1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 28

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

as a woman i am really sorry for what all you had to go through. HS jaise character sirf fiction main hote hain. Warna you hqve to be really strong to deal with the world. Today mini could say so many things because they got timely support from hs otherwise she would have been singing different tune abt her dadu beeji and her loveless bua

Thank you, dear. Even in my darkest days, I never lost faith in God. That's what gave me the courage to do what is right, to learn to listen to my heart no matter how strange or unexpected the situation would be.

You know what's funny? If I had a chance to re-live my life I would not change a single thing about it. It toughened me so much and really made me discover myself. I had no one like HS but I have become an HS to a lot of women I come across who suffer like I once did. I will continue to do this till the day I die.

Yes, HS will have to teach her to find the right balance about how to use your freedom the right way. The how is very important and both mother daughter have a lot to learn from HS and NB in that regard.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But the minute Babita takes her decisions, Mini throws tantrums.

Today all Mini needed to say was — Babes you do whatever you want to. You are not wrong.

I wan to keep my relations with Dadu Biji. Let me.

That’s it. Instead Mini ended blaming Babita for the torture she went thru and whitewashed her blood related family.

Mini also needs to make up her mind and let Babita be. Mini flip flops a lot.

Yeah and part of that is also about Babita learning not to be so bothered by Minnie's tantrums all the time. Things can't always go her way.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I mean, I still love it when he calls her chhori, but beta sounded so sweet.. Also loved the way he pulled her arm and tried to stop her but looked at her in that furious state in major surprise... Then tried to do the countdown...

I am wondering if he indeed will punish her and send her out of the house one day like the had said he would if she lost her temper like that and misbehaved. This time it's with Khatri but if he ever sees her misbehaving with Babita or worse still, with him, phir to Minnie ki shaamat aani hai. I love those disciplining scenes by the way. HS being all strict can be quite scary.

Loll, bahar jaa kar apni Naeem Bi ke ghar hi jayegi. 😆 But dunno if he'll send her out given the recent issue with her place at the Haveli. 🤔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

For some people it is. 🤔

It's almost as if we're not asking for respect but for all the treasures in the world.

Ugh... They aren't worth your time, seriously. Life is too precious to waste on things you don't like.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Khuranas call HS bad step father.

And then I want to see the reactions regarding to Khuranas. And helping them out of humanity sake. Old age and all those reasoning. 😃

Also, in any case, Mini will side with her Dadu Biji. I can see that.

I want Minnie to be put in a position to choose between HS and her grandparents, especially after Khatri's taunts to her yesterday about duplicate vs. asli family.

Let me see if she will ever choose HS.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thank you, dear. Even in my darkest days, I never lost faith in God. That's what gave me the courage to do what is right, to learn to listen to my heart no matter how strange or unexpected the situation would be.

You know what's funny? I had a chance to re-live my life I would not change a single thing about it. It toughened me so much and really made me discover myself. I had no one like HS but I have become an HS to a lot of women I come across who suffer like I once did. I will continue to do this till the day I die.

Yes, HS will have to teach her to find the right balance about how to use your freedom the right way. The how is very important and both mother daughter have a lot to learn from HS and NB in that regard.

I hate that you had to go through something so bad. But I truly applaud you and can I just say people like you and some others on this forum are an inspiration to stand up to injustice of whatever form.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I hope so:

Given Mini’s outburst today and some real blunders, I am losing the faith.

She was saying some things that were out of line. She has to learn to find a balance. I think she's just acting out as well, as she's fed up of everything and by the way, for all her lectures to Babita, she herself is now getting affected by log kya kahenge.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thank you, dear. Even in my darkest days, I never lost faith in God. That's what gave me the courage to do what is right, to learn to listen to my heart no matter how strange or unexpected the situation would be.

You know what's funny? I had a chance to re-live my life I would not change a single thing about it. It toughened me so much and really made me discover myself. I had no one like HS but I have become an HS to a lot of women I come across who suffer like I once did. I will continue to do this till the day I die.

Yes, HS will have to teach her to find the right balance about how to use your freedom the right way. The how is very important and both mother daughter have a lot to learn from HS and NB in that regard.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Just give Naeem Bi allll the love!!!! ❤❤❤

In many ways, Naeem Bi knows it too. But there's just something about hearing what you mean to someone, especially when things are going tought for you. It not only confirms the love that's already in your life, but it also to some respect, lessens the pain you've received.

Loll, now you know how I was feeling in the past 3-4 days. 😆 It just has a way of getting under your skin and making you feel something extremely powerful.

Yes, give her ALL THE LOVE!! She deserves it and needs to be showered with it even more now. I don't expect Minnie to go and cuddle her or kiss her to tell her she loves her. Only HS can do it, and yes his words would be a much-needed balm for her heartache. Just like Minnie need to hear what she meant to him, NB knows but can do with that dose right now.

Yes, we spent most of yesterday complaining about tracks and today they managed to make us feel so strongly about this. I am still surprised by my own reaction. I knew this topic and scene would come back, yet when I watched the episode something inside me just exploded.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

@not in an angry mode but used to keep saying it from time to time to remind people that accept me the way i am and so that they dont become unreasonable with their demand. I also keep on telling my teenage son not to see me as his mahaan mother as i am human and can err too.

That's so wonderful to hear. Yes, it's important for boys to have good female role models too.