1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 25

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

There are so many assumptions being made about Babes life in those 17 years

I kind of want FB episodes connected to present ...kind of like Beeji saying something to Babes which she finds annoying/meddling and then connect it with a FB episode of a similar situation when she was their DIL

I kind of want some perspective to Babes outburst cause right now there are too many assumptions of what happened and what didn’t

i hope they do the the main thing...the talks , which never happened . the divorce , then sr ks moving as neighbors everything happened but what about the real discussions where both parties conveying , accepting the mistakes & finally learning from the experience . minni got her chance during mita to criticize her dadu beeji for their tolerance of ashok & his ways (which was not enough) . similarly babita too needed to clear things but as the makers wanted she was always very understandable & accepted their reasons . off course dadu beeji were not worst in laws yet their silence , inadequate wisdom managed to bring great pain to the lives of almost 4 people .

but i know with this their chances of stretching story & drama will lessen so cvs will not really get into that.....

Originally posted by: _Reka_

They also shared a joint household while my father was at university and I was a baby. I could cook up a few dramas from the stuff that followed... So I can relate to Minnie too, because I on the other hand was always Mamie ki jaan. I would have taken no abuse of her as well.

I also understand that it is hard for Babita to swallow Minnie's support for her grandparents, but it is not just because of the Khuranas. It's also because of the toxic interdependence of the two that has been going on for too long now. Mickey should bring on some change....

I still hope NB blasts Irfaan's plans by moving in with HS. Open up one more room for her. And very much sorry for that Immu munchkin if that happens, because he would be missing out on so much.

Yes, it's a toxic relationship and this is where all this is headed.

As for NB, as much as I'd love to see her living in the haveli if things go haywire, I would love it even more if she can keep her house and live there with her dignity and memories because it's her right.

Yes, Immu will miss all this.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

In this age and day, financial independence is a must. I assume you girls in your early 20s, do not for anything compromise on that.

Take that from me. I am in early 30s. Independent since I was 21. It gives you great courage to never bow down to anyone.

Yup. I'm 24 and am still struggling with a lot of parts of myself but being financially independent is my main focus at the moment. Am still at that phase where I'm still trying to hold on a long term career though. Hopefully things get settled soon on that front. 🤞🏼😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

OMG, I get so mad when I hear people say things like this to their daughters that you should or shouldn't do something, warna sasural waale kya bolenge?

woh kaun hote hain kuch bolne waale?

Apparently they're everything. 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am with you on that.

I have seen my mom live that too. Still does. Just like Mini I have told her to stand up for herself. And whenever she does, she ends up hurting herself more coz she is not good at accusing people or stoooing to their level. She gives up and comes back more troubled. She doesn’t have it in her to fight and verbally abuse someone. And I have seen lovely type of people can stoop to any level if and when replied.

Anyhow, point is, I don’t excuse Khuranas under in-laws aise hote hai. I don’t want injustice. Fine, you love your daughter more but Just treat me like I am human.

Log itna bhi karle na, woh hi bohot badi baat hogi. It would be a good start at least.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

You are right.

But then when PB like show goes on and say in-laws tog in-laws hote hai.

That’s wrong too.

Are you justifying abuse by so gravely underplaying it?

I don't think they will do that considering the theme of this show. It will be resolved properly I think. Give it time.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yup. I'm 24 and am still struggling with a lot of parts of myself but being financially independent is my main focus at the moment. Am still at that phase where I'm still trying to hold on a long term career though. Hopefully things get settled soon on that front. 🤞🏼😆

It will. The thing is never give up. Good luck to you!

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think they will do that considering the theme of this show. It will be resolved properly I think. Give it time.

I hope so:

Given Mini’s outburst today and some real blunders, I am losing the faith.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It will be a recall to the time when he had told her to change and she had retorted by saying that till now no one had ever asked to her change, except him.

The thing with Minnie is that at times she is right in what she says, but her way of bringing things forward is absolutely wrong. And then there's the fact that because of this whole friendship relation she has with her mom, she doesn't see when she crosses the line with her. Just look at HS & Naeem Bi. There have been times when he has disagreed with her but he has never crossed the line with her by showing her disrespect.

Oh yes, I remembered that scene where she had said that and how she had hurt him by making him paraya as just their landlord. She can't do that now.

I agree, what she says is important, but the how is also important. HS was trying to explain that to her, that when she went out in the world people wouldn't put up with this behavior from her. I know this is going to be addressed and am looking forward to it.

Regarding HS' behavior with NB, it is exemplary! Contrast Babita's behavior with her though, she's been rude a couple of times but it's there under the surface. Babita doesn't see NB as a mother or mother-in-law. Not that she has to, but Minnie does treat her as a Dadi and I hope she learns some good things from NB and from observing HS' behavior with NB.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Is no one gonna talk about Hanita’s proper hug today? 😆

Mahila morcha nikla hai aaj to...