Arhi SS: WITHERED!! (T#6) New Thread Link pg 1 - Page 69

Originally posted by: Ecrivain

Oh my God

When you say it like this, its heartbreaking.

Khushi is attracted to Arnav physically infact she felt the stirrings in her heart for Arnav but not for akash.

Oh no I don't mean to say she is doing it deliberately but in her mind She resents marrying Arnav because she had feelings for Akash.

Khushi needs to realize she admires Akash because he is the ideal guy for her but it's not love or never was.

I was wondering if the situation can fall into that category when Arnav finds out about her feelings for Akash prior to marriage and how things unfold in regards to Khushi and Akash. Arnav can't possibly be heartbroken just because she had feelings for Akash before marriage and not any relationship because he has his own past with women too.

Hey Aishu,

Firstly sorry for intruding on this post. I know this post is for your friends. However I couldn't help wanting to say something that would comfort you but nothing anyone can say or do that can change how you feel right now. I want to send you a hug right now and pray God gives you and your family the strength to cope with this loss.

You are a strong girl please don't regret that you wasted precious time being who you are. Let me tell your father must be really proud of you because you know how the world is and you'd be able to take responsibility of yourself and your family too. He's watching over you. The soul is alive. If you believe you'll find he is there within you and part of you please take of yourself.

Please talk to whoever you feel comfortable sharing your pain or regrets and if there is something that is too private that you can't voice out please write it down. Please don't bottle up anything.

Please stay strong and be there for your younger sibling and your mother. Loss is different for each member and so is the pain.

I too lost my dad so I do understand where you are coming from. We have not talked before but if you ever need a friend I'll be here.

Sorry if I over stepped any boundary with my words. Please take for yourself. Sending a bear hug 🤗

Originally posted by: Aishu136

Me

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Hi N & my dear sweeties,

I can't tell you how much your warm welcomes mean to me!

You guys didn't just talk to me and reach out to me for namesake but meant every words told!

Seriously you guys are virtual family to me, I can't believe I have such lovely people in my life.

I'm sorry I took a long time to reply/respond/talk to you guys but I was waiting to get things back to normal which has not happened still but understood that things could never get back in future.

I love my dad and he loved me the more or at least that's what I thought till he left me. I'm someone who would always expect the worst in every situation hence when something bad happens, it wouldn't affect me that much.. But this is like life shattering incident, which I can say one can never be prepared for it.. Especially when I and dad planned up so much like what to do with the maturity amount we were suppose to receive from his life insurance just 20 days after his demise, How to buy a new car, how to start a new business with a plan he got by seeing his friend, how we should close some loans and mainly how to celebrate Krishav's birthday which was 15 days after his demise.

He was suppose to be with us to get the LiC premium matured amount, to celebrate Krishav's birthday, to come with hundred business plans, to cook for us, to take care of us, to help us, to scold us, just be with us and live with us..

My parents never really had their own life but only struggled to give us a good life. My father was so happy during my sister's marriage and we have a big photo of us during my sister's marriage. Now there is always gonna be an empty space where he should be..

My father is a kind and good hearted person that he will forgive anyone and everyone including the one who used to betray him and I used to tell him he shouldn't be that way, one should be smart to survive in this cruel world. He never listened to me and may be that's why God took him soon..

I'm sorry i was actually not planning to write all the above but want to say, he is someone who believes in living the life in present and not to worry much about future and I have a contrasting theory that one should always think about future and give more importance to future and plan up your life hence we both always had difference of opinion. But strangely, For past few months, I saw my father was changing and starting understanding my ideology and behaved like me and I was actually proud of that. But now I realized how wrong I was, if only I was like him or if only I listened to him or if only for a change I accepted his idealogy, may be I would have actually lived the present life with him.. Would have had moments to cherish.. Would have done things I'm supposed to as a daughter to a father.. How I would have enjoyed present moments with him rather planning for the uncertain future where he is not there..

My mother used to say, she suffered so much in her early life and after marriage her life with my father came as a blessing to her, she actually lived her life according to her likes after her marriage only so she used to tell us her daughters to suffer in our house so that we can lead a happy life in our husband's place. I used to be fight with her saying no when we all had suffered in our first half of our life then we all are entitled to live a happy life in our second half and we don't want that in our husband's place but with our parents.. I was actually convinced with her theory half like a person who suffered first half of his life will lead a happy life in his second half and that's how a life should be balanced right? So I was so sure that nothing will happen to my parents because we all are entitled to a happy life to call it a end!!

