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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

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Ab toh HS Mickey ko bhi dekhne ka koi mann nahi hai. These people just blatantly and inhumanely destroyed everything they'd been building this far. Whooooosh. All gone.

Seriously yaar this soul mate drama me sab satyanash kar diya...

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Thanks for the update Gur.... So. It's confirmed that it's waste to watch the episode...

Finally kammo has succeeded.... 👏

Both mother daughter have lost it completely can't then think before speaking shit.... And look at their audacity to question HS love for them.... Wow women what is his place in ur life I guess u need to clarify that as well....

Wow... HS got labelled as an opportunist... I want HS give them back very tightly this time that the won't question again him....

I am having doubts the mother daughter even love each other and they both have the audacity to question HS. Pehli apna uloo to seeda karo.since the beginning I have seen they cannot even communicate without a third person around. They are always accusing and crying until the third person gets tired of their shit and makes them see reason- like NB, HS or Mickey

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I blame this one on Preet. There was no point in bringing up this soulmates thing since it was obviously not going to be understood by Babita.

Loll, Preet was her childhood best friend and look at the way she treated Minnie. They're lucky that they even patched up varna yeh dosti bhi ko jaati.

They patched up coz Babes came up and helped them at the end moment for Preet’s engagement. Offering her catering service.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

What??? @bold

There's a whole goddamn list of Mini badly messing up things in her life and others. And no one fricking acknowledges that EVER!

Like? taking care of daadu beeji without babitas knowledge or about missing entrance exam for babitas shoes

Babita wouldnt have been here had mini not got her out of that house. even in her business it was mini that supported her. She was the one who pushed babita to stand up for herself. supported her when no one did. How many children could have done that. its because she is strong headed. dint she handle the wedding preparations all alone with her friends. Hasnt she been open to babita about her friends. there was no reason for babita to doubt mini like that as naim bi said.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

well babita too degraded mini by telling her that she is trying to become mita. mini got back to her with you couldnt control your feelings for HS but i can control my feelings. I dont understand the guilt part though. babita feels guilty because people are taunting her for getting married, not for loving HS so she got it wrong there. She wasnt in her senses after her mother accused her of such a thing so i would think she got all of it jumbled up.

And why do we expect mini to be like a normal sanskari daughter she has never been so. she has been rude and answered back to her grand parents to her father(ok she had reasons) to her bua , to khatri to kammo to naim bi also in beginning, to HS also. Mini dosent have this concept of woh mere elders hai to i have to behave respectfully she will fight like she fights with her friends. She hasdone it for her mother and herself before she will keep doing it. The relation of babita mini has always been this lopsided

So? Just because Babita said that to Minnie doesn't give her the license to do the same to Babes. Both of them were wrong to do this to each other.

I still don't fully understand the whole guilt narrative. I'll have to go back and check it out but it's still not a valid reason for this fight between them. It was really poor.

That's the problem though. She's soon to be an adult. She needs to know how to treat and speak to people with respect and understand that not everything can go her way. If she doesn't learn this lesson fast then it'll do her a lot of harm in the long run, especially when she goes to get a job.

Besides, if she wants Babes to be independent, then she also has to give back those motherly duties back to her. Babita has to be the mother and Minnie has to be the child. She needs to get on board with this equation or she'll constantly be in a state of oh woe is me.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am quite young by age and forever young by heart.

Yet I don’t get this soulmate qtiyapa that Mini has going on. Nope. Makes no sense.

Hain jee aise kaise? Teenagers ka concept hai bhai!

Well Babita was wrong to start with comparing Mini with Meeta but in start of today’s episode, she was arguing calmly. She even tried telling Mini that your generation thinks you are right but you are not.

That’s it. It flared up Mini. Mujhe galat bola.

Mini ko galat bola hain ji? Siyappa enough! Babita crossed the line there!

So she kept repeating, You couldn’t your feelings. HS couldn’t control his feelings.

Beta aapko kya pata kitna control kiya. Your mother refused any relation with HS coz of you. You don’t know that.

And yes you are confused about you and Micky. When you wrote in your diary about Soulmate, you had question mark at the end. You are guilty of seating with Micky alone at night so you called up Preet. You climbed down balcony and went to see him. When HS asked how you got stuck on Barsaati, you lied. I don’t see much clarity here.

And to constantly repeat that your parents couldn’t control their feelings? Wow.

