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@ bold iska matlab?😆Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer
Hanuman scolds Mini.. then Mini gets jalebi and smile-cries some more while Babita and Hanuman get along with their married life?
Do Babita Mini patch up? Do Hanuman Mini patch up? And I mean actual patch up not the superficial ones they have been feeding us lately.. I am curious how the feather and subsequent romance fits in
Hi all..i have been silent member of this forum...I watched today's episode and wanted to share an incident after watching Babita today. Her denial of feelings for her husband brought back to me a childhood memory. I had asked my mom that why woman feel ashamed to have desires or feelings for their own husband.
I was sitting in a group of my female relatives and we were discussing general college romance. Suddenly ladies of elder generation (30-40 age) started saying proudly that they didn't fell in the trap of love...and when we I pointed out that they have husband to fall in love with...they denied the feelings of love. I was shocked. Later, when I asked my mom privately about this she said for women in our society, love/feeling for man (even to ur own husband) are considered taboo just like sex. We women are suppose to control our feelings, our desires and it is expected from us that we shouldn't voice them before our husband also. For men, there is little lineancy. He can speak about them but only to his wife in private and cannot even display affection or love in front of other family members. That's why earlier in the day, the women panchayat were gladly declaring that after their kids reached certain age (teenage for kids and women 30-35) both husband and wife started sleeping in different rooms because they don't wanted to be judged by society for having love for ur spouse after a certain age. Men and women are only expected to get married, have kids and then fulfill their responsibilities/duties towards kids,family and society. There is no place for display of love and no sex too.
But every generation have rebels. A husband who doesn't agrees with these set of rules, display his love by bringing flowers (gajra) for wife or her favourite snacks in tightly wrapped newspaper and the wife will cook husband's favorite meal (it is their code language because the other family members in the household wouldn't know that the food cooked is husband's favorite. This meal secret is between husband and wife only), plus an extra serving of kheer.
When I asked Mom, does she agrees with it and will she be behaving like that after she crosses 30/35...she said of course not silly as she doesn't believe it and by the time she will reach her 35-40, this situation will change. Infact, it is already happening. Why do u think SRK and love stories films are becoming a rage these days?!
So what I understood is 'acknowledgment of romantic feelings towards ur own husband' is a big thing for Babita. Hopefully she will understand that time has changed and it is good to have and share her romantic feelings with her husband even after reaching a certain age.
I have edited my post because I realised it's unrequired and takes away the attention of beautiful things u mentioned in ur post.
Ur statement above - Suddenly ladies of elder generation (30-40 age) started saying proudly that they didn't fell in the trap of love.
This was only thing I objected because women in that category cannot be called elderly generation women. Yes in earlier times people were married off when their 16 -17 ....like babita I guess.... It's depends on society people ... education and career wasn't given importance. So it's obvious that woman faced a lot ....I mean they even feel guilty to admit their love for their husbands. It's like taboo for them. Such environments where they can't voice our their needs career dreams. So totally understand from where babita is coming from. There is communication between babita and mini.Babita also had to talk to mini her concerns and mini would have understood without getting offended.
Every bit of his scene but I liked most when he got up from the seat and mein nahi ban paaya uska baap aaj tak.Finest? Really? Which bit of his performance did you like most?
when it comes to being a father i would love to share something here.From the pre-cap it looked like this was the point HS was trying to make to both of them. What more does he have to do to prove his love?
Also, when he said father na ban paaya, it didn't sound like it was because he himself couldn't but because of the fact that mother and daughter have some strange expectations from him. Neither know what kind of father Minnie wants to have but expect HS to conform to goodness knows what image. That's why he walked off with that sarcastic comment to Babita, and in the precap his dialogue about father being the head of the household. Gosh I've been wanting to see him do this, take on this role of head of the family, and take charge in such a way but it seems difficult to digest right now because the whole damn thing is messed up.
When my hubby was alive my kid always used to listen what he said. My hubby was a soft hearted person, but still my son used to respect his words because he knew his dad was a no nonsense person. And as usual like most of the kids do, i was taken for granted by my son.
Even today sometimes when i am not able to deal with my son or have some argument like all parent and teenage kid do, i really start missing my hubby for i feel that my son wouldnt have argued with his dad like he does with me. My son is a well mannered child but sometimes a fathers disciplined attitude is needed somewhere because when kids are teenagers they feel the world is against them and no one understands them and to prove their point is right they argue to no end😆
in precap when hs was putting up his rules, babita ka expression dekhne layak tha. I really laughed out loud😆. Baap prove karna hai na do no ko, tih yeh lo ban gaya baap🤣. Aaj kya reaction hoga mini ka pata nahi but precap made me laugh.😆though things seemed serious.yo baat phinal hai
nice to see him giving both of them a much-needed dose
biological father itna nahi kar paate jitna hs ne maa beti ke liye kiya and that too without expectation, though hs was always attracted to babita, whatever he did for mini was dil se. If now writers are showing something else then they are struck with amnesia😆The love is there, and the optimist in me feels they are father and daughter, but they don't realize it or haven't come to terms with it because they are affected by labels or the need to conform to what this bond means.
They are both insecure about each other - still HS thinks she doesn't want him and she thinks he doesn't accept her as a daughter. He loves her like his daughter but knows he hasn't become her father yet.
@ bold. Ekdum sahi bola.Because she trusted him not as a father but as a hero, as a superhuman who makes no mistakes. That's the crux of the problem.
Who's parent is perfect? No one. Babita has failed to trust in her more than once but I don't see her saying that Babita failed to become her mother.
i felt at that time she was paying back for always being there for them no matter what. so in a way she tried to repay his debt.But was that truly her love or was it her sense of owing him a debt for all his ehsaan, for the times he trusted her?
HS was attracted to babtia first, he use to get nervous around her, he use to avoid eye contact...it was started between episode 23-26 I think, I’m not sure the episode number... but for sure something was there from HS’´s side, (will try to find the episode when it started).
It really happens... people gets nervous around you and do not want you to see their eyes because it may show their true feelings...
after all this drama and mistrust from mother daughter and irritating khuranas in the house, i wonder how come hs is still stable and level headed😆 anyone else would have shouted "suicide" like veeru of the movie sholay😆He said he tried but couldn't not because he himself couldn't but because his attempts were not seen as good enough for mother or daughter. And he's damn frustrated.
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