Babita is OTM in HS’s love, forgets Mini’s bday - Page 6

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol waah, kya kamaal pyar hai where one is so oblivious to the emotional state of the person they claim to be in love with 🤷‍♀️😂

Itne superficial relationship ko love ka stamp mil gaya hai. lol I guess itna hi rahega Ab.

I totally agree with this. She doesn't even know what love is yet.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And it sounds like it’s all still so self absorbed...it’s all about how much someone loves HER rather than anything about her loving him 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know if she will ever journey to the point of offering him love either. For now, it just seems to be about her absorbing everything he gives her without offering even some level of emotional connection in return.

And yes, sadly, I also don’t feel any emotion for them as a couple right now. Ironic....considering how much I loved their scenes before the wedding. But now 🤷‍♀️

They were way better as tenant-landlord.

I too, don't know when she will give him that love, if at all. Woh hi andar hi andar ghut ta rahega, bechaara.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But she isn’t claiming that mein unhe bahot puar karti hoon ya unhe samajti hoon. Jaanti hoon. Hamara pyar yeh hai woh hai.

She is saying woh mujhe kitna chahte hai.

Which is true. HS does love her a lot and is in tune with her emotional needs. It remains to be seen if she is ever able to reach the level where she is in tune with his emotional needs.

@bold Saturn abhi bohot door hai.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

So that’s the sum of this family. HS loves Babita a lot and she basks in it, then guilt trips for neglecting her daughter. The end. Lol

+ HS loves Minnie the most but she thinks he's untrustworthy and only cares about her Babes (isn't that why she wanted them to get married in the first place)?

Summary of PB..

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Quite possible. It’s Babita we are talking about. 😆

@bold - Where is HS and Mini equation in between this?

What HS and Minnie equation? The CVs are going about it as though such a thing never existed.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Doesn’t look like though.

For just this once, I don’t want anyone to question her. I want her to find the tuning with him and his emotional struggles on her own.

For now, Let her bask in his love since she has been deprived of Husband’s love for a long time. And HS doesn’t mind showering all he has.

But down the road as she gets to know him more closely, she should come in terms with his needs on her own. I expect that of her.

I agree, especially with the part in bold.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I guess it's up to interpretation. Frankly speaking, I haven't seen some solid reasons as to why HS fell in love with Babita in the first place. There were some tiny things at first, like her reminding him heavily of Imarti, so I wondered if he was constantly searching for her, but that didn't happe. Then I wondered if it is because of Minnie but that doesn't seem to be entirely true since Hanita were building an equation of their own separate from her. And given the way she's behaving lately, I really can't see a reason as to why he loves her. Is it really just because of her cooking? 😕 I mean, apart from that, what is Babita giving to him willingly?

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Originally posted by: AreYaar

🤣 I guess this is supposed to prove that love is blind. Apart from the cooking, she is also giving him sex willingly. Marriage basics 😆

I also initially wondered if he fell for her cuz she reminded him of Imarti in some ways. Other times I also felt he fell for a core of courage deep inside her.

Ultimately, she gave him some sense of family I think and that’s what he fell for. Ofcourse these days that’s hardly visible🤷‍♀️😂....but now he’s fully committed so he will see it through....no matter how twisted her personality is. Lol

I just feel he’s living a mirage if he thinks he alone can be the one to shower love without expectation of emotional support for himself.

@bold, no he went into this with his eyes open and as he had told Lala, he would be the one to have to take on the load of supporting this relationship.

I just want him to give both of them as much space as they want and focus on not losing his job.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I was watching Hospital scene between HS and Mini - my most favorite conversation of the 2.

I can’t believe from there to we are here. I don’t want a token scene. I want a fulfilling conversation. Just the two. And it shouldn’t be about Babita. It should just be about them and their equation.

HS and Mini is much loved aspect of PB. Writers can’t keep them like this. Doesn’t look so in near future but we can only hope. Kar bhi kya sakte hai except to go back and watch their scenes. 😳

I know, right? It feels as if that was a completely different show. I, too, want their equation to be independent and perhaps that's what Minnie needs to understand too, that HS is her father, or can be. He's not just her mother's husband and he adores Minnie more than anyone else in the world.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAO, these shallow reasons just don't vibe with the HS that we have gotten to know. It feels so cheap.

That's what I thought too, especially with the way she fought her own divorce case, and then sent Ashok away. She has the potential to be this amazing woman but it's being repressed so heavily, it's making her all twisted.

He knew that Babita hasn't reached that level of maturity where she can handle him. That's why he was willing to wait until she reaches that point so that they can have an equal relationship. But when she proposed, all of that just got thrown out of the window because he was scared of losing Minnie forever. I feel like he was very emotionally disturbed when the proposal happened and he just grasped onto the first thing that had been giving him any semblance of sanity and stability in his life.

@bold, this has always been my take - that he proposed because of Minnie, and now it's clear. I hope Minnie finds out about this one day.

Ugh...