1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 10

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I will take your word for it.

Didn’t like Mini giving clean chit to in-laws aise hi hote hai. And Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

Thik hai writers want to white wash them.

No, actually what she was trying to say was that Babita should not expect so much from them or judge them by different standards to her own parents. They should not be held accountable for not treating her like their real daughter because that's not how they think. We were talking about this mindset in society, ke log chaahe kitna bhi bolein, par bahu ko beti ya daamaad ko beta bohot kam log maante hein, which is fine. That's their prerogative. We only get hurt when we expect them to do treat us as apne, because it's not common for such people to be able to do so - they always put blood ties above others.

Minnie wanted Babita to put things into perspective and assess what exactly she was angry about when it came to Dadu Beeji. Her intention was right but her choice of words was not, especially considering she ranted at Babita the whole time and mixed her own frustrations were in. She crossed the line in some bits, especially with Lovely bua-related comments. I also wonder if just as Babita had blamed her for spending 17 years suffering in silence, Minnie is also going to blame Babita one day for spending all those years looking after her. Jeez.

I am not in favor of Minnie getting involved in all this or even wasting her energy on grown up stuff. She has to study and just be a kid for a change. Par chalo, her savior mode is on too.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

17 years of taunt broke Babita emotionally

But for Mini - Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

Same Lovely called her Mother a bad mother on her wedding day. But Sure.

Mini today showed Khun khun hota Hai.

P.s I hate when ITV justifies low life lovelies saying dil ki buri nahi hai. Matlab sabko lovely jesa banana chahiye. Taunt everybody around yet you are dil ke aschhe. Take a bow!

what can be a bigger blood relation than that of a mother with a child? CVs proved that even a mother child relation holds no importance

Originally posted by: inlieu

Congrats on becoming a senior member tk2015!! 👏

Thank you! 🤗 (PB's effect, truly. 😆)

Originally posted by: tk2015

Ruksana, as far as we've seen is a kind-hearted, sweet lady. I actually felt bad for her. She's stuck between her husband (whom I suppose she can't really put down her foot with) and her MIL or what she truly feels is correct.

I agree, NB and Khurana's have a good relation separate to that of anyone else. But I still wish they had spoken up against Lovely. When Lovely said bakwaas for NB tabh nahi roka, abh bura laga when chotu Imran calls Beeji as Jhanjat daadi.

Ruksana is very kind so far and I would like to think that she and Naeem Bi would have had a wonderful relationship. Even when they go back, I would like to see Ruksana keep in touch with Naeem Bi.

Khuranas aur Lovely ke kilaaf bole? Aise sapne dekhna hi ek bhool hai. 😆

Imraan basically did the same thing that Lovely was doing to Naeem Bi. Difference is the Khuranas, while they may have been hurt, they didn't connect that this is how Naeem Bi would have felt when Lovely talked trash about her. Again, they knew that what Lovely was doing was wrong since they said so when they told NB that they wanted to leave. Fine, Babita ke liye toh kuch ni kaha, but at least they could have told her to shut her mouth and show some respect to an elder like Naeem Bi.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini could have told Babita to take a stand for herself without whitewashing Khuranas, especially Lovely.

I am sorry but writers today justified the taunts and torture a bahu goes thru as in-laws aise hi hote hai.

Wow. I am so enlightened. Thank You PB Team.

Bahus be damned. Maro.. Saho.. giro khadde mein. Coz in-laws to aise hi hote hai.

Woohoo 🥳 you go Mini.

In-laws bahu ko torture karein tou bhi dil k bure nahi cuz unka tou kaam hi torture karna hai.. Bahu ki feelings ka khyal na rakhein tou its okay because ye unki responsibility thori hai.. This show needs to go off air now.. It has taken a pathetic turn

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini also justified today that Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

👏 Thanks writers.

This irked me... But she was right that lovely new kabhi inka bura nahi chaha... But bura bolna nahi Chodti....

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i think HS also needs to sort out some feelings regarding his rights on mini. and mini needs a strict HS to get her in line.

Can you explain? Do you mean he has to show more authority?

Watched the episode... Mini was no wrong in whatever she said to Babita... The only thing babita took with her was the word selfish.... So agree to whatever Mini said....

Loved the tiny scenes btw Hannie and Hanita.... I really hope the elder khuranas don't agree to stay in haveli... They should stay back for the sake of NB.... But there were segments of Micky accident and Khuranas were there so guess they would be staying there.... As much as I don't wish to see them in haveli

Originally posted by: inlieu

yo baat phinal hai!

I noticed too, that she felt more at ease getting reassured by Beeji than Ruksana. They are hum umar, same age group, and Beeji could really understand what NB was going through, having experienced it herself. This is why I think they should stay with her. She needs them.

I just wanted to go give NB a big tight hug. I hated seeing her cry like that today. 😡

And to think it was her own son who made her feel this way. This is what broke her even more. That her own child was making her go through this at this age.

It's not a coincidence that she called HS her first son. She's constantly telling her that she's not her mother but she never refrains from giving him advice and the kind of love that a man like him will need. And despite not being her flesh and blood, he dotes on her. Blood and legality become semantics because she is his mother. There's no question about it.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Lovely bua dil ki buri nahi hai was the best part.. And no sare in-laws aise nahi hote.. What a load of crap.. Khuranas simply lived like that because it was convenient.. Warna Dadu would not have broken her relations with Mini when she changed her surname.. They wouldn't have badmouthed Babita when she refused to get Ashok released the first time..

Lovely agar dil ki brui na hoti tou she wouldn't have tried to spoil the wedding..

I mean, its so pathetic that they are trying to show the mistreatment of in-laws as in-laws tou hote hi aise hain.. Agar aise hi hote hain tou bahu bhi aisi hoti hai k bete se rishta torne k baad in-laws ki shakal bhi na dekhe.. Nonsense!

@bold well said.

I wish to see a balance in all this at some point.