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Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

They have been trying to show Hanuman not really being a father to Mini since wedding.. his return to normalcy immediately after wedding was baffling.. so was his attitude post wedding till he did not know the CD truth.. there was no restlessness, no eagerness of talking to Mini.. all he cared about was Babita so ya.. this I called myself Mini's father to appease you is not really surprising

If this is what they have been meaning to show, then the writing has failed to convince me so far. The CD fiasco and his reaction was just so contrived and contrary to all we've seen that it was hard to digest. All the other things you've mentioned may have been logically put in to make today's dialogues seem true, but emotionally they were not convincing. We've seen this bond for 10 months and they tried to put a different spin on it out of the blue. Well, it's not working.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Not really true.. it was not Babita who rushed into this wedding.. it was Mini and everyone else who pushed her to confess her feelings

She wanting a father for her daughter is understandable.. Hanuman could have explained her that he does not need to be called father to fulfill father's duties.. that wasn't really a difficult conversation

Having any conversation with Babita is difficult.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Not only that, without any labels they were acting kind of "normal" but having the labels for their relationships seems to have them raised their expectations of each other and also made them a lot more self-conscious...

Yes, and each one's insecurities have been heightened like crazy.

How are you feeling now Jean?

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Not really true.. it was not Babita who rushed into this wedding.. it was Mini and everyone else who pushed her to confess her feelings

She wanting a father for her daughter is understandable.. Hanuman could have explained her that he does not need to be called father to fulfill father's duties.. that wasn't really a difficult conversation

What I meant is only that she is still very much governed by what society says. So she operates with tags a lot of times, like a DIL does this, a husband does that, etc. and tries to act upon these. And every time when these do not work (like now with Hannie) or are in any kind of transition so neither of the labels work, then she builds up a lot of tension and gets insecure.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Agreed.

He can't please Babita all the time. He needs to let his wants and needs known and have her live up to them. It's all about give and take. Kuch tum do, aur kuch hum denge.

That’s what he did though in the precap. He’s voicing out his wants, needs and hurt openly now.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

That’s what he did though in the precap. He’s voicing out his wants, needs and hurt openly now.

I still feel he would have voiced them differently, had Babita not pushed him so much. But let's wait and see tomorrow. 🙃🙂🙃

In precap he is not doing anything to please babita he said the same and went but in precap he is really mad at both of them... And he also told Minni that if she won't control her anger then he will make her stand outside the house... And now he's is doing the same... He is handling things in his way... I just hope it won't go worse....

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But all in all, HS did say that he claimed to be Mini’s father for Babita’s khushi and to reassure her. Why would he say that? 😕

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't get what HS said about announcing himself as her father just to reassure Babita.

He wasn't insincere towards Minnie, he did mean it.