1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 21

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

@Bold - I felt bad for her there. It Happens with the kids whose mother’s are under confident, timid personas.

Her analogy about Karate was so apt. I wish writers focused on that more and not give her dialogue like Lovely dil ki buri nahi hai. I mean you can’t just excuse vile people like lovely so easily.

I think a lot of what Minnie said was correct but she also said some things that weren't right, and she probably even knew that, by her own admission. Babita will have to make her own decision in her own way, and not react in an extreme manner and opt for penance right away either. I have no clue where this is headed.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

He's being hard core selfish. As expected, he wants his Ammi to come with him and be a nanny to Immu so that Ruksana can earn better. He wants to sell the house to earn quick bucks. He's extremely short sighted.

He's wrong cause he didn't bother to consider his own Ammi's feelings. Him being desperate to sell the house is typical heartless son. Also he was so rude! I want HS to know about this and beat him up 😡

Nigodaa Irfan!

I also want HS to find out. I think he might hear about it when the house is put up for sale. 😡

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

@mishti . Its ok to be a rebel when people tell you to behave in a certain way to keep others happy. The more you listen to them the more they will expect from you. I also hope that your mom changes her mindset.

I'm a hard rebel.

I realised that I've ranted more than required. I'm not constantly reminded of that. Sometimes just like Mom passes on what she has seen all her life. Perhaps that.

Is no one gonna talk about Hanita’s proper hug today? 😆

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Its not if we think about it from decency point of view.. Chalo maan lia.. Babita was not their responsibility.. They needn't say anything for her

Lekin Lovely was their responsibility na? why did they not stop her when she was doing wrong? When she was churning out poison? her upbringing was their responsibility na? Why did they not stop her from doing wrong? Why did they let their daughter become a horrible person?

They failed to parent both their kids properly. Nateeja saamne hai.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I also want HS to find out. I think he might hear about it when the house is put up for sale. 😡

Same. I can't wait till HS finds out!!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

The way he called her beta when he was trying to calm her down.

I was just thinking, she's lucky to have a young father who can actually beat bad guys up (not that she needs his help in doing so). Icing on the cake is him being a cop.

I noticed that too!!!! I melted at that. Minnie jo bhi bulaye HS ko (papa, bapu, etc), can HS PLEASE call Minnie beta more often? All anger at Khatri was forgotten too! That is until he laughed his cringy laugh.

She and her mother both struck a pot of gold with HS. ❤️

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Yes Gur. I'm tearing up here. Shuddering thinking about it. That day I was confident today I stand really scared.😵

I'm shocked, exasperated and numbed.

Don't really know what your situation is, but if marriage isn't immediately on the cards, then don't think about it. Become solid on your individual terms - career, financing, jo bhi. Become the person that you're proud of and everything else will fall in line.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Anoop Soni? In what way?

With the way she was pacing back and forth in such a fast speed. 😆

If you've ever watched Crime Patrol, you'll know what I'm saying.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Then there's also the fact that we're the ones who are leaving the comforts of our family and home. Then, when we move into the new one, we have to deal with the fact that this new place will never be completely ours. There will always be that element where we have to be on our best behavior or we will be taunted about our lack of upbringing and whatnot.

Even now, my mom would sometimes teach me things by adding on that when you get married I don't want to hear that your mother didn't teach you anything. It's like our whole life we're groomed and prepared on how to deal with these in-laws. Tum khudh mar jao, par bas woh khush rahe.

True. And then at the end you hear in-laws to in-laws hote hai.

Where is your humanity when they are old?

So they don’t show humanity all their life but I am expected to show it when they need it.

Sure!