A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 9

Originally posted by: najma123

They do! Depends on the kids also. Mini hasn't really lied to her parents about anything, doesn't sneak out, doesn't have friends her parents don't know about. And moreover, as a mother Babita needs to know that her daughter has seen her own family fall apart because if infidelity and no way would she be a cause of that for anyone. Once bitten, twice shy. You don't do what others do to you unless of course you are vindictive or sadistic. And parents do trust their children. Children like Mini. It's rarely shown on TV coz TV is overdramatic but here too except her no one has a doubt.

Recently, Babita Mini haven't been able to talk. Cause Mini herself has detached away from Babita citing unknown vague baseless reasons. There's a lot of distance that's cropped up between them. So them being on different pages in understandable.

Call my frustration on Mini or the strong dislike for her nowadays, but she's done all of that is mentioned in bold.

Yes Babita shouldn’t have slapped Mini and she’s completely wrong in doing so... but did Mini cross the line today. She literally questioned HS and Babita’s relationship. She told her mother she couldn’t control her feelings, that she’s guilty of falling in love. That’s just another level of low that a daughter could say to her mom. She doesn’t even realize that she’s wrong for question her mom’s feelings for HS. She cheapened their relationship. And the way Mini was smirking when she said this to Babita, just nooooo girl, it’s not done 🤦🏻‍♀️

On the other hand, Babita is guilty for slapping Mini.

And today Mini proved that she never considered HS her father or cared about his feelings. On the other hand, idk why Babita is questioning HS’s love for Mini now . This is the worse ever.

Now again Minni will be depressed and will tell her dukhiyari dastaan to. Her dairy... How her hanuman uncle couldn't be her father and how her mother is abandoning her...

Fcuk yaar i don't want to hate Minni but CVS are making me. To do that...minni ko bechari banake.....

Originally posted by: najma123

They do! Depends on the kids also. Mini hasn't really lied to her parents about anything, doesn't sneak out, doesn't have friends her parents don't know about. And moreover, as a mother Babita needs to know that her daughter has seen her own family fall apart because if infidelity and no way would she be a cause of that for anyone. Once bitten, twice shy. You don't do what others do to you unless of course you are vindictive or sadistic. And parents do trust their children. Children like Mini. It's rarely shown on TV coz TV is overdramatic but here too except her no one has a doubt.

Untrue actually.. A lot of kids actually end up venturing on the same path that their parents too unwillingly but they do.. It is quite common.. Let us take a real life example.. Arjun Kapoor is rumored to be the reason that Malaika Arbaz marriage broke off.. you see the connection?

Parents should trust their kids.. Indeed.. But at the same time, they shouldn't have a blind trust.. Mini Micky do take things a bit far.. They are more close than Micky Preet which actually would be worrisome for all three concerned in the future.. for instance, when Mini gets a boyfriend, do you think he would like if the girl he loves calls someone else her soulmate? Would any guy like to hear that?

Mini actually has snuck out.. Remember the balcony scene? Micky has come to Mini's place multiple times at odd hours.. He could have his reasons.. He sure does not have any malicious intentions but he has.. and that should worry the mother of any teenage daughter

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Exactly.. Why should Babita be guilty? This is one of the most idiotic things I have ever heard.. And I dont even think Mini said this in anger.. This is what she genuinely believes which actually makes it sadder

Babita said whatever she did in her anger and impulse but Mini actually believes in everything she has said.. Pathetic!

About the precap, I don't think Babita will accuse Hanuman.. I think there would be more to it considering their segments.. Hanuman would not forgive Babita for saying all this with a mere feather.. there has to be more.. Maybe she herself answers the question or something.. He looked angry at her for slapping and not for anything else in the segments and this line of questioning would have made him livid

Exactly! When she called Babita selfish she had even said that she wasn't sure if what she was saying was true or not. She just said whatever was on her mind.

But today she was speaking calmly and rationally. The things she said to Babita and will say tomorrow about HS are what she believes to be true. If this is her thinking about her parents' love for each other, then it's really sad. It also makes me more firm on my stance that she should have NEVER interfered between Hanita's relationship. She truly was the third person between them and messed up whatever beautiful feelings were blossoming for each other.

