Why are they rushing with love story? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Tina9911

See other show like khkt or yrhpk

The love stories are well paced n so much depth there is nothing here just superficial totally fake n no one can relate ar least not any trp viewers

Khkt? The same show where the hero always treats the female lead like shit. No thanks. Whatever they are showing it's still better than that show

I think the whole love drama is just a reality check to most of people nowadays #teenagers who has such high standards of love, who can't differentiate between love, like, crush and lust. They're all very interconnected and are like sides of a single coin and Sid's dialogue and everything is clearly stating that he treats Ishani just as a friend. The hug scene and his defense mode on whenever someone ships them shows his stand so the point is how will he let her down and brust her bubble.

Ishani on the other hand is a touch starved, love starved kid who has never experienced any kind of true love whether it's friendship wala love, family wala love or relationship wala love. So to her the definition of love could be bookish and all kind of love that happens on the TVs and movies where people generally glorify love so much and make it sound so much high standard when it isn't. Showdown one kind of love to glorify other and heartbreaks just doesn't seem real. In college life their are crushes who we think love and then the bubble bursts after sometimes, relations doesnt works and the toxic scars and brokenness surrounds the heart.

So, in my POV they're showing that phase as how Ishani will realize true love and for now she may even hate Sid for breaking her heart and what she think is love and friend zoning her as this ain't love, this is to be put simply attraction, crush, admiration, infatuation and everything of that kind.

Crushes happens and breaks and leave us with realizations. All relationships are not meant to be sometimes devil's hides behind the facades of prince charmings and witches plays under the facade of queens.

Originally posted by: wingnutx

I think the whole love drama is just a reality check to most of people nowadays #teenagers who has such high standards of love, who can't differentiate between love, like, crush and lust. They're all very interconnected and are like sides of a single coin and Sid's dialogue and everything is clearly stating that he treats Ishani just as a friend. The hug scene and his defense mode on whenever someone ships them shows his stand so the point is how will he let her down and brust her bubble.

Ishani on the other hand is a touch starved, love starved kid who has never experienced any kind of true love whether it's friendship wala love, family wala love or relationship wala love. So to her the definition of love could be bookish and all kind of love that happens on the TVs and movies where people generally glorify love so much and make it sound so much high standard when it isn't. Showdown one kind of love to glorify other and heartbreaks just doesn't seem real. In college life their are crushes who we think love and then the bubble bursts after sometimes, relations doesnt works and the toxic scars and brokenness surrounds the heart.

So, in my POV they're showing that phase as how Ishani will realize true love and for now she may even hate Sid for breaking her heart and what she think is love and friend zoning her as this ain't love, this is to be put simply attraction, crush, admiration, infatuation and everything of that kind.

Crushes happens and breaks and leave us with realizations. All relationships are not meant to be sometimes devil's hides behind the facades of prince charmings and witches plays under the facade of queens.

Agree

I think that's what they wanted to convey through this track . Love is not all about physical proximity. All her dreams after Asha's statement were filmy . So some sensible person should give her a talk on the difference between crush and love.

And I think sid will do that honour.

I think it's just a "crush" phase I feel it wouldn't be typical at all....Sid is an understanding guy when people expect him to behave harsh he will act sensible and let Ishani know what she's feeling isn't love at all we see how we were with all the girls who were after him by explaining to them that they deserve a better guy than him, so he will react the same way with Ishani too. Atleast I hope it goes that way because I can see Sid laughing it off instead and sitting her down to give her a life knowledge.

I think the love story is expected to be fast as even in dmg Armaan was in love with Ridhima from the 20th epi itself. Idk for sanjeevni 1.

Originally posted by: ms.nitya12

The wheels of how the story will progress has been set in motion 😊- they are just setting the characters, their equation & dynamics against/ with one another, each main character's response to the opposite other is still hanging in balance- Ishani has realised her feelings for Sid, not confessed, how she moves ahead remains to be seen, Sid's reaction & response still ambiguous with a lot that could freeze & moving on from there to thaw,with loads inbetween that could swing their love story, both are vulnerable victims of toxic past that poisons their present, regularly, this emotional baggage itself has a lot of weight & unloading it could test how far & how deep they are skilled to combat, whether that would influence or imbricate the stability & maturity of their relation.

you really put it so good manner and words.

I do not get this notion about "falling in love in some given time period" Love has no time limit that when can one fall in love. These are feelings which can develop anytime. Ishani and Sid both I see are zero ego people. They take no time to say thank you sorry when its required. Ishani is still somewhere is her child zone, a child who have missed warmth care, affection from long. So now even small affection makes her overwhelm. Like she has expected Asha and all to be against her after poster exposed. Even when she misunderstood Sid still he was with her, tried to make her understand and rather than saying sorry to him he wanted her to understand her fault about leaving Sanjivani. He was only one who asked if she is fine after poster drama and was behind her to make her feel good and keep in sanjivani. Then he put his life in danger for her. So after all this her having feelings for him is very natural. It has nothing to do with episode counting.