At the end Mini says, mujhe pata hai mein galat nahi hoon. I mean are you ever? Isn’t why you went on accusations spree coz your mother dared to tell you that your generation is wrong. 👏

Friday I was sympathetic towards Mini. Today I am not. I am fine she crossed the line but I am also sure she will never realize her mistake or apologize for it. Whereas Babita is already regretting her actions and words. But Mini and regret? What’s that? Alien concept.

I didn’t like that HS left troubled citizens to tend to his house issues. If they can’t find Mini, put her mobile on follow up. He can do that. Not run at home. Poor couple’s daughter was in hospital. Not done.

Also, I didn’t like police station scene. Sab log machhi market ki tarah chilla rahe the. Mein pehle.. mein pehle. Lol. Aisa kaha hota hai bhai. 🧐


I got Dadu and Biji’s concern at the same time I am glad Babita asked them to not interfere. Their concern now looks all hollow. I did feel bad for them though. They are paying for their parenting mishaps. Abandoned by kids and now have to live for Mini only. They were right about Babita’s approach to talk to Mini. I will be happy if they also tell the same to mini that she needs to learn to behave as well. She can’t go about talking rubbish to her elders as and when she wishes.

Naa naa. They'll buy her jalebis. And pacify her. Ashok ki islauti nishaani jo hai! Ks be always right. Befitting legacy.

Precap - Kuch nahi kahu to behtar hai. HS looked hurt by Babes words.

HS aur hurt? Yek kya hota hai? He's the official punch bag of the show. He can't have feelings.

Ekdum kadak post! Mazaa aagaya padhkar!

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Posted: 6 years ago

But the way today Preet sunaoed Kammo..

ha ha ha.

Oy she proved that she is Rano’s Daughter when it comes to taunts. 😎

Oye Kudiye kya mast set kar ditta Kammo nu. Thoda sa same to same Babes ko bhi sikha de. 😉

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Babita is being pushed to extremes. Mini knows she affects her so Maa se kuch bhi karvao? Daadu Beeji ko le aao, Mickey ka stay back arrange karvao?

She's so worried about being ignored and not loved by anyone but does she think about anyone anymore? She knew that Babes was uncomfortable with Mickey, she knew that Babes didn't like Khuranas. Yet, for her own benefit she let Babita's choices go off, get discarded so easily. She literally ignored what Babita wanted. Yeh kaisi beti hai?

And now she's expecting that Babita will arrange a party for her. Why?

But Minnie didn't ask Babita to bring the Khuranas home and Babita never told Minnie that she wasn't okay with Mickey staying back. The problem here is that despite knowing that Babita isn't okay with the Khuranas, Minnie never asked Babita if she's okay with this. Also, Babita never spoke to Minnie about not wanting Mickey there; she told that to HS. The lack of communication is becoming a big problem between all of them since they're all running on presumptions.

LMAO, bin maange thappad khaa liya. Ab party toh banti hai. 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I really love you.😭😭

BOOOHHOOOO BOO BOO BOO.

Thanks jaana🤗

Love you more. 🤗

Zyaada tension na le. Sab teekh ho jayega. 🤗

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: naq5

Like? taking care of daadu beeji without babitas knowledge or about missing entrance exam for babitas shoes

Babita wouldnt have been here had mini not got her out of that house. even in her business it was mini that supported her. She was the one who pushed babita to stand up for herself. supported her when no one did. How many children could have done that. its because she is strong headed. dint she handle the wedding preparations all alone with her friends. Hasnt she been open to babita about her friends. there was no reason for babita to doubt mini like that as naim bi said.

No. Like telling her mother the apparent reality of own her relationship. Like expecting Babita to behave at her whims and fancies. Like trivializing Babita's problems and making a huge deal about her own. Like never considering HS as her own father yet expecting him to treat her like his princess daughter. And this will go on.

In no way I'm belittling Mini's contribution to Babita's life and career. Its huge. Both personal and professional. But what after that? Just because she's helped her mother a lot, she can well go ahead and say anything?

Babita was wrong to compare and say whatever she did. But Mini was equally wrong. Babita will realise and learn and grow but what will Mini do? Self victimise herself and cut off ties with everyone, drowned in imaginary insecurities. It's a pity actually. To even think that Mini is strong headed is a pitiful thought. She's not strong. She projects herself as strong but she's clearly not.

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