i was browsin thru midday and read this in the dear diana column. it is soo similar to armu rids chakkar---
I'm really crazy about my girlfriend, and I think that's the problem — she's realised that even if she makes no effort, I will still adore her, so she takes me for granted. I feel literally exhausted because of the constant effort I make to keep her happy; I don't upset her, and do and say the right things. I feel like I'm treading on eggshells. I think that the only way to make her understand the problem would be to dump her, then she would suddenly miss having me to cuddle her, and tell her she's beautiful every five minutes and she'll hopefully regret everything. But then it would be too late and we'd be finished, which doesn't help me. Or does it? I'm so paranoid and so scared about losing her, I don't think I'll ever meet anyone else quite as perfect as her. I'll just be alone for years and years and possibly forever, luck has blessed me with brains, money, humour and talent, but unfortunately not confidence when it comes to getting girls. She just doesn't seem to realise that a relationship requires effort from two people.
Praveen
Dear Praveen,
Start building up your confidence because dumping her IS the perfect solution. Did you know that you would ever find someone as 'perfect' as her? No, right? In the same way you found her, you'll find someone else.
If she misses you or not, no one deserves to be with someone who doesn't make them feel as special as they are. People get into a relationship to be happy, if you're not happy, then it's not a relationship anymore...
Don't be scared of loneliness, it's a monster that's quickly slain by a busy mind. Keep going with a smile and you'll find someone soon enough. Don't let anything that makes you feel negative become a part of your life.
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