Yaariyan #6 Main ro ro ke ganga nahaaonga - Page 10

Wait... are sammi and sami 2 different users posting in this thread?

Lol meri dimag ki bati abhi chalu huwi hai 😆

Good points sami and sana :)

I agree, there is a difference between reality and tv shows.agar umair jaisa hubby kissi ka ho real mein, she should leave him. Per tv show I like umair and sadia.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Grossly untrue.. husband ko wife or right hai but only with wife's consent.. if the wife does not want to indulge in physical intimacy with her, husband cannot force her.. That is prohibited.. wife ka chorna na chorna is secondary.. but. Husband forcing himself on his wife without her consent is a gunah.. husband is not even allowed to force his wife to live with his parents.. wife has the right to demand a separate house from him and you think husband has such unconditional right on her body?! No..

The rest I think is just going in circles.. you think it's acceptable if Sadia and Umair end up together for whatever reason and I think that end would be worst possible.. you think people should stay in such a marriage, I think no child deserves such a father

And lastly, whether Sadia forgives Zoobie or not does not concern me.. simply because it wouldn't impact her life in any way .

mere comment ko phir se dekho.. mene kaha hai BUT WIFE KO YE PASAND NA HO TO WO APNE HUSBAND NO CHOD SAKTI HAI

Islamic way ya phir hadees se jo pata chalta hai ek woman par sabse jayada haq uske hubby ka hota hai and man par uski mom ka.. and jo physical hone ki baat hai.yaha par bhi bahot si baate hao hadees se.. but wo yaha discuss karna over ho jayega b/c hum koi debate nahi kar rahe.. normal conversation ho raha hai.

@blue mene ye bhi bola hai sabki thinking different hoti hai I respect ur views.

zobi k wajah se hi to sadia ka nikaah umair se hua tha impact kaise nahi hota zobi sadia ki life me.. ofcourse hota hai

sadia ne uske har choti badi mistakes ko nazar andaaz kar kar k khud ko is stage par le aayi hai.. agar pehle hi zobi ko shut call de deti to aaj wo itna aage na bhadh sakti thi.

sadia apni dushman khud hai.. use koi kya kahe.. wo khud doormate banti rahi hai umair k saamne.. kya wo ek independent woman ki tarah apne bacche ko nahi bada kar sakti thi.? bilkul kar sakti thi and abhi bhi kar sakti hai.. but wo nahi karegi. b/c uski soch is side aati hi nahi.

umair ko humne itna bura bula kaha hai k 6 thread bhar diye..butSAMI, CHAHAT AND ME hamesha moments ko light karne k liye kuch drama se hatt kar alag baat bhi kar lete hai something funny.. but iska ye bilkul bhi meaning nahi hai k hum real life me umair jaise husband ka behaviour ko accept karege.

Originally posted by: sami011

also kuch hum gareebon ka bhi socho...ek baar phere le ke saat janam ke liye phas gaye🤣

meri bestie hindu hai usne mere hubby ko shadi k next day call ki and Said.. is janam me sana aapki but next me meri hogi 🤣I was like ohh God first meeting par koi ye bolta hai.. so mere bhi 7 janam fix hai.. lol

Originally posted by: abyan62

Wait... are sammi and sami 2 different users posting in this thread?

Lol meri dimag ki bati abhi chalu huwi hai 😆

chalo der se hi sahi jali to.. 😆

Originally posted by: abyan62

Good points sami and sana :)

I agree, there is a difference between reality and tv shows.agar umair jaisa hubby kissi ka ho real mein, she should leave him. Per tv show I like umair and sadia.

not only umair sadia, zobi ko bhi koi nahi bardaast kar sakta.. lol.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Grossly untrue.. husband ko wife or right hai but only with wife's consent.. if the wife does not want to indulge in physical intimacy with her, husband cannot force her.. That is prohibited.. wife ka chorna na chorna is secondary.. but. Husband forcing himself on his wife without her consent is a gunah.. husband is not even allowed to force his wife to live with his parents.. wife has the right to demand a separate house from him and you think husband has such unconditional right on her body?! No..

The rest I think is just going in circles.. you think it's acceptable if Sadia and Umair end up together for whatever reason and I think that end would be worst possible.. you think people should stay in such a marriage, I think no child deserves such a father

And lastly, whether Sadia forgives Zoobie or not does not concern me.. simply because it wouldn't impact her life in any way .

