A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 14

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm getting such cheap and nasty vibes from this... I can't even tell you. It's as if she has degraded the purity of Hanita's relationship into something lustful. Control ni kar sakki - da fcukk????

well babita too degraded mini by telling her that she is trying to become mita. mini got back to her with you couldnt control your feelings for HS but i can control my feelings. I dont understand the guilt part though. babita feels guilty because people are taunting her for getting married, not for loving HS so she got it wrong there. She wasnt in her senses after her mother accused her of such a thing so i would think she got all of it jumbled up.

And why do we expect mini to be like a normal sanskari daughter she has never been so. she has been rude and answered back to her grand parents to her father(ok she had reasons) to her bua , to khatri to kammo to naim bi also in beginning, to HS also. Mini dosent have this concept of woh mere elders hai to i have to behave respectfully she will fight like she fights with her friends. She hasdone it for her mother and herself before she will keep doing it. The relation of babita mini has always been this lopsided

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That's true. I don't know what she wants from the Khuranas. Even though she brought them over, it didn't do anything to alleviate her fear that they might instigate Minnie about her being a bad mother. She knows she effed up but she doesn't want to hear it from the Khuranas as well. As she said, Beeji questioning her is akin to putting a question mark on her 17 years of pavarish.

There are a lot of things that Babita wants but aren't happening because either no one's listening to her or are passing off what she wants as being selfish or invalid. She should never had brought the Khuranas over or let Mickey stay. She should have stayed firm to her decisions and not let Minnie manipulate her to this extent.

Babita is being pushed to extremes. Mini knows she affects her so Maa se kuch bhi karvao? Daadu Beeji ko le aao, Mickey ka stay back arrange karvao?

She's so worried about being ignored and not loved by anyone but does she think about anyone anymore? She knew that Babes was uncomfortable with Mickey, she knew that Babes didn't like Khuranas. Yet, for her own benefit she let Babita's choices go off, get discarded so easily. She literally ignored what Babita wanted. Yeh kaisi beti hai?

And now she's expecting that Babita will arrange a party for her. Why?

Originally posted by: naq5

Babita was also wrong in behaving like this with mini. just bacause she is a mother its ok with her. Take it as if HS had accused mini like this he would have had it from babita.

well babita should learn to not take other random people words seriously and react like this. She herself feels guilty about what everyone says. if she cant stand up for herself and drag others in her guilt of what others say then how is it fair to others

today she has not trusted mini at kammos words

tomorrow she is accusing HS because of kammos words

the truth is that babita wouldnt have behaved this way with mini if kamko hadnt taunted her nor tomorrow questioned hs love for mini if kammo hadnt said those words about HS on sangeet

I never said that she's right. I've been saying this since last week. Her fears are valid but her approach to the situation has been completely wrong.

That's what Minnie said today. That just because Babes is feeling guilty, it's not right for her to punish everyone else. But I doubt that got through to her. I don't know what will take for Babita to let go of this log kya kahenge jaap but it better happen soon, otherwise she's well on her way to ruining her own home.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I don't have any energy left to vent out anymore.

But agree totally. Every word every emotion.

Bass I'm done.

GURRRRRRWATIIII🤗🤗🤗

It's okay Mahi. I'm here for you. 🤗

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

U know now I feel that if Minni patches up hanita also no use bcoz if she can't value the GP and jigar ka tukda thing the what will she value... Phir kuch siyappa hoga and again she will question hanita and their love for her....

What the hell is this attitude? No use talking.

CVs ko inki laadli bechaari Mini mubarak.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's okay Mahi. I'm here for you. 🤗

I really love you.😭😭

BOOOHHOOOO BOO BOO BOO.

Thanks jaana🤗

Originally posted by: naq5

Exactly we forget it depends on kid to kid. Mini has never lied and her friends are open in front of her. If babita had a daughter like preet who has a habit of falling for every other guy i would have understood her but mini is different. And how babita has behaved can have lasting impressions on a person like mini who has been through so much that she has shut out romantic relations from her life. Babita should be happy that mini is atleast trusting a guy to be her friend and not totally shutting guys out. I wonder how people see that mini is a villain because she got her mother worried because she was extremely upset about how her mother called her the other woman and wanted to be alone but fail to see how the girl was literally called characterless.

But here its not about babitas trust its about log kya kahenge, spcly kammo kya kahegi

That's not true. Minnie has lied many times to Babes in the past and was even willing to do so for Preet so that she didn't get in trouble, and Babes saw this.

Minnie's romantic life is going to be stunted for a long time. Whoever she ends up with will have one hell of a time dealing with her.

You're only focusing on people's complaints about Minnie. There are just as many people upset and disappointed with Babita. At least that's how I see it on IF. Not going to comment on other platforms since they're always skewed one way or the other.

Originally posted by: najma123

That's fine. Let's not argue. But I don't see what was wrong in her questioning their relationship. My ideas about kids and their limits with their parents are slightly different from what is shown on TV. I probably relate this show with my real life coz it's the closest to reality that we get. 👍🏼

@ bold. Exactly me too. well i dont believe in the chota bada thing. Everyone is equal and everyone deserves respect in my eyes. Parents can be wrong or right and children can be wrong or right too. But as parents they have a more capacity to influence their children's life so its more of their responsibility to not affect their kids in a bad way and not scar them for life.

Children like mini who do the right thing always. be honest to their parents do not hide things from them, are righteous will be badly affected if parents dont trust them like this. They wont know what wrong they have done to warrant their parents doubt like this

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I don't think she called up because of Kalesh.. She called him because Mini was not picking up her calls and had stormed off in anger.. I think it was her safety she was worried about which actually does make it understandable.. If she can't find her daughter, she would naturally call Hanuman first

I completely agree and it was a valid reason to call him up. I just don't want this to become a norm though.

Originally posted by: naq5

well babita too degraded mini by telling her that she is trying to become mita. mini got back to her with you couldnt control your feelings for HS but i can control my feelings. I dont understand the guilt part though. babita feels guilty because people are taunting her for getting married, not for loving HS so she got it wrong there. She wasnt in her senses after her mother accused her of such a thing so i would think she got all of it jumbled up.

And why do we expect mini to be like a normal sanskari daughter she has never been so. she has been rude and answered back to her grand parents to her father(ok she had reasons) to her bua , to khatri to kammo to naim bi also in beginning, to HS also. Mini dosent have this concept of woh mere elders hai to i have to behave respectfully she will fight like she fights with her friends. She hasdone it for her mother and herself before she will keep doing it. The relation of babita mini has always been this lopsided

Yes she have answerwd back and it's nothing wrong when u r right...

But her she is wrong in getting hanita relationship in middle of this argument..yes babita us wrong in comparing Minni with meeta so does Minni is wrong in saying her mom that u don't have control of ur feelings that u ended up. Marrying... Sh answered back then I her own way but here she made it horrible... If she have to give back to Babita she can say it in other way also... She would have said her pov in other way also....she need not have to say all this about hanita relationship.... She really did questioned her mom that why were not u able to make your relationship.only till friendship... Is that right on her part...