Recovering of Sid was shown that it took around a month in their timeline so when Ishani was taking care of him they would've interacted. So I do not find it rushed. and As Nitya said she have realized she loves him but have not told him yet. Also in Siddhart sir shows more than falling in love & ILU confession its afterwards progression which is shown because I love you does not mean they will be all happily living and won't have argument or tifts :)

Originally posted by: KootyPai

Slow progressions have their own charm. The thing is I'm not able to relate to Ishani. How has a person who has been so emotionally caged suddenly head over heels in love with Sid. They could have shown Ishani being friendly with Sid. But love.. I'm not able to relate to. I was atleast expecting it to be some crush sort of thing. But now it's clear that she loves Sid as she herself said.

She was not really emotionally caged nor She has any trust issues. She has germophobia as She got no one to touch or be with her. FIrst episode itself she was quite emotional after saving that kid. Even with Shashank she was crying openly in front of everyone. Slow progression is more valid when Hero is all hates heroine then keep insulting and later they move to friendship then love. Here it was not hate and Sids char is one who is very caring for everyone

Originally posted by: Rainz

I really hope they don’t follow the old trope of Sid deliberately breaking Ishani’s heart because “it’s for her own good” to get her to focus on her career again. Their relationship has been fairly unconventional thus far - I’d personally prefer it stay that way.

To the comment about Ishani falling in love too quickly, it actually doesn’t surprise me. Ishani has been starving for love her whole life. Other children who had gone through what she had possibly would have chosen to become hardened, cruel people. Ishani chose to become a doctor and save people, despite how other human beings treated her. So somewhere in her heart, she stayed open to love. And assuming that Sid is the first person who ever truly put her well-being above his own, I think it’s natural that Ishani would develop feelings for him very quickly. She had been starved for someone to care for her, to truly see her for who she is. Sid did that. I do hope that Ishani’s logic and practicality kick in soon through, and realize that what she’s feeling is because Sid saved her, and not because she truly knows him and fell in love with him as a whole person. They barely know each other right now.

@bold: very well put. Totally she was always opened to love but none of people trusted her ever or treated her well. They always looked upto her as guilty person due to her parents. So after what Sid does for her its totally believable for me that she fell in love. She really does not know what exactly love. But yes I hope she snaps out soon and get back to her work as something is needed to put her feelings at back

Originally posted by: wingnutx

I think the whole love drama is just a reality check to most of people nowadays #teenagers who has such high standards of love, who can't differentiate between love, like, crush and lust. They're all very interconnected and are like sides of a single coin and Sid's dialogue and everything is clearly stating that he treats Ishani just as a friend. The hug scene and his defense mode on whenever someone ships them shows his stand so the point is how will he let her down and brust her bubble.

Ishani on the other hand is a touch starved, love starved kid who has never experienced any kind of true love whether it's friendship wala love, family wala love or relationship wala love. So to her the definition of love could be bookish and all kind of love that happens on the TVs and movies where people generally glorify love so much and make it sound so much high standard when it isn't. Showdown one kind of love to glorify other and heartbreaks just doesn't seem real. In college life their are crushes who we think love and then the bubble bursts after sometimes, relations doesnt works and the toxic scars and brokenness surrounds the heart.

So, in my POV they're showing that phase as how Ishani will realize true love and for now she may even hate Sid for breaking her heart and what she think is love and friend zoning her as this ain't love, this is to be put simply attraction, crush, admiration, infatuation and everything of that kind.

Crushes happens and breaks and leave us with realizations. All relationships are not meant to be sometimes devil's hides behind the facades of prince charmings and witches plays under the facade of queens.

hehe every person before realizing says same that She/he is my friend. As Rahil said today he never cooked halwa for anyone else. He is over protective only for Ishani, always checks if she is ok, if she is happy, He cares about her germophobia more than herself, even when she has MU him still he invited as guest of honor and really checked everytime to make sure she is enjoying. Sid is used to being around the girls and has caring towards everyone so he has still not realized that Ishani has made her own special place in his heart. He is being restless from her avoidance, wanted her badly to like something about her and even admitted that he never cared of anyone what they think of him but for Ishani he badly wanted to clear his name. So I feel he loves her already

Originally posted by: KhayalonKiMalik

I think the love story is expected to be fast as even in dmg Armaan was in love with Ridhima from the 20th epi itself. Idk for sanjeevni 1.

yes exactly he fell in love I think even before that. After that when he was being friend with her then even she had developed feelings for him. Spm sirs story generally show progression after love that how do they actually keep up the relationship afterwards