My father was such a strong person, he has never wasted or disrepected food, believes in God, done good deeds, never really cared about himself, lived his life only taking care of others, he never really used to fall sick, he didn't have any health issues at all.. Hence I was so confident that he is yet to live his life where he will only think about himself and enjoy to compensate the suffered he had but life is definitely not what we think, I never ever dreamt my father would leave us so soon and the worst part is even he didn't think. He had so much planned up till next year and we were supposed to visit a temple but the very next day he left us all alone..

All I'm saying is never take life so easily, we think we know something, we have understood life but certain things nothing can stop and nobody can prevent which is death so easy for the person who leaves us but very difficult for people to accept it and live with it. I still remember days after his demise when I wake up, I would just go and sit on the diwan wait for my father to come with morning coffee for me which he used to give me and then suddenly see his photo to realize he will never come..

This may look like something which many would have told and too clinge but the truth is it's painful, damn painful especially when you could have done so much but did not because you thought you have whole life to take care of them but don't spend enough time with them..

Parents are someone who bought us to this world, who we should take utmost care and respect but we miss that out in busy lives and cry over it after they leave us. It's more painful for me because I had it all planned for my parents in future but missed to live with them in present.

So please dreaming is good, living your life to achieve your goal is good, living your life is good but never miss to give your time to your parents..

I'm so sorry this came up so long..

N, Gauri, EC, Raji,Kris - thank you for your support and love❤😘 I never thought that we will be like this but you guys are real and such lovely ones!

I have to apologize to Gayathri, you wanted to talk to me, but believe me I really didn't have time to even text you. I'm sorry Gayathri, if you are reading this, please accept my apologies..

And lastly, most importantly, i just want to say you my dear sweeties are such sweethearts and I'm lucky to have you!!

I missed being here, running to catch first spot, reading the update, commenting, trying to speculate and crazy discussions..

I so want to be here like before, I dunno I simply don't know if I could be the same I don't think I could be back being the same. Though I can't say I have come back as same but all I can say is that I can't leave N... Just gimme some time, will be back!!

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

Aarti was a generous soul and Arnav's has taken his mother's generosity.

She fell in love with Manohar and then when she learnt of Priya's pregnancy, she set him free.

However, her love found him and he can back to her.

Thanks for clarifying, N

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

Well, while Khushi has a penchant for trouble, its not like she will be a damsel in distress, all the time.

Arnav also, will have a more realistic role than just being a knight in shining armour.

And that is what I love about your stories.

Superb one

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

Its how you see it.

For me, Khushi went ahead and embraced intimacy with Arnav, her legal husband, because she is practical. She had no reason to wait for Akash, when there was nothing there to begin with.

Its not infidelity at all. At least, not now.

Didn’t see Khishi in this light earlier

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

Thank you.

And no gifts pls. Stop spoiling her rotten. Blessings would do just fine.

Come on, N

One more person to gift her wont make it any tough.

Its for her so I will bring it. ❤️

Originally posted by: Fe-en-Dios

You and your imagination 🤣

But I dont repeat anything. Not even the pairs.

I know

So what would this be ?

Originally posted by: renee.bee

Not now means there will be? She has closed his chapter but she still has feelings for him or thinks he is the right guy.

With N, we never know what is coming

Originally posted by: renee.bee

Oh no I don't mean to say she is doing it deliberately but in her mind She resents marrying Arnav because she had feelings for Akash.

Khushi needs to realize she admires Akash because he is the ideal guy for her but it's not love or never was.

I was wondering if the situation can fall into that category when Arnav finds out about her feelings for Akash prior to marriage and how things unfold in regards to Khushi and Akash. Arnav can't possibly be heartbroken just because she had feelings for Akash before marriage and not any relationship because he has his own past with women too.

I think Khushi knows its not love and so, she is falling in love with Arnav.

But I am not sure how the heartbreak will come into pic? Will akash do something ?

Originally posted by: renee.bee

Hey Aishu,

Firstly sorry for intruding on this post. I know this post is for your friends. However I couldn't help wanting to say something that would comfort you but nothing anyone can say or do that can change how you feel right now. I want to send you a hug right now and pray God gives you and your family the strength to cope with this loss.

You are a strong girl please don't regret that you wasted precious time being who you are. Let me tell your father must be really proud of you because you know how the world is and you'd be able to take responsibility of yourself and your family too. He's watching over you. The soul is alive. If you believe you'll find he is there within you and part of you please take of yourself.

Please talk to whoever you feel comfortable sharing your pain or regrets and if there is something that is too private that you can't voice out please write it down. Please don't bottle up anything.

Please stay strong and be there for your younger sibling and your mother. Loss is different for each member and so is the pain.

I too lost my dad so I do understand where you are coming from. We have not talked before but if you ever need a friend I'll be here.

Sorry if I over stepped any boundary with my words. Please take for yourself. Sending a bear hug 🤗

Renee 🤗

You moved me to tears .