1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 6

Umm.

Why everybody is stuck on the word "selfish?"

I actually went back and saw the scene again before commenting.

Minnie actually said that babes care for her ex in laws but is acting she doesn’t to be a good wife to hs.And this ACTING is making her look like a selfish.

Well,minnie didnt exactly said those words but thats what she meant.Atleast thats my opinion.She never called her mom selfish.She actually tried to stop her acting like a selfish which she is not.Read between the lines everyone.

Um,sorry if you people agree to disagree.I just really dont like how everyone starts bashing Minnie everyday.areh,even if she makes mistake, let Her. Thats what she is supposed to do at her age.She eventually learnt from her mistakes every time.

As far as i know,teenagers get into way more worse fights with their parents.here,this girl is being logical.

Atleast about babita,i got the bashing is somehow due to her over the top thinking and actions. I have lost all hopes about her.i really dont get why writers hate this character so much!i was so happy to see the shaadi montage thinking this time babes will stay strong and hold her family together.how stupid I was!

I miss the babita from her 1st job days.That was emancipation. Now, It's just character butchering.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Ks can stand up for Naim Bi.

She'll be left alone if they go. I'd love if they accept her apology and politely refuse to go.

Also the way blatantly Irfan told NB that he'll sell off no matter what, we're bound for HS vs Irfan conflict. NB is so smart, got the summary of everything in a second.

PS : I love how Babita said HUM aapko lene aaye hain. Small but significant! Loved it!

Also, I'm loving their small gestures. Just looking beyond the presentation and thinking about the emotions involved <3

NB is very smart indeed. I felt really bad for her.

HS looked like he was about to grind Khatri to a pulp, how dare he trouble his daughter?! I bet when he finds out Khatri is instigating Irfan even more regarding the property he will be super mad.

Bring on HS vs Irfan! I can't wait!

Originally posted by: inlieu

OMG we were just discussing this in the other thread earlier on!

I am so happy Khatri got a beating, it was long overdue and I wish HS had arrived a bit later.

Hahaha! I really really liked that bit. I remember Gurwati and I and others having similar discussion long back. I loved the Saroj analogy too. It was so perfect. That is how it is and no need to villain-ize it.

Arey he literally told the shamshaan commmet again in front of HS, still he's wondering about what he told. Maybe HS didn't register it.

Khatri has gone too far, he's literally pressurizing Mini to take a drastic wrong step. I'm so glad he got a beating. But I disliked Mini saying HS wont understand and he let her go too. But that's the teenage temperament I guess. Parents never understand!

Originally posted by: naq5

completely agree that babita was not wrong at lashing out at them. What mini was trying to tell her is that suddenly not caring about them or not wanting her to care about them was wrong. also she was equally wrong in blaming them completely about what she went through. Also what mini wanted was babita to accept to a cordial relation with them as they were not her enemies. she also bought in how pinku too did not think of her and insulted her yet she forgave him. She did not tell that her outburst was wrong.

she did not call babita selfish though she said she was coming across as selfish. And with babita - Mini babita has always needed mothering so mini speaking harshly to her has not been uncommon. And secondly babita asking not to accompany daadu beeji to the hospital was very selfish we need to accept that. Out of humanity even neighbors would do that to an old couple.

But that dosent mean babita goes and says sorry for her outburst accepting she was wrong to speak her mind like that and ask them to come & stay with her. instead she should have had a mature talk with them regarding how she was hurt but yet she still cared and loved them & wanted to maintain a good relation with them specially because of mini. How are they even supposed to understand where they went wrong if she goes and just says sorry.

I understand exactly what you mean. This is getting too complicated now. Mera sar dukh raha hai.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I for one- am not feeling gloomy at all.

I infact liked the episode, specially what all Mini pointed out. I loved how he took her in his arms. I loved how he said teenagers don't like parents handling their stuff (LOL) and I absolutely loved how she said hum aapko lene aayein hain☺️

Firstly, thanks for pointing out the Senior Member promotion. I didn't even realise. 😆

SAME!

Babes may have taken Mini's speech to a different tangent and Mini may have used very harsh words, but what she said isn't incorrect. Just the method is.

Can I also say, anger management is very important, but Khatri spewed so much sh*t today and yesterday. He deserved worse than what Mini did to him. Shamshan ghat view? Seriously? Any relative with a heart would be fuming, me included. Watching him still laughing after the beating got my blood boiling.

Babes finally accepting her and HS' relation fully and even in public! Balle balle! 🥳

Originally posted by: inlieu

I would also prefer if they choose to stay with NB. For once, let them do something for someone else's well-being who is not their blood relative. Besides, isn't NB now Dadu's rakhi sister?

Yup!

And in a way, I would dare to say Naeem Bi is much closer to the Khuranas than Irfan and Ruksana. Ruksana had tried to comfort NB, but NB dismissed her, choosing to gain that comfort from Beeji instead.

Then there's also that rooftop episode where Dadu and Naeem Bi stayed up all night and just talked. You don't do that with just anyone. I don't know if it's an age thing and hence can understand each other better, but deep bond toh hai inke beech mein. And besides, Naeem Bi hai hi itni pyaari. Kissi ka bhi dil aa jaye inn pe. ❤️

Sigh.. CVs again make Babita a scapegoat..

Mini and her savior complex "rolls eyes"

the only one I genuinely feel sorry for in this whole debacle in NB.. poor woman..

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Hahaha! I really really liked that bit. I remember Gurwati and I and others having similar discussion long back. I loved the Saroj analogy too. It was so perfect. That is how it is and no need to villain-ize it.

Arey he literally told the shamshaan commmet again in front of HS, still he's wondering about what he told. Maybe HS didn't register it.

Khatri has gone too far, he's literally pressurizing Mini to take a drastic wrong step. I'm so glad he got a beating. But I disliked Mini saying HS wont understand and he let her go too. But that's the teenage temperament I guess. Parents never understand!

You called me Gurwati after so long. ❤❤❤

Khatri did say it in front of HS but HS doesn't know the context behind it.

Chalo, ab toh Mickey bhi aa gaya. Now she can vent to him 24/7 and not have to bottle everything up.

Mini also justified today that Lovely Bua dil ki buri nahi hai.

👏 Thanks writers.

Vaise sab ki promotion ho ri hai. Meri bhi ho jaye. 🤣