My House, My Rules - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 23

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

At the end of the day, it''s all because of babita who is totally screwed up and complexed as hell!

She is the source of all the strife. She is messed up and she is messing up HS, Minnie, and everyone who has the misfortune of being around her.

Padma dear! 🤗

Yo baat phinal hai. HS akela hi achha tha.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Thank you so much for the update and that too on page 1 as promised.

❤️

No prob. ❤️

The updates will always be on the first page here on out. :)

Hunuman’s words were hurtful. No matter his intentions or stress or fight or whatever. Bringing in Ashok was really not done.

Babita and Hanuman in their irrational and impulse is screwing Mini. First Meeta comparison and now Ashok reference. Poor child is gonna have hard time coming out of it. Her parents need to pamper her pronto!

I felt bad for her today. She needs to tell them where they are wrong and not deal with it. Just tell them that it’s not done. Don’t speak like that it hurts.

I just hope writers don’t take the contrived route of separating Mini from HS-Babes. Please no.

In precap.. Babita be like.. hum milke beej boye.

I am like — haven’t you guys done that already? 😉🤣

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Hunuman’s words were hurtful. No matter his intentions or stress or fight or whatever. Bringing in Ashok was really not done.

Babita and Hanuman in their irrational and impulse is screwing Mini. First Meeta comparison and now Ashok reference. Poor child is gonna have hard time coming out of it. Her parents need to pamper her pronto!

I felt bad for her today. She needs to tell them where they are wrong and not deal with it. Just tell them that it’s not done. Don’t speak like that it hurts.

I just hope writers don’t take the contrived route of separating Mini from HS-Babes. Please no.

Separation seems imminent, now that she's going to legally become an adult. HS will be blamed for being sautela and driving her away, ruining her life, etc. Then Ashok will come and question HS about his so-called qualifications as a father, etc.

HS will never get to have Minnie in his life as his daughter and he will indeed be heartbroken. Minnie will realize her mistake one day and come back to him, but by then he would have either lost his mind due to all this (and having to live with Babita), or ended up as a shell of his former self.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Update:

• The episode begins with Mickey asking if Minnie can survive to which she says yes
• Mickey tells her that now she has grown up because she has learnt that she has to survive through all her problems. Minnie tells him that she has made the deal to survive, not be happy but as long as they're always with her, she can be happy.
• MMP ask for a lift from a truck who gives it to them and there's a song sequence
• MP try to cheer up Minnie by throwing hay on her but she's still quite disturbed. She tries to be happy though.
• At the police station, HS asks Lala if he took the girl's statement. Lala asks HS if he found out where Minnie is but he said no. Lala asks if HS knew that she's with Mickey then why didn't he just return to the station. HS tells him how Babes hasn't yet considered him to be Minnie's father. Lala is surprised since he has been more than a father to Minnie. HS tells him Babes doesn't think that way and that if she carries on pressuring him this way to force a fatherly relationship on Minnie, then things will become really awkward for him.
  
