows how to be.....last time it was easy to blame the Khuranas and Ashok for her losing her identity.....when the truth seems to be that this is her inherent nature.....as I said once before, she's a creeper....ek bel who needs a tree to wrap around.....who doesn't know how to stand on her own feet, claim her identity.....she only finds her identity in clinging to other people....as a wife, bahu or mom.....that too, just the LABELS of these identities.....rather than the full responsibility of them
HS has already told her and demonstrated a 100 times that he's not like Ashok.....but Babita toh same hi hai.....Ashok ho ya HS, this is how she will approach them it seems......and the mistake that HS is making is that he thinks he should let her do all this for her happiness.....what he isn't realizing is that this is all setting them up for failure....she will invariably blame him for whenever things start falling apart and again claim that he failed her just like Ashok did😕
Abhi toh pyar mein doobi hui hai but it won't take her a second to turn around and fully lay all blame at HS's feet.
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