Agree a husband cannot force his wife to get physical but a wife cannot refuse either without a valid reason (wife refusal is also disliked as then it may encourage the husband to carry out prohibited acts)

I think Sadia and Umair are acceptable because Umair is perfectly capable of being a good father and a husband (we have seen a brief sight in past) and that is what matters ...if Umair was not capable of changing then it would be right of Sadia to leave him

See people make mistakes ..even sin ...but Allah allows room for rependence if one genuienly wants to apologise and make things right

If ones rependence is genuine then there is no point of holding them guilty for the rest of the life ... Allah is the most forgiving ...we human are nothing Allah maaf kar sakte hain tu we can atleast try

Aise agar koi maaf na kare tu sab rishte khatam ho jayein ge slowly

Sadia forgiving Zubi does matter, bec sadia has always blindly trusted zubi and overlooked the mess she created, so if she forgives her then its possible in sadia future life, zubi can again add poison. zubi cant see sadia happy. Zubi cant be trusted

if she is forgiving Zubi then forgiving Umair shouldnt be a big deal for her in my opinion bec Zubi is her own blood, her own sister is her biggest enemy

if sadia decides not to forgive Umair, i wont have a problem with that either, but she should not have zubi around in her life too. that will be very unfair on her part

Originally posted by: sami011

Also guys a thought came in my mind,Umair told sumbul he would come directly to the hospital and we saw sumbul with her mom in her arms on the bed.Do you think we may get some flash backs of Aaliya's death with umair /sadia later on .Do you guys think they were able to say goodbye.

maybe but i dont want aaliya to ask sadia to forgive umair, if they are the endgame, it should be a choice both make this time under no pressure. umair has made his choice he wants sadia in his life while sadia is yet to make decision. she is angry with him so her real decision will come in the final episode next week

ahmer is anger divorced sadia

umair in anger raped sadia

zubi in anger married ahmer on rebound

sadia should not make any long term decisions in anger

Originally posted by: sami011

See ruby whatever crappy way writers showed the mess of Sadia/umair consummation .One thing remains true that writers intended it to show differently than they showed it.I could be still proven wrong and Umair may acknowledge it in last episode .But I feel what makers were trying to show was that once rejected by zoobie in drunken state of mind Umair went to that room with subconscious intent of making his Nikha jaeyz with Sadia. Was it silent consent by Sadia/did not resist we may never know.But way the writers have taken it ,it was more to show amnesia by umair hence he started to doubt her.

Sadia was saying mukar kaise sakte ho tum and also she was just angry with him but accepted that she has proper marriage with him .She told him you keeping relationship with my sister is najaez

So that is my thought process --- she does not consider it as rape and my response to your question is based on that.

I feel Umair absolutely love her truly ,he is going to confess for sure.It probably is going to happen in a very dramatic situation --either she will hear it when she is in life threatening situation during child birth or some times earlier.There is also a possibility that she overhears him may be telling zoobie or sumbul.I feel there will be a showdown between him and zoobie and she may confess to him and Sadia overhears everything.Only then she will believe it I feel.

See sadia is insecure about Umair,she thinks he has sympathy for her but not love.He will eventually say that he loves her but how that remains to be seen.....

He has to show how he feels in his actions too,his caring attitude towards Sumbul would also melt Sadia's heart.

Ruby I must confess Sumbul holding dying Aaliya was very emotional scene for me,in a way it is better to have happened with one of her kids,that woman loved her kids.....

sadia said tumne meri izaat pe haat dala. i felt she meant he raped her. she did try to resist thats why the camera focused on her bangle and duppata on the floor next morning. it was shown for a purpose. anyways if the writers dont bring it up in the final episode, the it means audience will accept it as rape, bec sadia tears during the night, expressed that she had been through something she didnt want to go through. it was a painful site to see.

yes aaliya death scenes were painful and both marayam and uamir acted well. i probably cooled off a bit with umair bec i watched the scenes backwards. first the dna report ones and hen aaliya death, so it helped me feel bad for umair, otherwise if the scenes were not in same episode, i probably would have still be hopping mad at him. aaliya was the best woman and person so writers added her death smartly in the story with dna report revelation so audience feels for umair

many will be rooting for umair sadia in the end now even those who wanted her to dump him 3 weeks ago

yes they should have a convo about their feelings at the end bec sadia needs the security somehow. umair has got the security bec she is carrying his child.