• Babes is still trying to call Minnie who by then comes home. Babes questions Minnie as to where she has been all this time, why is she still hanging out with Mickey, how will that impact her reputation and how will she get married.
• Minnie, who is exhausted by this point, tells her not to worry as she will find someone for herself just like Meeta did. Babes asks her if she's not ashamed to speak to her that way. Minnie tells her that she's just repeating Babes' words back to her.
• Minnie tells Babes how hurt she is by her words but it won't make much of a difference to her since she'll talk considering how her ego was hurt. It doesn't matter to her how the other person will feel. She also mentions how she's expected to understand Babes' feelings while she isn't able to understand her. Babes asks her if she really thinks she doesn't understand her and Minnie asks, if that's even a question.
• Minnie tells Babes that she's tired. Not everyone is lucky as her and that she's just dealing with things now. She leaves for upstairs while Babes calls after her asking for an explanation to what she just said.
• Minnie writes in her diary about how she learnt a huge lesson in friendships and relationships. She remembers all the harsh words that Babes told her. She rips out a paper from her diary and starts again.
• She writes how we, our emotional state, and our personalities are nothing but our memories and experiences. We are nothing but a sum total of our memories. We don't really let go of our past as it always leaves behind an impression.
• She reflects on how the Babes from her childhood is different than the one she sees now. She doesn't know if Babes changed, or her own perspective has but whatever it is, it's hurting her a lot. She no longer sees a closeness in Babes as she used to in the past. Even in the past when they used to fight, there used to be a closeness but now it's not there.
• She wonders if the distance is increasing between them because she's on a totally different page. It's alright that they have a difference in opinions and arguments, but what she's really hurt by is the fact that Babes looks upon her as a stranger. Still, she needs to deal with it and survive so that the relationship lasts. But if she's not able to then...
• The Khuranas come to Minnie with jalebis to cheer her up and ask her how she's feeling after the fight. She tells them she's fine and that everything is fine between her and Babes. These small fights happen between maa-beti. Dadu picks up her diary, but Minnie puts it away saying it's her secret diary, only for her eyes.
• HS comes telling her he needs to speak to her privately
• He starts scolding her on her rude behavior with Babes. Minnie has understood that Babes has conveniently left out the part where she was also rude with Minnie.
• HS tells her that the Haveli is his and Babes. They have kept her there as a daughter, by giving her a lot of love and respect and tolerate all her attitude but that doesn't mean she can misbehave with them.
• He also mentions how Ashok had kicked them out of the house and Babita had single handedly raised her. Is this how Minnie repays her? By being rude to her?
• He has told her many times before that the house needs discipline. Babes has been worried sick, calling her and he hasn't been able to focus on work either. From now on, if she ever argues with Babita on anything then there's no room for her in the Haveli.
• Babita freaks out and asks him what the hell is he saying. She had told him to scold her but this is too much. HS argues with her that she told him to scold her, and that's exactly what he's doing. He's explaining things to her as a father and they should treat it as his final verdict since he's the chief of the house.
• He questions Minnie if she has understood anything that he has said to her. Minnie tells her that she has understood everything now. He tells her it doesn't look like it from her face and her attitude. He asks her to clarify what she has understood. Minnie tells him that if she didn't listen to Babes or his words then they'll kick her out of the house. He asks her if there are any doubts and she replies, there are none. She also thanks them for making everything clear.
• She was about to leave, but she comes back apologizing that she was about to go to her room without asking his permission. Can she go or is there anything left? HS dismisses her saying that was it. Babita is not happy.
• Minnie goes back to her room and mulls over what he said to her. The Khuranas are upset seeing Minnie. Minnie puts on a smile and tells them not to worry. He just said anything in his angry, there's no need for them to get upset since these things happen. He didn't mean anything he said but she knows she's just giving them false reassurances.
• Babita questions HS as to what did he just do. HS gets pissed off. He tells her that he was just scolding her like she told him to. Babita tells him not that much to which he irritably asks her, if he should measure scolding statements by grams. And it's not like he knows how much he should scold. It's not like he's a father, he's just trying to be one. He did what he felt was right and that if he tries to do what she says then she has a problem with that too. He walks away angry.
• Precap: Babita tells HS that they put some seeds in dirt so that they bloom into a plant. Beeji whispers to Minnie how every year, Babes and she do this together during Navratri and she should go to her. Babes tells HS how it's their first Navratri after their marriage and that she wants to plant these seeds with him. Minnie's disheartened.

Thanks, I was at work when I read it...now going to watch the episode..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Padma dear! 🤗

Yo baat phinal hai. HS akela hi achha tha.

Yes, he gave option for livin’ also... in fun way though.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am glad if she's doing that. It's about time. Let her live her life and enjoy being with him and having her husband care for her. She is willing to work on it and open her mind to accepting her desires. That's a step in the right direction.

She doesn't have to be a perfect daughter-in-law or mother at this point. Let her focus on one thing at a time but at least do it right, hopefully.

Haven’t seen the full episode, just saw the precap... Biji seems putting ghee in fire... omg why khuranas have to be there... they’ll make things worse.

Just reposting the KK tweets here since all of these things have been shown by now. It's obvious they have been planning these tracks in such a way but I guess their execution failed to convince some of us,

https://twitter.com/KathaKottage/status/1173053679823228928

https://twitter.com/KathaKottage/status/1172949388290744321

https://twitter.com/KathaKottage/status/1172948155060473856

Originally posted by: Roopb

Haven’t seen the full episode, just saw the precap... Biji seems putting ghee in fire... omg why khuranas have to be there... they’ll make things worse.

I don't know if Beeji did it deliberately but at this point Minnie is sensitive so any word can trigger this.