A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 8

What Minnie said was true

Babes does feel guilty about marrying and loving HS

She said so herself that she married HS to give Minnie a father

She hasn’t accepted the fact that she loves HS and married him because she loves him ...this is why she gets mad when log talk. She is still not confident she made the right decision

Minnie is a head strong girl who has had to raise her mom but sometimes she forgets she isn’t the mom

The CV have made Babes absolutely crazy now. If they can’t justify her behr as mental health issue than this show is gonna go in the dumps

Originally posted by: Jiarao

He was crushed the moment he realized she never really considered him father. He won't be surprised if he hears this.

Perhaps not surprised, but I still feel he will be crushed. Whatever the GP was supposed to mean for him, it obviously didn't mean the same for her. If he had held onto any hope that they could potentially have a baap-beti rishta, it won't happen now.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's not even that. She's not seeing that she was slapped for crossing the line with her. Instead, she passed it off as Babita hiding behind her guilt of falling in love with HS.

Just to put this out there, this is the stupidest thing that I have ever heard. The precap is sad but this one bit pricks me the most. Babita is guilty?? Really?? I can't put into words but it makes me want to scream. Why is EVERYTHING about Babita being transformed into her feeling guilty??? It's pissing me off so much. They've ruined the beautiful relationship that existed between her and HS by adding all this guilty nonsense into it.

EXACTLY WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY. WHAT THE FCKKKKKKKK.

Congratulations in advance for the colour change!

No, I personally believe Babita is totally at fault here. Mini and Mickey are friends, they can be best friends. Teenagers call each other a lot of shit best friends for life, soulmates, soulsisters and a lot of shit. She can't take Kammo seriously. Literally, Kammo and Khatri are the ONLY people bothered with these people's lives. And logon Ka kaam hai kehna. I personally felt that Babita should have shut Kammo up, the way Preet did today.

In addition what I feel bad about is, she couldn't handle the mess she created, considering she's brought her daughter up for years and called HS during his duty. I don't like her calling and disturbing when he's on duty man. My Dad was watching this on Friday, and he was also of the opinion, that she should trust her daughter. Trusting your kids is extremely important. Parents need to trust their kids. And Mini's got a sour taste about romantic relationships because of what happened to her mother, and despite the mother moving on, Mini hasn't moved on from that heartbreak to believe relationships can be happy. As a mother, she needs to get shit straight in life.

to think they started off with Mini is the kind of daughter anyone wish to have and ended up, she is one of the worst nightmares parents of teenage kids can have is actually pretty sad.. more than Babita and Hanuman, it is Mini's character that has been butchered and the makers do not even seem to realize it

And I'm still not clear about the trio. Mickey always had romantic feelings for Mini. Apparently gave up on her and shifted to Preet. We haven't seen much of his love for Preet or even small gestures. Their relationship has always been verbally expressed for us to understand. All feels waale scenes for Mickey Mini.

What are writers trying to suggest here?

Basically that Mickey did have feelings for her earlier on and has apparently shifted recently. How will Babes know about this?

Originally posted by: najma123

Congratulations in advance for the colour change!

No, I personally believe Babita is totally at fault here. Mini and Mickey are friends, they can be best friends. Teenagers call each other a lot of shit best friends for life, soulmates, soulsisters and a lot of shit. She can't take Kammo seriously. Literally, Kammo and Khatri are the ONLY people bothered with these people's lives. And logon Ka kaam hai kehna. I personally felt that Babita should have shut Kammo up, the way Preet did today.

In addition what I feel bad about is, she couldn't handle the mess she created, considering she's brought her daughter up for years and called HS during his duty. I don't like her calling and disturbing when he's on duty man. My Dad was watching this on Friday, and he was also of the opinion, that she should trust her daughter. Trusting your kids is extremely important. Parents need to trust their kids. And Mini's got a sour taste about romantic relationships because of what happened to her mother, and despite the mother moving on, Mini hasn't moved on from that heartbreak to believe relationships can be happy. As a mother, she needs to get shit straight in life.

To be very very honest, I don't think any parent trusts their children this way. Specially when Mini behaves with Mickey that way. Specially when Babita herself went through that stage recently in life and is constantly reminded about this is bad and crude ways.

Originally posted by: naq5

Her Grand parents dint call her though and if she picks up HS call he should be talking to her properly and not scold her after all thats happened. everyone cant deal angrily in this situation. someone needs to talk calmly to mini without accusing and blaming her. she has already been accused enough by being called the other woman because babita took that kammos words seriously. If both parents are only going to accuse her then Mini will only feel HS to blindly supports babita. And will think that HS cares only for babita.

So? Isn't it her responsibility to inform the adults about her whereabouts so that they don't get worried? That too, given the situation in which she left? She needs to learn how to take some responsibility for her own actions too. She can't go around doing whatever she wants and expect others to pander towards her every need.

If HS scolds her for making Babita worried, then he's correct to do so. Minnie was wrong to make her worry to this extent. She's also wrong in saying those harsh words and building onto Babita's guilt and stress. Literally every single aspect of Babita's life is now being tinged with guilt. How is she supposed to live a life like this? If this carries forward, she runs the danger of repressing herself to the point that she has a complete shut down. Simply acting on other people's desires and refusing to express what she wants for herself. This is not healthy behavior and I truly worry for her.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

to think they started off with Mini is the kind of daughter anyone wish to have and ended up, she is one of the worst nightmares parents of teenage kids can have is actually pretty sad.. more than Babita and Hanuman, it is Mini's character that has been butchered and the makers do not even seem to realize it

This I am not butchering... This is the result when you give ur child the deserved Independence but the take it for granted aur maa baap ke maa baap ban jate hai hi they don't realize that the crossed their limits...

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

To be very very honest, I don't think any parent trusts their children this way. Specially when Mini behaves with Mickey that way. Specially when Babita herself went through that stage recently in life and is constantly reminded about this is bad and crude ways.