A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 23

Originally posted by: naq5

they were to save babita from hurt not to hide things from her because lack of trust. About her friends she has been open. after the depression case even babita accepted mickey as minis friend and welcomed him. i remember mickey telling mini your mom is so accepting why are you scared of her

i dint say it was only babita but she was the last trigger to it. Mini did not share about manmeet because she felt babita wont trust her and blame her she was really depressed because of that too. Ironically the last time babes dint trust mini with her friends was also because rano taunted her. So its not because she herself dosent trust mini. Its because she has to listen to taunts and expects mini to toe her line because she dosent want to listen to them. Today remember when mini told you insulted me in front of my friends she retorted with even i am disrespected because of what you do. If she herself was really worried and did not trust mini or wanted to rest her doubts she would have dealt with it in a more coherent way.

I think she herself did not want to marry because of taunts she would have to face. mini to sirf bahana thi. like they way she hid behind mini in beginning of marriage. Now because of mini kammo taunted about her friendship to HS too and that made her even more angry

Regardless of the reasons, she did lie. She chooses to hide things from Babes and in the end they come back to bite her.

Babita's problem is that she not only takes other people's words to heart, but she also doesn't stand up to them. If she shuts them down, and lets them know that she won't be treated like a garbage can, then they will think twice about saying things to her.

Just got back home after an exhausting day and now I'm afraid to watch it after reading all the comments.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

To think that Poor Babita got whips, lashes and gaaliyan for talking about Mini on wedding nihht while Mini thinks Babita has no control.. she literally had to be pushed into Hanuman's bedroom😆 isse ziada air kia control karti😆

Mini seems to have forgotten k Babita be control kia hua tha.. it was Mini who was hell bent on getting her to confess

Minnie really has no kaddar for Babita the way she keeps hitting where it hurts the most. Like not standing up for herself for 17 years- easier said than done and now her falling in love with HS. She cheapened her mom’s feelings to prove “her” point both times. I have lost all sympathy for an almost 18 year old who wants to win at all costs.

Deep down Minnie feels guilty of spending time and her feelings for Mickey and to cover up she accused Babita.

Throwback to Ashok slapping Minnie - she said the same thing to Babita today as she had to Ashok.

Beeji + Dadu, apna hi rona leke baith gaye.

Precap - mother daughter have it so good that they are probably thinking it's too good to be true. HS is too good to be true.

As for Minnie thinking that HS doesn't consider her his daughter, what is she trying to say. That she loves him as her father but that he doesn't reciprocate as a parent? She probably now thinks that if her own Babes could be like this with her then how can a 'paraya' like HS ever love her as his own? I am now beginning to feel that perhaps HS was right to feel worried and heartbroken that she didn't want him to be her father. For him, this has always been the emotion he's felt towards Minnie for ages, even before he fell for Babita, and if Minnie can't see it then I don't know what to say. I am glad her insecurities are coming out though, that at least some of her zeher is coming out in various forms. Yeh to hona hi tha.

HS didn't need to do any of this to impress Babita or anyone, and his bond with Minnie has nothing to do with her par un donon ko samjhaye? Unless I've been wrong from day one and HS never loved Minnie as his own and had ulterior motives for helping her. If that is the case then the whole 200 episodes of this show have been a total lie - the hospital scene, Imarti, track, training for the karate competition, consoling her when Ashok caused trouble, all of it. I guess she isn't his jigar ka tukda and his heart won't break if he loses her, because HS is the biggest liar in the world, huh? 😡 I don't know if the CVs will go so far as to show this, but that would mean that either they have completely gone mad or that we missed all the signs of an evil HS and his manipulative nature for so many months.

Let Ashok come back and remind them exactly where they started and where they have ended up. Babita and Minnie are both battling with guilt on many fronts but in all this, they are both damaging their own project. I am not going into who's right and who's wrong but I also wonder what on Earth HS can do with these two.

All this better be leading to HS finally getting fed up being used as a punching bag and taken for granted. They both need the silent treatment so that he doesn't forget that he's a thanedaar who is responsible for law and order. His work is suffering big time and he looked really frazzled today. As it is he's hurting because of NB and now more siyappe. He should just get on with his own life. He really was much happier before.

They don't deserve him and I feel like saying to them:
Ask not what HS can do for you, but what you can do for HS.

I am all for HS going Rhett Butler on both of them and riding off into the sunset with NB and Lala.

Congrats on turning pink, Gur. You've been promoted. 🤗

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

First kya second kya, marriage has become the biggest taboo in the show. Don't ever get married.

Oops I forgot this show wasn't a preachy notice board. Oops there are no messages here. Oops, characters are so flawed and that gives them the liberty to behave in any way whatsoever.

Shit why should we even expect anything optimistic happening here?

Sach mein, shaadi = barbaadi wale messages de rahe hain ye log.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

And she was the one who said to Poonam that he feels her as his daughter to matter what is his relation with Babita... And are what's she saying Now... U know both mother daughter are self absorbed unhe apne alava koi nahi nazar aata...

If by any chance this track is headed towards HS/NB/Lala telling mother-daughter this on their faces, then I'm gonna grit my teeth and bear upcoming episodes.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Perhaps not surprised, but I still feel he will be crushed. Whatever the GP was supposed to mean for him, it obviously didn't mean the same for her. If he had held onto any hope that they could potentially have a baap-beti rishta, it won't happen now.

I don't think that's going to happen if Minnie continues to sabotage it. She really really needs him now more than anyone else.

I don't want to see HS crushed again but there's no escaping it from the looks of it.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly exactly.

Btw Mini madam Fathers don't always pamper you. HS use daante toh main unki beti nahi? Yeh kya hai?

HS should deffo scold her for troubling Babita that way. And Mini should learn to take scolding positively.

Well, whether or not she accepts it, in the short time since he's known her HS has parented her better than all her family members.

He always used to be concerned that Minnie haath se nikal jaayegi if her rudeness and anger management issues are not kept in check. Well, wo din door nahin hai.

Minnie seemed to be uttering what Kammo said ..what if the promo is being taking out of context?

She could just be telling Preet and Mickey what Kammo said and how it’s effected Babes or how it hurt her

We don’t know the whole pic yet