There's definitely more to it given the way the precap was put together. He might see that she's frantic and try to calm her down instead. If anything, she might be questioning him as to why he's not going out there to find Minnie and hence the do you even love her comment.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

So? Isn't it her responsibility to inform the adults about her whereabouts so that they don't get worried? That too, given the situation in which she left? She needs to learn how to take some responsibility for her own actions too. She can't go around doing whatever she wants and expect others to pander towards her every need.

If HS scolds her for making Babita worried, then he's correct to do so. Minnie was wrong to make her worry to this extent. She's also wrong in saying those harsh words and building onto Babita's guilt and stress. Literally every single aspect of Babita's life is now being tinged with guilt. How is she supposed to live a life like this? If this carries forward, she runs the danger of repressing herself to the point that she has a complete shut down. Simply acting on other people's desires and refusing to express what she wants for herself. This is not healthy behavior and I truly worry for her.

Exactly exactly.

Btw Mini madam Fathers don't always pamper you. HS use daante toh main unki beti nahi? Yeh kya hai?

HS should deffo scold her for troubling Babita that way. And Mini should learn to take scolding positively.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Recently, Babita Mini haven't been able to talk. Cause Mini herself has detached away from Babita citing unknown vague baseless reasons. There's a lot of distance that's cropped up between them. So them being on different pages in understandable.

Call my frustration on Mini or the strong dislike for her nowadays, but she's done all of that is mentioned in bold.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yes Babita shouldn’t have slapped Mini and she’s completely wrong in doing so... but did Mini cross the line today. She literally questioned HS and Babita’s relationship. She told her mother she couldn’t control her feelings, that she’s guilty of falling in love. That’s just another level of low that a daughter could say to her mom. She doesn’t even realize that she’s wrong for question her mom’s feelings for HS. She cheapened their relationship. And the way Mini was smirking when she said this to Babita, just nooooo girl, it’s not done 🤦🏻‍♀️

On the other hand, Babita is guilty for slapping Mini.

And today Mini proved that she never considered HS her father or cared about his feelings. On the other hand, idk why Babita is questioning HS’s love for Mini now . This is the worse ever.

HOW DID SHE EVEN MANAGE to get away with something like that? Babita couldn't control her feelings? WHAT ON EARTH DOES THAT EVEN MEAN.

😡😡

Babita can feel guilty for comparing Minni with meeta as that's totally wrong but not for slapping her... Minni have crossed her limits and she deserves it...

Please CVS don't make Minni mahaan this time... Minni have tonne shown a mirror badly that how wrong is she now... How can even day that Tonie mother...

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

What Minnie said was true

Babes does feel guilty about marrying and loving HS

She said so herself that she married HS to give Minnie a father

She hasn’t accepted the fact that she loves HS and married him because she loves him ...this is why she gets mad when log talk. She is still not confident she made the right decision

Minnie is a head strong girl who has had to raise her mom but sometimes she forgets she isn’t the mom

The CV have made Babes absolutely crazy now. If they can’t justify her behr as mental health issue than this show is gonna go in the dumps

i dont think babita feels guilty . she feels guilty because she has to bear taunts from people. Mini dosent know that kammo taunted her about it. but mini saying babita feels guilty for turning friendship of hs to love is confusing to me. babita is scared though that mini will follow same example

she also somewhere wants to hide that love under that she married for minis sake

And yes she was comparing hers and mini situation about which mini was right but im not sure about the guilt part about loving hanuman. the truth is that Babita is not prepared to bear the taunts that come along with such a relationship.

And i dont expect mini to be in a right frame of mind to understand babitas fears and decoding her properly after being accused of being the other woman. Its a huge thing to be accused like that. if babita had only accused her of being extra close to guys in friendship i think she still would have handled that. And the way babita was just blabbering like a possessed person being so dismissive of minis feelings instead of calmly talking to mini dint help matters either