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And all those saying Babita should have let Hanuman handle it all on his own way, thing is, Hanuman was handling thenga.. He was not doing anything at all.. Chalo father choro, he even let go of his role of Hanuman uncle pre-wedding wala

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Exactly.. I am not saying Babita has not been wrong... She definitely has been multiple times.. But then so has Mini.. But in Mini's mind, the whole problem is Babita and her ego.. Thats where the problem is..

Babita cannot be expected to have the same opinions as Mini and vice versa.. Both of them need to understand that.. Being close does not mean having the same brain

She also hurt Babita today by making her feel that Babita doesn't care about her as a general statement, and in her mind she's already thinking that Babita looks at her as stranger. Not a healthy direction.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She also hurt Babita today by making her feel that Babita doesn't care about her as a general statement, and in her mind she's already thinking that Babita looks at her as stranger. Not a healthy direction.

Precisely.. Ironically, its Kammo's words that started this chain of reaction in Mini's head.. for all her big words about Babita being influenced by log kia kaheinge, in this instance, Mini's state is actually because she was unable to forget what Kammo said

Originally posted by: najma123

That's what. It's a typical thing to say. I think HS' dialogues were perfectly written, hit the bull's eye. And that was their intention. I would blame HS. But I can't stop myself from blaming Babita. If she'd left things as they were, maybe Mini and HS would have sorted stuff out eventually. Maybe after Mickey had moved out she would have thanked him for trusting them. Kids value their parents' trust a lot, I value it. I love it when my parents actually believe me. And I loved it even more when my Dad said after watching the Kammo episode that Babita should have trust in her daughter and ask Kammo to mind her own business. Coz I personally relate that to the trust he has in me. And this Meeta reference is BAD.

True

If kids know that their parents trust them and they have the backing of their parents they dont break their trust and share everything with them.

The worst part is that this declaration of HS not only put a deeper wedge between all parties, but it also let everyone brush off the actual crux of today's problem.

Mini needs to learn how to speak to her mother and basic do's and don't's. It'll help her going further in life too. But her discipline took a back seat today to HS proving a point to Babita. The entire exercise being a moot point anyway. 🤔

Babita, herself, didn't fully understand how hurtful and downright dirty her words to Minnie were during her outburst.

Now everything is brushed away with the speech HS gave.

Originally posted by: tantal

How can a grown man. who is lauded for his sensitivity and wisdom, use a 17 yr old kid to prove a point to his wife? First babita and now HS is bashing, humiliating and demeaning Minnie in front of others (friends, grandparents) all in the course of one day. Is a 17 yr old not supposed to have any self-respect or dignity. They couldn't.. the two grown azz parents.. taken her to a secluded spot to speak their harsh comments?

exactly today mini was not first for him. proving a point to babita was. telling mini be thankful to your mother and me that we keep you in this house was so disrespectful.

Well Babita and HS, babita earns today also because mini supported her gave her ideas worked with her, and the girl who ignored her studies and helped babita stand her business is being talked to like this. Mini actually has a legal right/partnership in whatever babita earns today

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

Saying ashok threw her out of the house was low for me .

I am assuming that minnie is very soon gonna say you are not my father .

Its frustating to live in a house where no one understands you. Your mother slaps you coz some one else said some nonsense and the father flares up coz of the mother and gets angry.

exactly it was another blow to her soul .

in a way minni should get into her calling , get more than ever involve in her studies thus shaping her career & get herself out of all the emotional unpleasantness or part of her will be each day crushed with the adjustments & compromises .

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I still don't see anything wrong in Babita provoking Hanuman to invoke discipline in Mini.. that is one of the basic jobs of fathers.. She should have narrated the whole incident though.. That one is where she went drastically wrong

And today also, when she comes back, she says Teri Shaadi Kaise hogi. Dude, you can't ask that. You got married a second time. You found someone after the supposed world and society (which consists of only Khatri and Kammo) questioned your character, after your ex-husband defamed you in the court. You stood up for your rights and found love again. Why won't she?

To be honest, women who are single, who have married again, have broader views about society than people who's marriages thrive. Because the former deal with a lot more shit.

Babita wants a normal family, normal by societal standards. Her family is different. It consists of two people who have remarried for love and her daughter, who has a great bond with her husband, who is also her uncle. Their relationship is unique. This is THEIR normal. It's never gonna be the normal family, where father is the head, wife handles the kitchen and kids are disciplined by the fathers and are told how to talk and behave. Their normal is a different one. And she can't fix their circular relationship into the box that every family has around them coz it's not a box.

Originally posted by: najma123

That's what. It's a typical thing to say. I think HS' dialogues were perfectly written, hit the bull's eye. And that was their intention. I would blame HS. But I can't stop myself from blaming Babita. If she'd left things as they were, maybe Mini and HS would have sorted stuff out eventually. Maybe after Mickey had moved out she would have thanked him for trusting them. Kids value their parents' trust a lot, I value it. I love it when my parents actually believe me. And I loved it even more when my Dad said after watching the Kammo episode that Babita should have trust in her daughter and ask Kammo to mind her own business. Coz I personally relate that to the trust he has in me. And this Meeta reference is BAD.

Yes, the dialogues were perfect but I don't know if Minnie or Babita got the point at all.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I still don't see anything wrong in Babita provoking Hanuman to invoke discipline in Mini.. that is one of the basic jobs of fathers.. She should have narrated the whole incident though.. That one is where she went drastically wrong

Her reasons for doing it were wrong: she wanted to hide behind Minnie's bad behavior instead of owning up to the mistake she made, plus she was testing his love for Minnie/his parenting abilities as a father. Ugh.