Are you an introvert in real life? - Page 3

Originally posted by: RegressiveThug

Real life mai bhi forum kai jaise, dusro ke maamle mai beech mai ghush ke sulha ya aag lagane ki kosis karta hai🤣

Actually .. Yes .. Thats my role in my office as well as in my family .. I hate it when people refuse to see the obvious 😡 ( or what appears obvious to me 😆 ) .. Faltu ka tu-tu mein- mein irks me, so i make them see each other's POV and come to a conclusion - either fight it out or compromise for the greater good and move on ..

Introvert for sure.

I am awkward in public. The issue is i can sense if anyone is getting uneasy because of my awkwardness and it complicates the situation more. But i let it go thinking kya hi bolenge mere piche... kitna ajeeb banda hai..

Originally posted by: Cheesedumplings

I don't know. I can talk to people in real life when I want to, talk to strangers, etc. I can converse with everyone generally but I am bad at maintaining close relations. With friends, with relatives, everyone. Also, I hate crowds, parties, gatherings, etc. So, I don't know what to call myself, extrovert is a no.

Same here, I feel quite detached from everyone. Peace and solitude is my idea of heaven.

Originally posted by: Cheesedumplings

I don't know. I can talk to people in real life when I want to, talk to strangers, etc. I can converse with everyone generally but I am bad at maintaining close relations. With friends, with relatives, everyone. Also, I hate crowds, parties, gatherings, etc. So, I don't know what to call myself, extrovert is a no.

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And thats my problem in a nutshell .. Building a rapport or talking to people ( on a need basis ) is never an issue for me .. In fact i can be quite charming when i want to be.. But I tend to drift apart and sometimes this happens after i give people the wrong impression that they mean a lot to me .. There's nothing more i hate than the showdowns between me and the people i gave wrong impression to / whom i consider normal unlike me ..

Originally posted by: --Pro.vo.King--

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And thats my problem in a nutshell .. Building a rapport or talking to people ( on a need basis ) is never an issue for me .. In fact i can be quite charming when i want to be.. But I tend to drift apart and sometimes this happens after i give people the wrong impression that they mean a lot to me .. There's nothing more i hate than the showdowns between me and the people i gave wrong impression to / whom i consider normal unlike me ..

Are you an Aquarius? That would explain it

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Same here, I feel quite detached from everyone. Peace and solitude is my idea of heaven.

When i was little i sensed my parents were a little worried about my reclusive nature .. So, my dad used to give me lectures on how human beings are social animals .. I used to love watching travel n living / Discovery / National Geograhic / Animal planet channels .. Whenever a documentary on elephants came up , my dad used to point it out to make me understand in my own language , elephants are highly social beings and humans are a lot like elephants .. But irony is , right after that , i saw documentary on bears and how much of solitary creatures bears are .. and i identified myself more with bears than elephants .. 😆

@ Blue : Ditto ! ⭐️

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

Are you an Aquarius? That would explain it

I am Taurus.

Yes I think so...I don't like talking much. Jitna zaruri hai sirf utna hi...I can't talk for long hours...drains my energy. All my friends usually have this shikayat with me that I don't call them often (or ever). I like staying quiet and listening more. I get along really well with talkative people so that I'm not the one who has to do much talking. Lol

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

Are you an Aquarius? That would explain it

Okay. I am aquarius.

Originally posted by: --Pro.vo.King--

When i was little i sensed my parents were a little worried about my reclusive nature .. So, my dad used to give me lectures on how human beings are social animals .. I used to love watching travel n living / Discovery / National Geograhic / Animal planet channels .. Whenever a documentary on elephants came up , my dad used to point it out to make me understand in my own language , elephants are highly social beings and humans are a lot like elephants .. But irony is , right after that , i saw documentary on bears and how much of solitary creatures bears are .. and i identified myself more with bears than elephants .. 😆

@ Blue : Ditto ! ⭐️

My parents are still worried about me.😆

That's true, people aren't all the same just like animals. We all have different needs & values. Personally, I feel the most alone when I'm in a crowd. Socialising just saps all my energy which I then have to recharge by spending time with myself. Fortunately, I am able to put on an amiable facade with people. Somehow I hate the noise coming from all different directions in crowded situations too, And I hate having to fill in silence with trivial, empty words. What's so 'awkward' about silence?😕

Anyways, ditto on the travel, animals & nature point. I have a soft spot for (natural) beauty also. I even jokingly told my parents I want to join a Buddhist monastery.🤣

I would do it...but I have to give up on delicious food which is impossible.