Not father but we Love eachother - Page 8

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Not when the person is question is Babita, I guess.....she is incapable of figuring anything out on her own.....this much has now been proven by the writers.

But until when? Some day she will have to do it on her own. HS or Minnie can't always be there, nor can NB.

Yo kaisa emancipation hua bhai?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't count on Babita to fix anything😆.....which is why I'd find it laughable even if they tried to show her attempting to "heal the rift".....it would feel very unconvincing given how most of the scenes have proven she is incapable of that level of reflection about this equation.

And yes, the rift will likely increase at this pace....until HS figures out how to balance b/w Babita and Mini, this issue will continue to get worse...either under the surface or overtly.

I would prefer if they have a massive dhamaka, and HS and Minnie just openly say to each other what's bothering them, like they did in the audio clip conversation, in the hospital scene, or when Minnie apologized to him and he told her about his mother and his admiration of Minnie's courage. It helped her finally connect the dots.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Who says her feelings are being discounted? Not me.

When I said chewing gum I mean the way they are dragging this track out while focusing on her emotions. By lack of focus on others, I meant the fact they we don't see their point of view on this issue, i.e. have they really ignored it and are pretending it wasn't a big deal or do they have their thoughts about, etc.

Whatever it is, I still think HS has to step up at some point, not just about the CD but about everything that has been festering and not been addressed. He of all people should know about childhood trauma and has seen Minnie struggling because of her parents, knows about her depression and her worries about Babita.

On this issue, yes I agree the writers are deliberately not showing any reflection from HS or Babita....to hype up and drag the drama.

But I still don't feel that justifies people hating on Mini.....she's a kid and her hurt is understandable....a kid's emotions always get heightened in any situation because they are usually the most vulnerable party.

The adults....well mainly HS will have to step up.....Babita toh khud teenager hi hai more or less.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

On this issue, yes I agree the writers are deliberately not showing any reflection from HS or Babita....to hype up and drag the drama.

But I still don't feel that justifies people hating on Mini.....she's a kid and her hurt is understandable....a kid's emotions always get heightened in any situation because they are usually the most vulnerable party.

The adults....well mainly HS will have to step up.....Babita toh khud teenager hi hai more or less.

I don't know why people hate Minnie either. I don't, and I can't because in all this, what about her second chance in life? To have a proper secure home, friends, the love of family, solvency, etc. It's tough on her, and she is tired of dealing with Babita as her mother. When does she get to be a kid, a normal kid?

I make these sarcastic comments at the writers and not about her emotions because they are genuine and come from a lot of her insecurities that she doesn't express.

Yes, she is getting more focus but that is the way the CVs are portraying things now. Minnie's challenges and confusions are real. Stepping into adulthood is tough. Feeling a loss of identity or trying to discover it is real.

HS se umeed hai but the way he is being portrayed, who knows? Minnie needs him more than ever before, and as a child she needs him way more than Babita does. If indeed he's unable to balance between the two, shift duty kar le bhai. LOL!

I think HS needs some encouragement from NB/Lala to sort things out. I really really hope it happens soon. I can't stand the lack of scenes of him introspecting or at least talking to those two about how he feels regarding the entire situation.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't know why people hate Minnie either. I don't, and I can't because in all this, what about her second chance in life? To have a proper secure home, friends, the love of family, solvency, etc. It's tough on her, and she is tired of dealing with Babita as her mother. When does she get to be a kid, a normal kid?

I make these sarcastic comments at the writers and not about her emotions because they are genuine and come from a lot of her insecurities that she doesn't express.

Yes, she is getting more focus but that is the way the CVs are portraying things now. Minnie's challenges and confusions are real. Stepping into adulthood is tough. Feeling a loss of identity or trying to discover it is real.

HS se umeed hai but the way he is being portrayed, who knows? Minnie needs him more than ever before, and as a child she needs him way more than Babita does. If indeed he's unable to balance between the two, shift duty kar le bhai. LOL!

I think HS needs some encouragement from NB/Lala to sort things out. I really really hope it happens soon. I can't stand the lack of scenes of him introspecting or at least talking to those two about how he feels regarding the entire situation.

@bold: Exactly.....all three characters are facing challenges of their own but Mini's are front and center now because she is a kid going through a major shift....no matter what struggles adults face, a child's struggles with identity, confusions of life, broken home....all of this will take precedence....this is what family is. There can be no family where the issues of the adults take precedence over a kid.

Hahaha@ HS shift duty kar le....I agree....why not give atleast one shift to Mini and baaki saari shifts for his Makaan Maalkin ji....raat ki shift mein bhog lena "sukh"😆.....but ek shift toh nikaal lo bacchi ke liye. As you said, the child needs him more than the mother right now.

Yeah, NB/Laala are the only ones who can bolster some of his courage.....but pata nahin if/when those scenes will ever come.....story is super slow aajkal.